Hi Mashy ... if u want, can always create opportunity, CNY, March school hol break gathering, National Day, Christmas, oh-it's a long weekend, let's get together ... just find some excuse :->
but i find if the school doesn't have the culture, it might be difficult to substain ... my older son's school used to have, n we still get invited after he's left for 1 yr, but never in his current school, but I tell myself dont bother since he's quite matured n he's left iwth 1 yr to go but I think when it's 6 yrs or 3 yrs, then, I'll go "invest" in a birthday party ... hehehe ...
I think it's not worth effort to scold another kid that's not yours. I did that the other day, to a bro-n-sis pair ... they are prob 8-9 yrs old and was teasing the 6 and 3 yrs old (mine included). when I go and talk to them, they can't really understand what I'm asking them to stop to do ... n grandma was also there. I didn't bother to talk to the grandma, figure if she got eyes, she can see ... n i used it as scenario to teach my kids what's good and bad behaviour... but only the older one understands, 3-yr-old still blur blur ...
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