btw, is there any bb here that belongs to the "high need" bb, just read the Mar07 Mother & bb, realise tt my ger meets every single criteria of a high need bb.. no wonder i feel so lousy as a mother.. thot that i sucks at wat i'm doing (alas!) then realise when some of my friends/ colleagues gave birth that my bb is really different from others? theirs is so well-behaved since birth.. while mine is so so demanding, demand feed every 2 hrs, routine change every day (so not call routine!) want to be carried all e time..and till now still wake up for feed at nite..
any mothers out there in same situation? imagine my bb got to rotate between 2 person.. mother/ MIL cuz 1 day, they dying already.. so need to break alternate day.. Mon/Wed/Fri - MIL.. Tues/Thurs -Mother, weekend n nite time myself.. so i most siong.. work plus nite duty, plus weekend duty.. sob sob!
btw, any bb still wake up for nite feed? i reading e "sleep session" in e M&B, but i dun think i can apply, cuz i let MIL & Mother take care of ger on alternate days, so hard to set a routine, plus her temper is one kind.. so can really fight all e way.. eg. she has not slept since 12pm today.. now, cannot take it, just fall asleep.. knowing her, she'll wake up soon.. and sleep at midnite.. AND STILL WAKE UP FOR NITE FEED.. dying!
So if i make it for e botantical garder trip.. u gals can just spot e darkest panda eyes around.. cuz that will be e week when my MIL goes for 1 week holiday, and i'll be helpless for the whole week..
mother got relative coming, so can't help too.. alas!
really hope to make it for e outing.. cuz i've been reading e threads all e while, just always too tired to post, cuz of my princess.. so if i can make it.. i'll sure go! hehe!