jenifur: u try putting ur tee in the top corner of the cot, i guess she just cant smell u. it might help u. When clarisse fall ill, she too sleeps between us, after recovering getting her back to her cot was so difficult. it takes sometime... now she sleeps in her toddler bed beside us, but she will wake up and look for me. and i have to crawl down to nurse n she will go back to sleep. 3 days only lehz.. give her sometime.. nt easy, but soon it wil be over. or could it be the cot is already too small? clarisse has a BIG problem when she sleeps in the cot, she will cry n cry ... cos everytime she turns from side to side, her hands will hit the side of the cot and started crying (almost every 30 mins affair). After tt i decided enough is enough and we went to get her a bigger toddler bed.