SQ, my mil's mum is still around. old liao, still around. so i think my mil is also very long life one. cause it runs in the gene.
she is unwell so need to visit her more. it is her mum afterall.
and my mil also complains about her mil, though not around anymore. but this mil is not the biological mum of my fil. she is so called adopted mum. still my mil complains cause her life was so tough then. compard to what she is treating me, already not bad liao, she said. but i guess there is some elements in it, that's y both me and my sil were tekan-ed a bit. but i set the standard, so now it seems like i am ok with my mil (except her lor sor-ness, shut my ears). so jay always praises me on this, but i tot he is using this as a trick to make me treat mil better.
*complex relationship*
Kaexin, afterall, everyone will leave us de. tell your mum to see openly. it is hard to change old ppl's mind (your grandma i mean) but no choice la. once they left, we will feel empty de. must as well do something to make it better before everyone leaves.