blur,
Yar hor, u tok the pill to stop bm production. Yar, i heard it will cause breast to shrink coz it shrinks the mamm*** glands (Dunno the word) which shrinks the size of the breast. Aiyah, i miss them lei~~~ LOL.
Enne,
Its SURVIVAL. For me lar. kekeke... All my bb i dun purposely train them but i avoid yaoyao when inside sarong, petpet when on cot or even hugs when sharing beds. It can be chan ren but it helps the child to sleep on their own and also without aid.
yvonne!
No lar, i scold u for wad. ahaha... I always kenna scolded for doing the wrong thing at the wrong time. But i bohchap mah. LOL.
Ok, ok, i am not fat. I am not fat. I am not fat
Jmon,
Actually u belong to the slim, slim type. Even if fat aso won be bar-bar like me. Still early lar. Bf more. Tummy will go down. U not doing massage ah??
SQ,
LOL. mar 08 not mar 07?? U veri farnie lei. I was telling yvonne, my tummy bigger den hers! But aso good lar. I get sits at MRT every now and then. LOL.
Fion,
For me, the age gap prefered is abt 2.5. Coz by 2.5, the toddler can walk, naps lesser, start to eat 100% solids, start talking, so easier to care for. But 3-3.5 is a better age although i find the gap abit too wide if u wanna have more than 2. If u plan for only 2. I tink 3 - 3.5 is a good age. Coz u can start the child at pre-nursery programme and that will take the child's attention and mind off the new arrival. Toddlers at the age is also more 'dong shi' and easier to teach.
One thing i did whenever i had a NB was that i spend MORE time with the elders den the NB. Meaning i will leave the bb at home with papa, ah ma or maid while i go out for short shopping or playground with the elder kids. They feel more assured that they are not leng luo and actually would love the NB coz of the new time and attention mummy gives them.
But it can get veri tiring coz after u are done with the elder ones and when they are napping/resting, u need to turn ur attention to the bb.