Today tried the cry-out method on my bb Alden twice, tired of every time need to carry & pat him. I felt so terrible and heatpain... He cried for 20 mins and his cry escalate into scream! Bo bian, I surrender and pick him up. The moment he was picked up, he stopped crying. And when I put him down again, he cried again for 10 mins till fell asleep. Felt so bad, esp now he's giving me his charming smile, like he has forgotten the whole thing... but i still felt so lousy, dare not tell hubby, he sure scolds me.