Hi gals...
was very busy with work... din have time to come in... try to reply to your message hope I never miss any.
sin yee
Hmm.. I think finally 1 fine day we will be staying with my PIL. But currently they still have their house and stuff and even when my MIL take care of my SIL ( her daughter) kids, she travel up on weekday and come back on weekends to her own place.
But with the new baby. i think it is possible that both MIL n FIL will come to take care of bb and probably stay for good.
I have no objection abt that cos I need them to help take care of bb when I'm working and MIL also cook meals for us which is good lor.
Inevitably there are still habits I dun like abt them

but cna't be help.
Kriss
wow u r coming to 16 weeks already... so exciting...
I also heard TMC has very famous classes too...
anyway I haven't tok of which class to attend like sleeping deers says, getting familiar with the enviornment is lor... since I will delivery at Mt A.
Confused
Ya I suppose...I'm blessed one to have PIL to help. But PIL help also got cons lor, cos they may spoil the baby ( like my friend's) and maybe sometimes their teaching for bb is not the same as mine. Anyway I dun think abt it now, settling confinement is the priority I guess.
My MIL also haven't give me any Bu Pin yet... she say around 5 mths then she "dun" for me.
Think I read someone wrote abt soya skin, ginko nuts dessert... after reading I tok wanna ask my MIL cook this sunday !! hahahhaaa...yum yum...
Juliann
You are so tough... not afriad of hardship...
Coping COnfiement alone can be very tough. So I suggest u make BACK UP plans, just in case you cannot cope or totally tired out.
SOmetimes we can be very stress then develop post natal blues, dun take this lightly but I hope u can cope la.
Hope All our babies will be all Kuai kuai and very easy to take care....