Hi ETelle,
Annika's bday falls on Chu Yi this year, which is a good thing becos most bakeries are still opened for half a day on New yr's eve, so I managed to order a cake to be cut with relatives during reunion dinner. As for a big celebration, no lor, there wont' be one, unlike kor kor, who has a proper bday party every yr.
Bulma,
I can perfectly understand what u are going through. don't worry, it's just a phase. I rem I did not enjoy my meals outside, cos Gareth was a super active, difficult toddler. He is forever messing up the restaurants, refusing to sit still on his high chair, throwing foods all over the place. Our moods were dampened, as we were so busy attending to him. A meal outside can really zap so much energy from us.
I am sure as J1 gets older, this kind of nonsense from him will reduce.
Well, same here, my hb can comfortably finish his food, while here I am, trying to feed Annika, stopping her from throwing cutlery, spilling drinks, etc etc. He can easily overlook the fact that I have not ordered my food, or that he assumes that I can finish up whatever Gareth can't finish.
Anyway, I am quite used to it.
Anyway, this kind of