aspialle,
dun think heartburn lah. or mayb it is?
i am so full i cant even sip my water now. if eat fruits now, i will go and merlion. no choice lah, juz endure 4 a few hrs and sayang my tummy. hope will b better.
jenny
the way u described ur MIL v funny. kekeke
think i cant stand it oso. but no matter wat, old folks got a bit of superstition practices here and there. sometimes can juz give in a bit lah. but i noe the way ur MIL behaves u cant tahan.
vivian & selina chg their nicks liao.
haven thot of a name 4 my son yet.
oh vivian,
u inspired by me & selina ah? kekekeke
but Zucchini is not my son's name lah. the other day dunno who mistunderstood and thot it was a name. hahahahaha
ilovemybabyg,
we sure undergo some depression now. but impt to recognise it b4 it gets serious. i can fully understd how u feel now. coz i went thru the same phrase and quarrelled wif my hb oso. but he was understdg twds the end and he saw my view while i saw his oso. in the end, i decided to stay at home & engage a CL, coz i dun wanna tire my mum out and oso its v troublesome 4 me to bring my things back to my mum's plc. but it wasnt an easy decision to make.
however, right now, i can see wats ur preference, i encourage u to talk more to ur hb. say u really need his understdg juz for juz tt 1 crucial mth. though its v impt 4 the daddy to bond wif baby, its not as if the baby can "recognise" the hse when he goes back after confinement, and moreoever, ur hb will surely visit u every few days, if not everyday. still can bond wif ur baby.
i agree tt its v impt 4 us to build/nurse our health back during this period. coz my mum says if we dun take care, we will suffer 4 the rest of our lives. i take it quite seriously.
dun get so depressed. there is always hope.
everything will eventually work out.