Kelly,
the nurse helped me to shave evrything off the lower part.
After giving birth, there was no milk or colostrum at all till my ard 5th day. the supply is still very low. I only manage to able bf at the most twice a day.
Sharon,
i had csection as my gynae recommend me as the position of my baby is not very good for natural birth. So hubby say if try natural n cannot must go csection in the end,it will be really a double "nightmare" for me to experience both at the same time. so in the end we opt for csection.
Adeline,
do u have alot of discharge after u give birth? i didnt have much at all. only abit stain, is it normal for that who had went thr csection?
August,
thks. Now taking care of my baby with my hubby is really not an easy task. Esp at night as i cant wake up at all n most of the time is hubby woke up to feed.
mngo,
thks. But one of my fren say she didnt feel much pain lei.
Beanie,
the first few days is really tough. But if u have confinement lady to help u, it wont be tough as u can leave it to her. But becos my confinement is done by my mil, i cant expect her to help us to take care of baby at night. so things r really tough, n hubby most of the time spent on feeding baby so that i can rest. Although this is his way of loving me, i feel so insecure n been crying also. Told him i missed the days when i was pregnant n the full attention n love, n everything done properly for me. N me past few days also very stressed over milk supply, partly is becos at hospital, the lactation nurse keep on ask me to let baby to latch on till i was stressed, n tot that immediately after give birth must have milk. but then slowly i asked ard, it only comes in a few days or weeks. So dont like me, stressed myself too much in hospital. Every 9 woke up n cried at hospital, n tot myself not normal when i didnt have milk. Now with all the uspport of the gers in this forum, i m getting so much better
vaingirl,
thks alot! i m getting better now, just that still cant cope with getting up at night esp when i have the pain which makes my movement much slower. How can we increase milk supply? i find being a mother to take care of baby is really tough. Told my hubby that how i wish i can have a confinement lady to help during the first mth as i see my fren, her first mth not so stressed n she can rest well. Hubby has been good to me, tell me he will take care while i rest lor. but then i find very xinku, wonder how m i gg to take it?
Chihiro,
thks. i think all mums r great!
TBL,
yar i agreed. donno y become so emotional.
angelia,
dont worry! ur baby will be out to this world soon. But when she is out, u will missed the dayus wherever u go, eat or do, she is always with you. Just like last 9 told hubby i missed those pregnant days where she was inside me. Wish u have a smooth delivery n do update us.
little_devil,
yar my princess today is 6day old. yar i also see her sometimes smile in her sleep, or do some funny little gestures as well. Its really amazing. But i still feel very apinful at my wound. do u have this problem? getting up from bed etc? it seems u r fine n doing very well.
Btw, today i went to see my gynae and he did mention not to have massage as the wound might not be completely healed after 1mth plus. He say he scared that the massgae might affect our womb n cause internal bleeding, so highly not recommended lei for those went thr csection. Today i weigh, i am ard 50.5kg. Before give birth at hospital, i weighed 56.5kg, so means that i only lost 6kg. Before pregnancy, i am ard 42.6kg one. so i also have ard 8kg mopre to lose. then gynae also advise cannot do exercise for 3-6mths lei. so i also donno how i am ggto shred lei.
i really peifu u. i was very drowsy n when SLK visited me in the morning, i was like half awake. Btw, SLK baby boy is really cute! look like her hubby.