mejo, u are quite right le.
i think my mum, aunties everyone also said that if i change to cups, majority of the kids will not want to drink milk liao. but still will take some fresh milk from cups, or packs on and off.
i think i at least let tian drink till she is 3 yo, then see how.
AAA, i have the same feeling as u about mil. i am thinking my mum can survive so well now without my dad, because she is so nice, and she has strong social support. even my dad's worker (an auntie) also jio her to go genting for fun for weekend getaway.
but hor, she has no dil YET. for her personality, she might have to struggle a bit when any of my brother get married one day. she is nice, but still a bit lor sor, young ppl might not be able to stand it.
then looking at my mil, actually jay is also like mr tan. he feels that i can ti3 liang4 his feeling, and he has his responsibility to play as a son. so at the moment we still try to compromise each others but one day when there is a big war come, then he will be caught in a diff situation. i hope this day wont come, but i cannot guarantee lar.
so pink, i have a suggestion to solve your problem. change mil's room's windows to what she wants, cause this will not affect leia's room. but hor, u must not be heart pain to pay the money.just need to see open, since u already can see so open, just open a little bit more.
*i dunno if this can be done though*
astro, no la. the dance class is really for fun only.