Mummies,
Sorry that I might spoil your new year by posting this. But I am starting to hate New Year already. All these happened on the eve of new year and first day of new year when I am at my MIL place for the whole day. I really need to pour out or I will erupt soon!
EVE OF NEW YEAR
1) Jamie's Poo
She pooed and I asked MIL to help me look after her while I prepare a new set of clothes and diaper,etc. When I walked to the toilet, I saw MIL already inside with Jamie. (As I have posted, MIL NEVER change Jamie before) So I stood there hoping to catch how she clean her. Was surprised to see.. MIL used the soiled diaper to wipe Jamie's backside, asked Jamie to hold the toilet bowl, she folded the diaper. (I tot she is going to throw away and use water to wash Jamie's backside) I WAS WRONG !! She folded and used the OUTER layer of DIAPER to wipe Jamie's backside AGAIN and AGAIN!! And her hand are full of Jamie's poo!! I called out immediately just in case she hold Jamie with the soiled hand. I went over to hold Jamie and asked her to wash her hands while I will clean Jamie up. I NEVER NEVER EVER SEE SUCH A DIRTY PERSON BEFORE !! I told hubby in the room when cleaning Jamie up, Lucky Jamie is not looked after by ur Mum!
2) Overnight Food
As we are buddhist, there is a need to pray on the eve of New Year. MIL bought duck meat and left it on the dining table overnight. Hubby questioned her on where she got and she leaked out that she bought the day before and left there overnight.Hubby told her that she should wrap in airtight container and put in fridge till today. Got to heat up and eat. MIL still defend herself and ask him dun eat if he dun dare. Hubby forbid me to eat as it might caused tummy upset. I ended up with only chicken and plain rice for New Year eve!
3) Jamie's Porridge
MIL want to add in pig liver. But when I open the plastic bag, it smell sour. When I tell her, she say,never mind don't give Jamie. Keep for tomrrow's steamboat!! The next day, I told hubby DUN touch Liver as it's his favourite!
FIRST DAY
1) Gold Chain
FIL saw Jamie wearing one and ask who buy. I say my mum. He ask me to remove it and wear his. He took out one and ask me to wear it for Jamie. I tot he is so good to buy Jamie one gold necklace. Who knows it is his company anniversary chain and gold pendant (I saw the engraving on the pendant). And after all the relatives went back. He ask me to remove from Jamie neck. I give him back and he really took it to keep it. LEND it to Jamie to show off in front of relatives and now he ask to RETURN back!!
2) Steamboat
Realised that not only liver turn sour. Even the abalone that I bite taste sour ! In the end, I did not really eat much. Hubby has got tummy ache after eating.
3) NUMBER 2
MIL bring up the topic again. Asked me when I intend to give Jamie a bro. I told her I am not really concern if it is a boy or girl as long as the child is healthy and good. She said in front of the relatives, No matter what also must have a boy mah. Then all kept quiet!
She even say in front of everyone. If u really have a grandson, I will give u 30K. I was super pissed (sorry to use this) !! Want to use 30K to buy a grandson!! They really Zhong Nan Qing Nu !!
MIL come up with a formula to determine how to give birth to a son or daughter:
49 - (Mummy's age + Mummy's conceive mth) = Result
Result = Odd (BOY)
Result = Even (GIRL)
She try it in front of all relatives using Jamie as sample. And say, No wonder the first one is GIRL.
Then she use this mth as sample again, and it turn out to be BOY. And say in front of everyone, Try this month lar..sure get BOY.
I was both pissed off and embarass in front of everyone leh.
I HATE NEW YEAR !! Sometimes when I think back, regretted marrying into this family. They dun appreciate girls and only treat me like a pig.
I dun think anyone here will have THIS KIND OF MIL and FIL.