Huingee, thats why i say getting a hb of similar age to me, will have this problem. not mature enough in his thinking. i dun blame him but i have the power to EDUCATE him. still not bad la.
you and pink are right. if other sibling are contributing, then he should step backwards and think for his own family. if nobody taking care of mil, she stays with us (of coures free la). if all of them moving out, then that is their choice. not my issue.
if he has $$ to give mil, then he should give me and kids first. (RIGHT?)
he said even if he has no $$ also need to give mil.
I was puzzled, said: hey man, you sot liao? your wife and kids no need $$ meh? like that u are giving mil $$ at the expense of my $$ woh. not right.
either you give both! or both dun give.
or if you give her $X, I should have at least $2X or 3X. i ask him if he sees the picture.
he said he understand then kept quiet.
i dun mean to push him down, but he suddenly oni think of his mum, then others all eating into mine. i not happie mah.
sometimes i wonder if i am unreasonable, but i think i am not bah.
apparently, the whole conversation started when we wondering if mil, sil1 sil2 and bf will want to move out on their own, say with a rental of 1.5-1.8K for a house. but only 3 of them with income(not very high de), will they do it?
so conclusion, they wont do it cause it is too expensive. even if they really want to move out, jay should not support them financially.