Mel
I used tommy tippee for Kea, he is okay with it.. Mikayla needs to learn how to suck bottles.. dun rush, she is still very young..
Xman
Hm.. perhaps ruoxi is still on the adjusting stage, dun worry after awhile she will love mei mei more than every one.
Nowadays Meg will help us to shake the rocker when bb is crying and she will sing the song ama sings to bb as well.. so far so good, no jealously. she now understands, when mummy feeds baby means she gotta wait if she wants anything..
I always tell her Wait, once i am done with bb i will attend to you.. so far i am always keeping my promise, once bb is done, i will put him down and attend to Meg (ie, watch dvd, take this, take that, etc).. so i think more or less she knows I only got a pair of hands hahaha..
By shoving ruoxi to cc, she will feel more and more jealous to mei mei, i think u should just ignore her when she cries, but when she behaves well try to praise her..
What nining suggested is quite true, tel her "rUOxi can do this, ruoxi can do that, but bb cant.. bb is still learning.." by doing that she will be more confident..