(2006/07) JULY 2006 MTB

[leo29]

Mummies,

Wah... u all very efficient leh... especially MTDT hahaha... joking... i ve yet to settle a single thg. Recently i only start to think of the venue but no idea at all. Think muz pressure my hb liao. For cake, i think i'wll go bak to ecreative(my elder gal, i order from them oso). Their cake so so lah(chocalate cale better), i choose them becos of the varieties of designs they ve *stick out tongue*. As for catering i'll order from mum's kitchen.

Push walker

I ve 2 at home but i think it's not the rite time for our bb to use it to practise walking as the wheels r slippery, no friction at all. But u can buy now and use it as an activity table for them to play. This pushwalker is gd for them to practise walking when they start to learn to walk.

 

[mtdt]

hahhaa... no lah.. not accurate lah.

there is this thread tat is lamenting abt only having gals... then complaining tat the calender thingy not accurate. hahhha

but the funny thing is, while they are lamenting abt all the stress from the seniors for having gals, they kinda of like condemning having boys... so weird.

i feel it's the seniors tat are not "open" enough to accept gals... but at the mean time dun need to condemn boys lah. poor things. hahaha

 

[mtdt]

hahhaa... oh no, i become the KS one.

but but... my bday party is on the 9th of June leh!!!

 

[jenn77]

MT
not accurate meh? My frd tried twice, both BINGO ley.. dun know ley.. I also havent try.. ahhahaha.. but but... I wan a GAL! then can close shop liao

 

[zita]

Birthday party...stress stress...i havent event start planning!

MTDT..that time when i pregnant, FIL go around telling relative sure is aboy then i got Gal! yesterday he say who who...juz had a boy! ...haiz

 

[mtdt]

it's always a 50% chance loh.. hahhah

i also wan to close shop at 2....
but not so early lah...

i love zav too much now to share it out. hahahah

 

[jenn77]

MT
I totally agree with u.. u ask me now, I also shake head... cos wanna fully concentrate on Kayden first, scare I dun have so much love to share... keke...

 

[leo29]

Fruitee, MTDT,

Ya lor, the calender buay chun 1.... last time i checked for my frd not accurate 1. Me ah.... think 1st 1 chun but 2nd 1 i nvr check. Nvr bother to check becos when i pick my 1st gal name, the geomentry already told me my 2nd bb will be gal oso.

 

[mtdt]

zita - hahaha.. no stress no stress... u cannot stress one.

boy or gal -like wat liverpool says most impt is healthy.

but of cos for 2nd kid - usu, most often, majority will hope for opp sex than the 1st kid bah.

aiyoh.. i heck abt all the "boy" good or "gal" good. both are cute and all are angels...

but i noe wat u mean... tat time my FIL also told my hubby, if baby boy, i can help to take care. immediately i turn n ask hubby, so if baby gal, then dun help to take care??? crap rite!

on the other hand, i think my mum wld like a granddaughter as she has 2 grandsons already. hahhaah

 

[mtdt]

evelyn - oh, geomentry quite zhun huh!

actually i always wonder... wat if the geomentry says: oh, Mr Tan, u will hv 2 gals n 1 boy and Mrs Tan, u will hv 2 gals.

hahhaha!!! oopps!!!

 

[mtdt]

^5 Fruitee!! hahhaa

Hail to our little kings!!
hahahahah!

 

[jenn77]

MT
Kudos to our little kings.. we are the slaves to them man... keke..

 

[leo29]

MTDT,

hahaha... i ever think of this oso leh.... But the geo very smart 1 lah.... they will tell you the gd thgs n some bad thgs but will definitely keep the bad bad thgs from u.

Fruitee, MTDT,

Last time when i pregnant i oso ve this thinking. On n off i would felt very sad when i think that my 1st gal ve to share the loves with her sis. But now with my 2nd gal out.. there is no such thing lor... Our loves to them r the same. Juz that whoever more notti, will get the scolding from us.

 

[mtdt]

evelyn - hahaha.. ya, i think those geo are not so stupid to say such things! hahha

ultimately i believe it will be equal love...
well.. it better be right! hahhaha

 

[jenn77]

Evelyn
now cannot.. cos I not ready... ahhahahah... maybe until my boy abt 2-3yrs old and he knows he will have a little siblings to take care.. now, I sure headache one..

 

[leo29]

Fruitee,

Actually its quite stress to ve #2 when #1 is below 2. From my experience, I think the rite time to ve #2 is when #1 is ard 2 yrs old. When i gave birth to my 2nd gal, my 1st gal was only 18 mths. She is still a bb that really dun know anythg. But when she turned 2, she start to understand what i tell her n sometimes can help up oso

. But now coming to 2.5 yrs, she become very lazy and sometimes bully her sis oso

 

[lollypop]

Wah Liverpool, congrats!

Evelyn,
Really, they will understand more things by 2 yrs old? That's great! Maybe I'll take your advice and plan, hehehe...

 

[nyc]

wah.... everyone considering no. 2 already ah!!!

Bday Direct
I'm also getting things from there.

GUG & JG:
Will be going for the trial one of the weekday. Will call n chk.. if gd then we can try to form a class together

 

[poohy_bear]

Evelyn,

u also have 2 gers hah? me too...kids are always more active & playful at 2 mah...that's how "naugthy 2" come abt..hee..

 

[brambles]

ylc... count me in too for the GUG n JG. if need be, i take leave. hehehe

 

[hong]

Zita,

Haiyo ur FIL is just like my MIL. They have the most crap logic u never hear before. My FIL said I am so gentle - si wen so 100% is bearing a daughter that was when i have Janelle and also when we told them we are having a ger.

Then u know wat they said. They said i have a brother so there are still chance for me to bear a son.

Then they mention that my BIL (their 2nd son, my hubby only didi) a bit "dangerous" cos his gerfrd family all gers. So sound like dun pin too high hope that my BIL will have a son. Wah liao... wat logic is that man!

After i had Janelle, whenever i told her my collicks, frds, relatives pregnant. She will be very interested to know if they are having gers or boy. If son, she will give a very disappointed face and keep saying son is gd. Sound like she will never have a grandson. KNS boh.

So after i have Julian, i told hubby my mission accomplished. Anyway, not planning to have anymore.

 

[mtdt]

hey... found this pic familiar???
http://www.mumcentre.com/index.php?option=com_rsgallery2&catid=381&page=vote&picid=4286

VOTE for our dear Poppy's gal...

 

[hong]

Evelyn,
how can ur ger beat my Janelle. She is too immune to Julian's crys that she totally ignore her brother. Whenever i am busy and Julian crying, i seek for her help and she can ignore me totally.

There was once she screamed at Julian. I told her nicely she was not supposed to do that to didi cos that will scare him. No, she refused to listen and continue throwing her tantrum. I was at my peak of volcano eruption and i bring myself down to speak to her nicely already. Finally, i told her since she din want to love Julian, i shld dump him outside. I carried Julian and attempt to walk of the hse, it was then she jumped up and quickly come for Julian "rescue". I told her if she continued to bully Julian then i will no choice but to give him away.

 

[lollypop]

Wow Hong,
So drastic action to take ah! Oh no, you are scaring me liao ley...

 

[mtdt]

hong - aiyoh... hv to put julian at "risk" then jie jie will protect him huh??

but hor... think u better softly tell julian tat it's fake! if not, he very sad leh! hahahah

 

[peachsorbet]

ylc n fruitee - tell me when u gals are ordering? then i can tag along?

hehe. chinese calender conception gender - it's accurate for me!!! n for my fren and her frens too! ... anyway no harm following rite. wun kill. it's 50-50 anyway.

watched a tv show b4 (few years ago) that it's normal to have a preference for one child over the other. so dun hate urself if u do find urself having a preference. but juz dun show it i guess. haha.. interesting show cos the r'ship between the parent n 1 of the child was actually affected by this so-called preference that was subconscious. so the first step was for the parent to admit having a preference, then thru out the show it was on how to resolve such a "problem".

mtdt - u're funny.. haha.. good one on the geometry. haha..

 

[nyc]

wah Hong,

wat if she says give away lor?? i think i faintz first haha but then thats an idea if next time my caitz become big sister n bully her sister/brother, then i can try that on her haha

see how she react!

Brambles,
okay then i will make the calls for the trial. When u want ah? Weekend not possible for me so only weekday lor... i was planning like either this week or next week lor.

 

[hong]

lollypop, MTDT cos my patience is really running dry at that moment.

However, I know is a very lousy method cos this is installing fear in kid.

Something more heart warming to balance it up.

Last Sat, i brot Janelle for a wedding dinner. We ended up home at 1130pm. Julian already fast asleep. Janelle walked into the room, saw Julian sleeping on the mattress. She knee down and give him a good nite kiss and walked back to her own room to get ready for bed. Everything done so gently.

 

[blessy]

Baby No.2
I also want to have no.2 too but let nature takes its course....preferably a girl but as long the baby is healthy and strong, gender is secondary.

Hmmm...agree with Fruitee that the cake in Pattissier is very yummy...and I like the ecreative design too. Will have to ask my hb since he is the boss---$$$...hee hee

 

[hong]

ylc,
aiyo dun try my method. Is a lousy one!

 

[lollypop]

Hong,
That's nice of Janelle, but I suppose she is in one of her good moods

Anyway, from this you can see that she loves her brother la, so dun worry.

 

[nyc]

hong,

keke last resort if she keeps bullying her siblings!!!

 

[poohy_bear]

Hong,

ha...me also used the same mtd, i told my #1 if she bully mei mei, i will sent her to malaysia..think actually deep in their heart, they do luv their siblings only that they dun koe how to express it well..hee..poor #2, always kana "throw/give away"..

 

[mtdt]

aiyoh.. all the #2 kenna throw away?

 

[chmosl]

Finally have some time to catch up...

good to meet the mummies again at the BJG. The teacher's quite good but I won;t be signing up cos it's too far to travel and also hoh, their chinese CMI one...one of the chinese characters write wrongly...sigh.

Thinking of kindermusik cos it seemed the best so far, but still got My Gym trial to go, so probably decide after that. Keen to try out GUG too, if anyone's organising, pls count me in

btw, congrats liverpool!

 

[hong]

Pooh,
Ah u also using the same method. Stime talk doesnt seem to work hor or we are too work out liao.

MTDT,
haha... yah lor.

 

[brambles]

ylc... for me, cuz i'm a wkend mummy, so if can hv the trial on a mon or fri will be the best so that i get to spend one more night with my girl

but that said, if mon or fri not possible... other wkdays also can

 

[yenny_tay]

Chinese Calender
I followed leh and very zhun for me.

As for my gal, she really loves her brother. Once i was scolding my son and he started crying and guess wat? My gal oso started crying. She cannot bear to see her brother cry. But hor somtimes when her didi pulled her hair, she will beat his hand. Then i will have to tell her that only daddy and mummy can beat didi, if didi bully her, she can complain to us but she cannot beat didi.

Hong
that's the exactly same words i told my hubby 'Mission Accomplished'. U know when my gynae told me i am expecting a boy, i actually felt relieved. Dunno why the pressure leh...

 

[jenn77]

Peach & Brambles
Blessings will be taking over the bday direct order, she will be helping us to take orders.
but can only do postage, or collection at my place on weekend late afternoon and evening before 8pm--by appt hor

 

[peachsorbet]

CHM, huh. got chinese word write wrongly? hurr. then hubby n me, our chinese really cannot make it. didnt notice. n hubby was whispering to me that got one word he himself dun even noe. hehe.. actually we thot that it was the teacher's english that CMI.

 

[hong]

Fruitee,
I also wanna order. Have all of u place order? Blessings placed the order?

Yenny,
cos i think i have enough. hahaha..

 

[peachsorbet]

fruitee, where's ur place?

 

[ordinary75]

Hey MTDT,
teach me the method leh..i want my second one to be a girl again. I love to have two girls. But I know my inlaws would want a grandson. My MIL yesterday even told my bb that 'quickly ask your mummy to give birth to a boy for u to play with. " because she saw my bb kissing the cover of a magzine which has the photo of a baby. Faint!!

 

[jenn77]

Peach
My place at SK, can collect at Raffles place as well. Blessings place is at the East side.

Hong
Can, I also havent give Blessing my order

 

[blessy]

Mummies,
Pse PM me your orders. Can do collection at my place - Pasir Ris on weekends late afternoon or evenings before 8pm. Pse call me or sms before you pop by, in case I am not around. Will PM you my number.

 

[blessy]

if you cant collect personally, postage is available too!

 

[brambles]

fruitee thanks for helping! *muacks* i can collect from you cuz i stay in sengkang too!

blessings thanks for helping with the order too! *muacks muacks* will try to pm order to you by tonight? got tempted by quite a few stuff. so need some time to sort out what i want. must budget budget a bit. hahaha

 

[jenn77]

Blessings & mummies
I can help to distribute too.

 

[blessy]

Thanks, Fruitee.

 

[peachsorbet]

blessings, u stay at pasir ris ah? then like that i can collect from u directly

I will pm the order to u tonight. how ah.. any format u want me to follow? or just order? thanks..

thanks fruitee n blessings =X