sasha, hahaha.. thats what everyone's telling me, to enjoy my bedrest now that i can! yeah its really boring, having to pay to sleep in an uncomfortable bed, with nurses coming in every hour checking on you! how to rest man! came back yesterday and totally sleep well.. on another note, i really wanna learn from you the 'system' you have at home. i really wanna take care of the babies on my own, but so many ppl giving me horror stories about how i won't be able to!
Alethea, 10 weeks! i would have been soooooo miserable! first few days i was still ok, after that i was getting cranky already! even tho i know its for the better of my babies for me to stay in there, then them out and in NICU. but still! at least the food not so bad lah.. i also dun like the CTG, i like hearing their heartbeats, but i dun like the contraction doppler, there is a stud in the middle and the babies kick on it so much, think its uncomfortable for them also..
mesh, me like you..
my hubby also supportive, i have most things ready already, but the loose ends, hubby say can leave to him, but household wise, its always been me, so somehow you still will feel like not as ease even tho he is doing or preparing the stuff.. hubby really supportive and sweet though.. but you run the household, you know where things are kept, and how to organize the things blah blah..
Okeanosmao, thanks for your well wishes! yeah thats the only thing in my head, that its better for babies.. better i go thru all this than my babies!
patty, i am the same with Okeanosmao, i can't sleep facing up (on my back) since 2nd trimester, can't breathe! i only sleep on my sides, trying to sleep more on my left side (better for circulation) than on my right. but during this 3rd trimester, i would need to turn to another side, average every 2 hours.. otherwise either ribs hurt, or can't breathe also. i do put a small pillow under the tummy the side that you are lying on, it helps support the heavy tummy. and i have to 'carry' my tummy when i turn sides.. i do get worried too, cos most times i wake up in the mornings, and my tummy tight, like contraction tight, think cos of all the tossing and turning.. no choice
hubby now like prison warden, doctor told him even tho i get to go home, its bed rest. now i walk a bit to go kitchen take something only kena scolding!