hello mummies...
happened to see my nick so I came in.. hehee
pawprint,
was vv busy at work last week so I had not updated the blog. Plus my hb was in ICT... its the first time he really goes to ICT without coming home in the evening since we got married. I gotta take cab to work and drop S and then fetch him at lunch blah blah blah.... its been a hectic week for me. thanx for all the concerns.. the kids had recovered last week ... I had been wanting to update my blog these 2 days
lazy mummy...
I am still around the forum everyday but din really participate cos just too tired at times to type ... we had not gone to korea yet... though S is getting all excited about taking an aeroplane
re: boys terror
Actually S is not such an exception... he also had been quite a handful. I constantly worries if we had spoilt him rotten.
I had always tried to use the distraction strategy with him when he throws tantrum. If it dun work, I used to just sit down there beside him and let him cry it out. The longest he cried and I din give in where distraction strategy din work was abt 1.5 hours.... I just sat beside him and try to comfort him hoping he will soon calm down. But I think as he grows older, my patience is not as good as before 'cos I expect him to have more awareness and increasingly knows what is right. At times I will scream at him hehee....
tinklebell,
sigh my S also.... everyday bully J. When I called home, one of the thing I will sure tell him is "dun bully meimei ok?" and he sure answer "ok!". But he still will snatch things from her and make her cry. But at times seeing them together is so fun... he will purposely chase her around and make her laugh and chuckle so hard. There are ups and downs... but they are just not those lovey dovey type of siblings.... I always tell my mum maybe its becos one is rooster and the other is dog lah... "ji quan bu ning"
re: busybuddies
mtdt, wow.. when I saw your post on how good they are, I am vv tempted to try too! I am likely to put J in half day child care next year.. so still sourcing around. Am trying to reduce any weekend activities.. old liao... felt v tired at times.