hi kelly
thanks for sharing!
my MIL always has a way of un-nerving me, sad to say. she was telling stories about how she endured EVERYTHING, and despite smelling bad, ddnt shower. and also told me that the herbs for the water to bathe in must to boiled on the stove, and must have 3 kettles worth, and must use wooden tong to keep the water ETC ETC ETC, and the way she was telling it was as if i don do all this crap, im not a good mom (unlike how good she is), and it really got to me.
i mean u ddnt follow all the rules, and everything still turned out v well right?
im going to follow the rules as little or much as i please, i don wan to be under the 'i must keep to it' stress, don think it'll do me any good.
wa today my mood is super on the edge, SIGH. even i type about my MIL also like pressing dam hard, making a lot of noise.
re: CONTRACEPTIVE
me also on the lookout for something that works, without too much side effects. i was on the pill gynera before, but im the super fertile type, missed 2-3 and im pregnant, and we really can't afford to have another kid in the near near future.
i heard that b-feeding can work as a natural contraceptive, is that true?
am thinking of taking that jab that lasts 1 year, but i heard the side effects r quite bad, like bloated, put on weight which i have a phobia of, esp since after giving birth wan to go back to my original size.