icylemon - i guess where parenting/pregnancy concerned, we are all greenhorns lor.. so whether we are 21 or 40 years old.. we experience the same excitement, happiness, fears, etc.. guess we r v lucky that technology has enabled us to share all these via this forum.. imagine 10 years ago? pregnant mummies have only frens around them to talk abt, worst if they are not pregnant.. But tks for compliment hor! hehehe!