(2007/03) March 2007 MTBs


i need to go to bed now.. tired mummy = grouchy mummy.. dun chat too late k, u all should go to bed soon too.

see u all tomorrow.
 
bbgirl: but grinding is all thing all reduced to very very very small pieces right? unlike puree in blender.. can choose how long to pulse it.. no?

in any case.. what i meant.. whatever extra processing done to anna's food can be stopped now.. and i think anna can handle the texture now.. coz by 9mths. food shouldn't be pureered anymore.. esp if they have teeth. need to give them something to 'chew/gum' on..
 
pax: Just to add before i go.. the rice cakes and corn thins.. damn suitable to eat with rosted pepper dips, roasted mash eggplant (my favourite!) and steamed pureered butternut squash.. delicious.. good finger food.. think when rae decides that she wanna try finger food, i will give her the rice cakes with pureered Butternut squash!

nite everyone!
 
night star.. night everyone..

pax and bbgirl.. night.. dun discuss puree vs grind for too long hor..

pax: i will go to sleep beside 'stupid' boy...tomorrow i will read his smile differently liao.. trust me.. he is no longer cute and innocent.. *sigh*
 
good morning...
what leapfrog??? good ah?? can buy?

astro, i cannot tahan the hospital officer who said congratulations. so insensitive.. reminded me of my bad experience in TMC last time... sigh! those nurses anyhow made comment without any support. i dun like.
 
morning mummies.

YE zzz last night from 730pm to 5am this am without fussing.

astro, how to make her wake up later than 5am ah? i'm lazy to dig out my GF book. ask you faster lah
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and hor, i don't wanna let her "suffer" for this one. i mean if she wanna zzz, fine. if not also ok lah, cos she zzz v long liao leh. i know GF say can zzz even much longer lah...

i go read archive first brb
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baby girl,
how come so tired? i mean you said it's for procreation only cos so tired. you v bz with work?

astro,
what that zzz guide say ah. i mean, i read a few forgot which book says wat. pls refresh my memory

star,
why you wanna stay same room as rae leh? lidat next time you walk out of the room she cannot zzz, also problem leh.

re: peeping during CIO
when i peep, either my gal sensed it or she smelled me or what. she cry even louder. so i just shut the door and let her be. she's bad tempered lah. not anna. anna's the clever one. no need CIO too long

re: puree
yday my mil give big lumps of apple in my gal's porridge. landed up my gal vomitted. cos mil feeding 18mths old nephew as well, suspect she lazy to cook till fine fine. but i never say anything in front of her. just felt sorry for my gal. cos really big lumps or apple
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morning everyone.. sq and qq.. the 'q's around only?

*yawn*.. shacked. must be the flu..

SQ: give me YE's feedin scedule (feeding times and amounts) and nap times and duration.. than i can see if i can come out with something (the potential cause of the early morning awakening).. eehh. me used the GF sleep guide.. ehh.. what abt that sleep guide?

QQ: yalor.. sometimes they talk without using brains one.. this leapfrog is apparently a teaching materrial to read (?) for bbs.. asked yesterday based on what theory.. 'ignored' coz everyone too busy with getting the best leapfrog for their bbs..

SQ: better tell ur MIL.. apples when cooked still quite firm.. hard to gum.. not recommended as 'lumps' to be chew/gum on.. else might choke..
 
astro,
ya la. she choked and then vomitted.

i asked what does the GF zzz guide say? cos i'm quite sure i've read it before, but there're so many books around i forgot which says what?! i just try to decipher the info lah.

ok, typing out her routine in a while
 
QQ,
i think u type wrongly lah. i think u meant the hospital comment for me right.. tell u something.. it's TMC! so hor, i don't think i ever want to go back there, unless really necessary. that's why when i had EJ, I chose Mt A.
 
SQ: tell ur mil lah.. in her face. else skali next time choke more chiam.. how? touch wood lah.. not cursing YE. but htink u get my pt..

ehh.. the sleep guide said many things.. which thing u want to know?
 
autum,
just wanna say that you have my sympathy. cos after i delivered YE and when she was fighting for her life (we had the PD telling us a couple of times he doesn't know if she will make it. then my hubby got to rush back to hospital at 2am (after leaving at 12 midnight) cos she was looking so bad they called him)...

the nurses still come and ask me how's your bb? machiam it's just some minor jaundice that kind! really insensitive. and my neighbour and her hubby kept making noise with their bb throughout the two nights!

so you have my sympathy
 
oh and autum,
then still got this LC and head nurse kept coming in to "attack" me to pump my milk every two-three hours! and they kept telling me "esp for you hor, no baby to latch, so must pump else no milk"!!!

wa kaoz. i was more concerned whether the bb will survive, not whether there's milk to feed the kampong!!
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SQ: what happened to YE? severe juandince? u mean ur room mate roomed in with bb.. and cooed to the bb all night long.. not considerate??
 
astro,
specifically i wanna know how to stretch from 5 to 7am. i mean her waking time.

i'm quite sure it's not due to lack of food/milk leh. cos she always dun want when i feed her. so when she wakes up at 5am, i will only feed her at 6am. she must play awhile first before she realise she's willing to drink leh

aiyo, i must strategise how to tell mil liao
 
astro,
my placenta ruptured and she swallowed a lot of blood clots. couldn't breathe. she came out blue. we weren't sure if we would lost her if the PD wasn't there during birth. it's a scary thot. we only knew for sure she was fine after 2 weeks in NICU. and she just got the all-cleared for her health and development last month when she was 7 month old. her bill cost me the price of a car. we almost had to sell our house cos we din noe when things would be beta.

and this is to cut the very long story very short
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SQ: could be the nap times..duration of the naps in the days.. if u are very sure that it is not food.. i think easier to analyse if i have YE's schedule lei..
 
SQ: wah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 *speechless*. now iknow why u love YE so much.. so hesitant to start CIO untill u absolutely sure.. think i were u.. i would have let teng continue with his pacifier dependency after this close shave..

how come placenta will rupture? than.. it means C-section and premature birth?
 
astro,
natural birth
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and yes. that's why i can say v loud that nobody understands her more and loves her more than i do. maybe that's why she clings on to me so tight. dun want anybody elses.

ok ok schedule schedule. aiyo, i'm so easily distracted
 
i suspect it's the nap times.. either too long.. or not enough.. u type out.. and let me slowly take time to anaylse hor. but by today lah. coz now my head like light light kind. strong virus.. *Sigh*
 
SQ: which means placenta ruptured during birth? Gynae got tell u how come?

alamak.. the more i read.. the more i feel my experience with teng is so insignificant..and there i was.. whining and wallowing in self pity all the time with the experience (pre and post).. so malu.. better shut my trap from now onwards * dig hole bury head*
 
AStro.. tian schedule .. to compare with small eater like YE..
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6.30- 7am 2-3oz (no appetite like that)
9am 4-5oz
nap 1-1.5 hours
11am lunch
1pm 4-5oz
1.30 nap 1-1.5 hours
4pm 4 oz
5.30 (optional) short nap
6pm dinner
8.30-9pm 3oz sleep...

midnight = fuss for a few times, but not for milk. I slowly will look into this .. cause she recovered liao.
 
6am: wake up
630am: 4-5 oz milk, depends on her mood
730-8am: breakfast (cereal, avocado, whatever). i give her any amount she wanna eat.
9am: 6-7 oz milk at mil's place, then nap for half to one and a half hour
11-12nn: lunch (porridge etc)
2pm: nap for another hour or so
4pm: fruit
530pm: dinner
730pm: 5oz milk then zzz till next am

paisei, how come people's schedule so sui2 sui4 mine type until so messy ah?!
 
QQ!!
looks similar hor their schedule?

astro,
dun worry about the schedule lah. i type it out my head also spinning liao. that's why i argar argar wan.

as for the placenta rupture, just put it to suay1. no one knows why or when it happens. that's why i'm so scared if i have #2. plus my pregnancy was plagued with problems, every min we worry about the bb's life. i will go crazy if i go through this again.

and hor, there's only one or two cases of such scenarios each year. this year, we were the 2nd one. i never dared ask what happened to the 1st bb. if he/she survived
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creepy.

ok, let's talk about happier things. else the mummies will feel so down with all these heavy talks.

and astro, that's why i'm v irritated when someone tells me how to discipline my kid. after going through all these, what do they know? and that includes my mum and in-laws. as well meaning as their intentions are.
 
SQ: i think i got it .. but just to confirm.. does YE have any problems taking her dinner.. will she fuss?

QQ: ehh.. so with tian's schedule.. ehh. need me anaylse for u or what ah?
 
astro.. analyse la... why she wakes up a few time in the nite.. it is too cold? or she hungry? but she dun want milk one... water also dun want. she just want to sleep.
 
SQ: i am looking out for nap durations.. and that if it is a cause for YE's early morning duration..

possible for u to include also the type of solids she eats for her solids meal, exact amounts..?
 
Hi...wow....the posts really run fast leh...

i last nite didn't log in, already have sooo many posts for me to read..hee...

Babygal and Autum, wow.....your memory really very good leh...still can remember that i'm pregnant...heee..

Babygal: hi, my son also the same as Anna, like to do Yoga, stretch out 1 of his legs and station on 3...then i told my mum, hey, look like dog pissing like that...hahahaha!!!...but after that phase, he started to knw how to crawl liao..... :p


Hi Jyun, is teh trial lesson for the Kindermusic for this cming sun confirm coz i need to let my husband knw, as he will be the 1 accompanying the bb, can i be inside too???

Thanks!!
 
QQ: not taht i not free or what.. but i remembered typing out quite a detailed anaylse for u quite some times back.. dun misunderstand me.. i am fine with doing all this.. but just ur nanny.. she is going to stand in ur way. in implementing any necessary changes.. Tian is going to ding dong around for a long long time.. unless nanny really listens to what u say and implements it.. sometimes.. not the bb fault or schedule fault watever. all these can be changed given time.. sometimes it the adults lah.. in ur case.. ur nanny..

which is why.. teng still fussing/maniupating now.. but i tell my mum just let him be.. till i recoverd and he recovers then we do what needs to be done.. else very siong for all parties but no results..
 
astro. i know..
then hor, tian's schedule improved a bit over time. did u see it? huh.. hee. but still fuss a little at night.

next month i am taking over for 3 weeks. then will slowly adjust back. upon successful schedule in my hand, will pass back to nanny sui sui, and ask her to follow sui sui.
my plan la.. maybe i also cannot make it.
 
morning!!! wahahaha... good day...

cooked porridge... COD FISH SMELL BETTER DEN THREADFIN!!! omg... and broccoli too... is my first time putting this flower veg into porridge... wahaha... also toufu... wish mi luck... hope bel wont burst with rash all over her body... :p
 
SQ, ya lor just happened that i adjusted quite sui then passed to nanny (even my mil). nanny there a bit haywire cause she pat tian to sleep. also tian fussy milk drinker. sometimes not full sometimes less/more. then whole thing haywire. wanna sleep but hungry. long story..
now with less feeds, porridge, should be easier to do it. i hope..

ya nanny very sayang tian. and cannot bear to see her hungry. initially she feed every 2 hours. faint.. cause her grandson is like that 2 hours, then got add in cereal somemore.. 8 oz somemore.. record 16 oz..
 
SQ. yes yes... 16 oz + cereal (1 small spoon).
his record high. i told hb.. wah, like that gu ni hoon also a lot ah.. that's tian's one whole day of supply. haha!!!!
cause they dun give porridge until he is one year old la. maybe he was hungry. i suspect... shh..

See yee... my gal also do yoga. haha! but not crawling on 4.
 


SQ: tian's nanny is very expereienced.. too experienced. and like with all expereinced ppls.. she failed to respect QQ's wishes how she prefers tian to be taken care off...

QQ: dun mind me.. i saw how nanny fed her grandon.. and she used that to brag.. one word comment.. siao..
 

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