A short clip of YT's performance in school taken by SIL. Her best friend is on her right. (Left on the video)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vymuFqKbPwg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vymuFqKbPwg
(2007/03) March 2007 MTBs
- Thread starter rae_cheong
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yvonne, dun drink alcohol bah.
now i am in confinement, i did take some alcohols at night, and the next pump i throw everything to play safe. i kind of agree on what mejo said.
so u also go chongpang market? i see
kelley, yalor. spend more pte time with her, should help. jay is boasting how much time he spent with tian, thus tian is still ok and she loves her didi. but she said if didi dun open mouth to drink milk, she will use thermometer to put under his armpit(a punishment for didi), scary.
SQ, yes now we are venturing into wet market. sounds scary cause i find myself so auntie.
AAA, yes no problem with $$ then cause her kids all very nice, they give her $$ every month.
now i am in confinement, i did take some alcohols at night, and the next pump i throw everything to play safe. i kind of agree on what mejo said.
so u also go chongpang market? i see
kelley, yalor. spend more pte time with her, should help. jay is boasting how much time he spent with tian, thus tian is still ok and she loves her didi. but she said if didi dun open mouth to drink milk, she will use thermometer to put under his armpit(a punishment for didi), scary.
SQ, yes now we are venturing into wet market. sounds scary cause i find myself so auntie.
AAA, yes no problem with $$ then cause her kids all very nice, they give her $$ every month.
Yvonne: I thnk so loh.. cos I reason so many times she still wana do it… so sometimes I jst “stop snatching from mei mei”. I thnk she realise we are only scolding her not mei mei
Joelle: noted but ashlyn doesn’t even wana follow me..
I know I jst hv to try n try
QQ: haha.. tian so cute.. yes.. I will try private time with her alone.. like going supermarket n macdonalds?
Joelle: noted but ashlyn doesn’t even wana follow me..
QQ: haha.. tian so cute.. yes.. I will try private time with her alone.. like going supermarket n macdonalds?
QQ, i actually prefer to shop in wet market. Everything look so fresh...ha ha.
My mum told me, CO commented to her, that her fren's dd n mm came to fetch her from school with envy look. then my mum told her, cos her mm n dd not working. So i must come back and made her "secure". me n hb like 对不起 她.
so sad...
My mum told me, CO commented to her, that her fren's dd n mm came to fetch her from school with envy look. then my mum told her, cos her mm n dd not working. So i must come back and made her "secure". me n hb like 对不起 她.
so sad...
CK,
It's will prefer to have their own parents with them. Esther is sick so i stay at home with her and send Dylan to nanny house. Dylan knows and he say i want mummy. Hai..., but this lazy mummy prefer to take care one today as one is sick and dun have anything in the fridge to cook lunch and dinner.
It's will prefer to have their own parents with them. Esther is sick so i stay at home with her and send Dylan to nanny house. Dylan knows and he say i want mummy. Hai..., but this lazy mummy prefer to take care one today as one is sick and dun have anything in the fridge to cook lunch and dinner.
shopping_queen
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Huingee
I always hv e same prob s u
If I find myself sudd stayg home cos o sick kid or watevr, I dun hv anythg in e fridge to cook!
Kelley
I m e #1. When I was young, I also feel my parents love my didi >. so I m v sensitive abt such issues. Guess it's inevitable. Jus s long s u keep reassuring ash she wil understand one day de
I always hv e same prob s u
If I find myself sudd stayg home cos o sick kid or watevr, I dun hv anythg in e fridge to cook!
Kelley
I m e #1. When I was young, I also feel my parents love my didi >. so I m v sensitive abt such issues. Guess it's inevitable. Jus s long s u keep reassuring ash she wil understand one day de
babylovespink2
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Yvonne: How about don't give to both girls? Whatever Bel can't take, you also refrain from giving to Sam.
Kelly: I have nothing to add to what the mummies say here. Spend more alone time with her.
QQ: Like that then ok ler. If she thinks she doesn't have this or that to cook/eat at home, then Jay can tell her she can buy her own.
Kelly: I have nothing to add to what the mummies say here. Spend more alone time with her.
QQ: Like that then ok ler. If she thinks she doesn't have this or that to cook/eat at home, then Jay can tell her she can buy her own.
Kelley,
It's always a constant balance/struggle between #1 and #2. So just as long as you know you did your best to love both of them, I think it's enough. Some little unhappiness/jealousies here and there will always be there de.
SQ,
I can't imagine that I have nothing to cook. Worse come to worse also got eggs?
CK,
oh, will the stuff be in time for you to bring back? cos you coming back tomorrow right?
It's always a constant balance/struggle between #1 and #2. So just as long as you know you did your best to love both of them, I think it's enough. Some little unhappiness/jealousies here and there will always be there de.
SQ,
I can't imagine that I have nothing to cook. Worse come to worse also got eggs?
CK,
oh, will the stuff be in time for you to bring back? cos you coming back tomorrow right?
babylovespink2
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Actually I love them all the same. I won't classify as firstborn or not. The firstborn naturally gets more attention since we became parents the first time round with him/her. When I decide to have more children, it's not becos I feel #1 will be lonely, but becos I want them all to have company. However, when they're being notti, I do feel less love for that particular one during that period of time. 
Meimei is still the most guai, so she naturally is the one I dote on at the moment.
Think Ayden wins hands on for T2 liao. He was screaming "don wan don wan don wan" repeatedly in his sleep last night!
Anna wants to sleep with papa every night, doesn't want me.
Meimei is still the most guai, so she naturally is the one I dote on at the moment.
Think Ayden wins hands on for T2 liao. He was screaming "don wan don wan don wan" repeatedly in his sleep last night!
Anna wants to sleep with papa every night, doesn't want me.
babylovespink2
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Kelly: Kids are ultra sensitive, we won't know what they're thinking of.
We like to ask Ayden to name the colors. I'll point to the mats and ask him, "what color is this? And this? And this? etc"
Then Anna would jump in and shout the answer. She wanted me to ask her too. But I didn't becos she already knew all the colors, she had to by now. But she felt left out cos I didn't ask her abt the colors.
So I explained to her.. "At your age, you already know the colors, mummy needs to ask you what is 1+1, 1+2, etc etc.. Didi is younger, he is learning about colors, so mummy asks him about colors, mummy doesn't ask him what is 1+1, 1+2 etc etc..."
She felt happier.
We like to ask Ayden to name the colors. I'll point to the mats and ask him, "what color is this? And this? And this? etc"
Then Anna would jump in and shout the answer. She wanted me to ask her too. But I didn't becos she already knew all the colors, she had to by now. But she felt left out cos I didn't ask her abt the colors.
So I explained to her.. "At your age, you already know the colors, mummy needs to ask you what is 1+1, 1+2, etc etc.. Didi is younger, he is learning about colors, so mummy asks him about colors, mummy doesn't ask him what is 1+1, 1+2 etc etc..."
She felt happier.
babylovespink2
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CK: Paiseh.. Forgot to reply you. Do you mean only 3 clips + hairband arrived? The rest is OOS?
lurvecakes
New Member
Morning...
Mejo qq
ic... It will be the first n last time... Lol. Cos i engorge so badly... Don noe y... Its been so long i feel the engorgement...Wait till i totally stop den can drink for leisure... Lol.
Aaa
ya. Sometime i do tt too...
Giolyn
i think bb one week liao, should have milk liao... U can ask her to monitor bb poo...
Mejo qq
ic... It will be the first n last time... Lol. Cos i engorge so badly... Don noe y... Its been so long i feel the engorgement...Wait till i totally stop den can drink for leisure... Lol.
Aaa
ya. Sometime i do tt too...
Giolyn
i think bb one week liao, should have milk liao... U can ask her to monitor bb poo...
CK, so u already upgraded to ah mmm long time ago mah. haha!!
Autum, before my confinement we dun keep eggs at home cause it takes a long time to finish them. with frequent cooking at home then can keep.
huingee, u take care too. eh this tian started to lie le. i asked her if she nap yesterday, she said YES! eventually from record book nanny said she din nap at all, and she was so cranky at night. jay said must scold her or even beat her if she lie again. i dunno how to handle.
Giolyn, first few days colostrum oni. then this is her 1st kid, milk should come in latest day 5-6. day 4-5 should have serious engorgement. then day 10 like that will have more milk supply.initially not so much.
Autum, before my confinement we dun keep eggs at home cause it takes a long time to finish them. with frequent cooking at home then can keep.
huingee, u take care too. eh this tian started to lie le. i asked her if she nap yesterday, she said YES! eventually from record book nanny said she din nap at all, and she was so cranky at night. jay said must scold her or even beat her if she lie again. i dunno how to handle.
Giolyn, first few days colostrum oni. then this is her 1st kid, milk should come in latest day 5-6. day 4-5 should have serious engorgement. then day 10 like that will have more milk supply.initially not so much.
babylovespink2
New Member
CK: Thanks for checking.. Besides the 3 hairclips + hairband, I ordered 5 pairs of hair ties (incl one pair for my maid to bring back to her dotter), and 1 hat for meimei.
QQ: Anna lies all the time! She doesn't understand the seriousness of lying. We try to be stern each time we discover she's lying. Still teaching her the wrong in lying.
QQ: Anna lies all the time! She doesn't understand the seriousness of lying. We try to be stern each time we discover she's lying. Still teaching her the wrong in lying.
wiky
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Kelley,
you can take time off or leave to bring Ashlyn out alone? Shopping trip, sit at cafe to "chat" with her, bring her out for play at those indoor playgrounds? It will take awhile for you to bond with her again but all these will help. You will also have to refrain from shouting/scolding her that often. Remind yourself that she's 3YO liao, can use reasoning more instead of scolding.
you can take time off or leave to bring Ashlyn out alone? Shopping trip, sit at cafe to "chat" with her, bring her out for play at those indoor playgrounds? It will take awhile for you to bond with her again but all these will help. You will also have to refrain from shouting/scolding her that often. Remind yourself that she's 3YO liao, can use reasoning more instead of scolding.
babylovespink2
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CK: Oops.. Yah, pls order for me. Thanks.. Will use the ties for ponytails for now.
As for my maid, think I'll let her bring back the existing pair Anna is using.. I ordered 4 of one particular design cos I thot the existing pair was lost, and I wanted to order a pair for my maid too. But we found the missing pair. So now, pls just order another 1 (instead of 3 more) of that design.
shopping_queen
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Autum
But when u sick eatg eggs is quite jialat rite?
I mean I wil feel like vomiting wor
Kelley
I thk it doesn't matter to ash at this moment who u really love more
Wat's impt is she FEELS u love kait more
N to her tt's e 'truth' until she feels differently
S Much s YE loves her meimei, she enjoys e time she spends at my ILs cos for those moments, she's e 'only' child, since her meimei doesn't go. Tt's when she feel special again cos everywhere else, she's w her sister
But when u sick eatg eggs is quite jialat rite?
I mean I wil feel like vomiting wor
Kelley
I thk it doesn't matter to ash at this moment who u really love more
Wat's impt is she FEELS u love kait more
N to her tt's e 'truth' until she feels differently
S Much s YE loves her meimei, she enjoys e time she spends at my ILs cos for those moments, she's e 'only' child, since her meimei doesn't go. Tt's when she feel special again cos everywhere else, she's w her sister
autum,aaa
hmm..yes i told her its bcos she was notti, thats y i beat her.
i was just shocked that she is able to relate beating her with loving her, i think i might have underestimate kids of the current era
Ash, RR
the steps:
there is a small panel to be push up from the back of the scale.
1. P01 = person 1 (Set)
2. Set Age
3. Set Height
4. Weigh
5. Fat % will be calculated and displayed.
hmm..yes i told her its bcos she was notti, thats y i beat her.
i was just shocked that she is able to relate beating her with loving her, i think i might have underestimate kids of the current era
Ash, RR
the steps:
there is a small panel to be push up from the back of the scale.
1. P01 = person 1 (Set)
2. Set Age
3. Set Height
4. Weigh
5. Fat % will be calculated and displayed.
shopping_queen
New Member
Haha QQ/pink
I also hv a digital scale at home le
Tho can't check fat content 1
(nt tt it's so difficult to guess anyway)
I also hv a digital scale at home le
Tho can't check fat content 1
(nt tt it's so difficult to guess anyway)
Autum: bt i always love ashlyn more.. sad to say.. mayb easier to communicate n stuff.. but now seeing her behave like tt.. i damn sad..
now i feel like unwanted mother.
Huignee: i also don’t know hw to have the private time for 2 now.. they go sch.. by the time i m home.. it’s 7+ and they sleep at 9pm.. haiz.. i thnk i m a terrible mother.
AAA: mayb i mst explain like u loh.. ashlyn also always jump in answers when we do together or wana do for mei mei.. than i always say.. can u let mei mei do herself? Let mei mei try.. than she sulk
Rr: i don’t reali shout shout .. but sometimes when i reason with her hor.. she can jst reply me with all the negative n don’t 1 2 listen.. how to reason like tt?? How u juggle having 2?
SQ: noted.. i will make her feel special again without her taking the chance to climb over my head!
Huignee: i also don’t know hw to have the private time for 2 now.. they go sch.. by the time i m home.. it’s 7+ and they sleep at 9pm.. haiz.. i thnk i m a terrible mother.
AAA: mayb i mst explain like u loh.. ashlyn also always jump in answers when we do together or wana do for mei mei.. than i always say.. can u let mei mei do herself? Let mei mei try.. than she sulk
Rr: i don’t reali shout shout .. but sometimes when i reason with her hor.. she can jst reply me with all the negative n don’t 1 2 listen.. how to reason like tt?? How u juggle having 2?
SQ: noted.. i will make her feel special again without her taking the chance to climb over my head!
nanabear911
Active Member
helo!!! I am back.. quite a boring trip for me... maybe becos we din do enuff home work.. wanna go a'famosa.. but was raining.. so din go ..
must bring toys for tiffany when we were staying in the apartment..
over all.. good getaway but not a very good trip.. cos the water burst from the ceiling the 2nd day!!!! and den change unit for us.. but the "new" unit.. 1 room the aircon break down.. sigh.. they refunded us RM100 lor.. so our stay costs only RM500+ but good bonding with my friends and catch up...
victoria was good.. hehee.. infact no need to use FM at all.. hahahaha! am happy! hehehe...
will catch up with archieves shortly.. need to clear some work first.. i totally very stone yesterday.. hahahaa!
must bring toys for tiffany when we were staying in the apartment..
over all.. good getaway but not a very good trip.. cos the water burst from the ceiling the 2nd day!!!! and den change unit for us.. but the "new" unit.. 1 room the aircon break down.. sigh.. they refunded us RM100 lor.. so our stay costs only RM500+ but good bonding with my friends and catch up...
victoria was good.. hehee.. infact no need to use FM at all.. hahahaha! am happy! hehehe...
will catch up with archieves shortly.. need to clear some work first.. i totally very stone yesterday.. hahahaa!
RR
yes..this is the cheaper version
<table border=1><tr><td>*American Council on Exercise </TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>Classification </TD><TD>Women (% fat) </TD><TD>Men (% fat) </TD></TR><TR><TD>Essential Fat </TD><TD>10-12%</TD><TD>2-4% </TD></TR><TR><TD>Athletes </TD><TD>14-20%</TD><TD>6-13% </TD></TR><TR><TD>Fitness </TD><TD>21-24%</TD><TD>14-17% </TD></TR><TR><TD>Acceptable </TD><TD>25-31%</TD><TD>18-25% </TD></TR><TR><TD>Obese </TD><TD>32% plus</TD><TD>25% plus </TD></TR><TR><TD></td></tr></table>
Ash
nope. i think they calculate based on the age, height and weight.
yes..this is the cheaper version
<table border=1><tr><td>*American Council on Exercise </TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>Classification </TD><TD>Women (% fat) </TD><TD>Men (% fat) </TD></TR><TR><TD>Essential Fat </TD><TD>10-12%</TD><TD>2-4% </TD></TR><TR><TD>Athletes </TD><TD>14-20%</TD><TD>6-13% </TD></TR><TR><TD>Fitness </TD><TD>21-24%</TD><TD>14-17% </TD></TR><TR><TD>Acceptable </TD><TD>25-31%</TD><TD>18-25% </TD></TR><TR><TD>Obese </TD><TD>32% plus</TD><TD>25% plus </TD></TR><TR><TD></td></tr></table>
Ash
nope. i think they calculate based on the age, height and weight.
lurvecakes
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Kelley
They don listen den u say many times lor... Say till she will listen... Must be veri veri patient... Stock up more chocolate... Will keep u calm... I noe the feeling... Veri pek chek... Say million times but still do the same thing... One day when u didn realise, she will not bully mei mei anymore...
They don listen den u say many times lor... Say till she will listen... Must be veri veri patient... Stock up more chocolate... Will keep u calm... I noe the feeling... Veri pek chek... Say million times but still do the same thing... One day when u didn realise, she will not bully mei mei anymore...
kelley
i think if on normal days no time to bring her to macdonalds, u can sit her on ur lap and read her a story? or do some simple craft work w her? seth can feel loved just sitting on my lap n watching tv sometimes. or u can buy a tub of ice cream and share with her? get the maid to cover meimei for the time being lo... if not later backfire..both girls think u dun love them! :S
i think if on normal days no time to bring her to macdonalds, u can sit her on ur lap and read her a story? or do some simple craft work w her? seth can feel loved just sitting on my lap n watching tv sometimes. or u can buy a tub of ice cream and share with her? get the maid to cover meimei for the time being lo... if not later backfire..both girls think u dun love them! :S
lurvecakes
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Kelley
oh ya... Joelle idea veri good... Hey, do u bath together with her? bel feel super happy if i bath with her without sam... Lol... And poor sam screaming outside the toilet... I m so bad... Wahahaha!
oh ya... Joelle idea veri good... Hey, do u bath together with her? bel feel super happy if i bath with her without sam... Lol... And poor sam screaming outside the toilet... I m so bad... Wahahaha!
has anyone tried not giving med for fever? it is really a struggle/fight to give A. tried last nite but i think he only manage a little bit. then 3am fever spike again n nose bleed. quickly sponge n got it down. so i'm just asking maid to keep sponging n water parade. any advise? will this work?
lurvecakes
New Member
Ash
cannot... Got fever must take med... Cos u nv noe when the temp get too high... Don take risk... They are still veri veri young... They don noe how to express.... Don let the temp hurt their brain... U try giving cold med...cold one wont have the smell...
cannot... Got fever must take med... Cos u nv noe when the temp get too high... Don take risk... They are still veri veri young... They don noe how to express.... Don let the temp hurt their brain... U try giving cold med...cold one wont have the smell...
wiky
Active Member
Kelley,
I know how you feel. It seems to everyone that I dote on Reyes more but I actually love Reyden alot. I miss the times when he was newborn, came home from hospital, me and him alone. After Reyes came home, maid came, he "drifted" away from me. He only wanted the maid, then maid left, he only wanted Kent or my mum, never me.
It took me quite awhile before he turns to me again. I tried not to scold/raise my voice at him. I will purposely send Reyes to school and keep him with me, bring him out, talk to him & etc ... After a long long while, he's starting to be closer to me again. Now some nights he will ask to sleep with me instead of Kent and most of the time he wants me over Kent or my mum le. It will take some effort to "bring" Ashlyn back but can be done de.
I know how you feel. It seems to everyone that I dote on Reyes more but I actually love Reyden alot. I miss the times when he was newborn, came home from hospital, me and him alone. After Reyes came home, maid came, he "drifted" away from me. He only wanted the maid, then maid left, he only wanted Kent or my mum, never me.
shopping_queen
New Member
ash
i also hate giving med
so unless v hi fever i also jus sponge n water parade
but sometimes it's equally challenging to sponge, so i will give med then
i also hate giving med
so unless v hi fever i also jus sponge n water parade
but sometimes it's equally challenging to sponge, so i will give med then
wiky
Active Member
Ash,
I actually don't give medicine if it's fever less than 38. They are ok with taking medicine but I don't like the idea of giving medicine. I'll monitor for the day/night. Bath them with cold water (if day time), put them in aircon room or give cold water. If persists till next day then I give medicine. Sometimes I think they are just fighting some viral, usually goes off by next day.
I actually don't give medicine if it's fever less than 38. They are ok with taking medicine but I don't like the idea of giving medicine. I'll monitor for the day/night. Bath them with cold water (if day time), put them in aircon room or give cold water. If persists till next day then I give medicine. Sometimes I think they are just fighting some viral, usually goes off by next day.
Kelley, actually i also try to spend more time with tian now. she used my netbook to play games last night. she said this computer is so small, it is for xiao3 hai2 zi3. ok lor.. so she wins.
then i have to be there looking at her, at the screen, and be technical help at any time. meanwhile i was multitasking and doing other thinking and recording job la.
then jay brot her to macdonald at airport when they sent my mum to airport. and now if we mention go macdonald, she said go airport's macdonald. we can feel the impact of having alone time with her. she felt special.
at home, read her story book, talk to her, play with her also possible.
ash, tell asher reason? maybe can? now i make tian eat medicine by telling her that she will recover and can go swimming after that. if sick then cannot go swim.
then i have to be there looking at her, at the screen, and be technical help at any time. meanwhile i was multitasking and doing other thinking and recording job la.
then jay brot her to macdonald at airport when they sent my mum to airport. and now if we mention go macdonald, she said go airport's macdonald. we can feel the impact of having alone time with her. she felt special.
at home, read her story book, talk to her, play with her also possible.
ash, tell asher reason? maybe can? now i make tian eat medicine by telling her that she will recover and can go swimming after that. if sick then cannot go swim.
Yvonne: noted.. becos ashlyn don’t 1 me.. i lup so much ben n jerry ice cream every nite! I will keep trying n trying.. yes.. ashlyn loves to wash hair for me.. n comb hair..
Joelle: yeah.. i read books to them separately everynite.. i prob do the ice cream thingy n chocolate
Rr: thanks.. u make me realise there is hope.. hahaha
QQ: got loh.. last nite i tried playing with her at my plc.. 1 min later.. she think of her MIL and than run over to her house. Is it becos i tell her u noti.. i take MIL away?
Joelle: yeah.. i read books to them separately everynite.. i prob do the ice cream thingy n chocolate
Rr: thanks.. u make me realise there is hope.. hahaha
QQ: got loh.. last nite i tried playing with her at my plc.. 1 min later.. she think of her MIL and than run over to her house. Is it becos i tell her u noti.. i take MIL away?
