Ah blur,
saw pax's link about the original cake, its actually very nice woh. so, its the hot temperature in singapore and maybe cake handling. overall your modified cake is also not so bad though. Mayb you had high expectation on the cakes, then not easy to accept a half melted cake. So, did the cake NICE to eat? that's more important right? (me very practical hor).
Then, feedback (complain) is a must, and i believe it will solve your problem. Then u switch your attention to manage your fears and emotions.
its not easy, but can be done. i dun think u need to go see psyc la cause u already questioning yourself if its that serious (consciously u OKAY woh). u need more LIMKOPI time, and more "fa1 xi4" time with your sis, friends,etc.. cause u dun want to fa xie in front of pete right? do let him know your concern, he will understand and be cooperative.
if u wnt him to poke needles (acup), then just ask him to go la, no problem one. guys are like that. some of them just lazy and dun feel like doing, but if we say GO GO GO, then they will go just to make us happie or less worried.
hope u feel better today.
Nana, autum i also dun like those forceful marketing strategy.