hui & aqua:
hahaha.. thx!
i'm also very happy to be able to wean him off the breast!
but also a bit sad.. mixed feelings... cause the feeling of him nursing is really very nice and intimate.
hui:
last week, i left him to stay at my MIL's for 3 nites (from monday to wednesday nite). when he's there, he only can drink from bottle cause i'm not there.
on thurs nite, he came back home.. and asked for the breast still.. but i just had to be persistent and say that "mummy has no more milk". and say that i will make milk for him in the bottle. at first, he kept crying and crying (see already very xin tong), and kept saying "no need no need" to drinking from the bottle.
but after about 30 min of this, he finally relented and said "mummy, make milk"...
since then, he has asked for the breast on friday and saturday and sunday... but i have to insist on giving him the bottle and saying that i don't have anymore milk for him in the breast.
today (monday), he didn't even ask me for the breast. when he said "drink milk", and i said "mummy make milk for you in a bottle ok?", he said "ok".
think that you may have to try it out for at least one week if you have someone to leave him with. but you're a SAHM, so may be more difficult to wean him... you have someone to put him with for a few nites, so that he gets used to not drinking from the breast?
one thing i learnt from this.. all babies are different. if you are actually still comfy with nursing JK, then go ahead? maybe he will one day just tell you that he doesn't want to nurse anymore?
on top of it all, you've got to be patient and loving when you tell him no more breast. cause i think they associate the breast with security and love.. and without nursing, we still have to display through other actions that we love them..
jia you!