hmm, never say things too early.. yest was trying to wean zephan off his pacifier, with disasterous results! he cried for 15 min during his afternoon nap, and slept for about 40 min. but when we gave him back his pacifier for the night, he still continued to cry! cried for about 15min before he went to sleep, but this morning still had about 5 min of crying before sleeping. haiz.. think he's got a bit of phobia of the bed already. hope he goes back to his usual "happy to go to bed" routine soon. thank God he slept through last night as usual though!
raisintan, i reach my parents' place at nearly 7pm to have my dinner and fetch zephan. reach home nearly 8pm and put him to bed. so it's only about 40min interaction with him. hb n i take turns to eat/play with him. also try to do some sing songs with him in the car. i now quite bo chap abt working late. just go off at 6pm sharp. but daytime just have to pay back a bit lor.
yah, the BFg system is quite amazing. but i dunno how to stop actually! hehe.. it's a v good calming tool that sometimes even pacifiers cannot match! his total milk intake is 3 feeds, so 2 latches and 1 FM during weekdays.
eileenp, at least u TBF till 10m, i switched to PBFg soon after i went back to work, cos i simply couldn't express enough! initially i tandem pumped in the morning when i latched, and combined with the miserable 40ml i got from office. that was enough for him until he grew older and i latched him on both sides during each feed. after that i went on PBFg. now i even cut back on using pump, just hand express! save on lots of washing as well.. hehe...