Re: maid
I have a Filipino maid. Coincidentally the day she arrived at my house, my water bag burst the very night! Well, she is pretty ok with taking care of baby as she has a 2 year old herself and has taken care of another bb with her previous employer back home. However, I feel that she has this superiority complex over me with regards to taking care of bb, especially during the first 2 mths. Admittedly, I was a klutz and panic easily. But I decided to make it a point to take care of bb the whole time and got my mom to help babysit when I went back to work. She is now only helping out but main caregiver is my mom. I know I am pretty insecure, scared hat bb will like maid over mommy. Also, can't really trust them 100%.
*hiaz... just now bb cry like mad when I tried to put him to sleep. But immediately calmed down when my mom carried him. So disappointed you know, everyday I will be rushing back home while facing so much stress at work, just so that I can put him to bed but realise it is getting more and more difficult. He also doesn;t seem to be particularly excited when see me.
I think it is still best to be a SAHM where you can truly bring up bb the way you want. I mean I used to be able to make him fall asleep on his own during my maternity leave but nowadays its impossible without rocking him for at least 30 mins to an hour as my mom has been doing that.
Re: blender
So far only used it to blend apple juice and pear juice. It's ok, I mean I don't have other blenders to compare so dun really know.
sl,
aiyah! Probably she drinks a lot more when she latches on, so no worries for you. My boy really drinks little lor cos he's on total FM.
Re: vitamins
any mommies giving vitamins to bb? My mom suggest to try some vitamin that can supposedly help increase appetite. I am sceptical of it. Better ask ped first.