skyblue, deer, when he's only 2 day old, his PD said, there's a murmur and refer us to cardio, i nvr tot much of it. until cardio said there's a hole between the halves of his heart. so instead of blood, pumping in frm one and out the other circulating in the body, there's a tendency of it flowing out into the lungs. On top of top there's 2 other tiny holes, so total 3. not life threathening, no surgery required at moment (his recent trip in feb doc said that he's actually doing quite well - hopefully they will mend themselves). so far only one ECG done when he was 3mth old. his next cardio appt/ecg scheduled coming aug. really praying to hear favourable news. no medication given for his condition. either self heal or correct surgically. and cardio ensure us that even with surgery he can hv normaly sports life into adulthood, which we are not very sure!! all surgery is not 100% rite??
so due to this prob i nvr let him scream too much and just let him hv his way. whenever he cries/scream i'll just drop everything and rush to him.
yep, this is the reason (based on the ecg done at age of 03mth, they rejected the case) we approached ntuc, aia, great eastern and prudential. ntuc n aia drop case - once we mention his condition, submit ecg to agent but bet they didnt even submit to superiors, great eastern - -ve reply. prudential, went all the way to get med report frm kkh, after 3wks of waiting, also no luck. deer, tks for ur offer, so i guess as the insurers suggested either wait for another 12mths or get his condition surgically corrected. i guess the 12mth wait is more practical.
so far only my parents/sis/ a very close friend know of his conditions. we didnt even tell mil or any of my colleagues. which i personally find that such news didnt nd to be "broadcasted". guess this is the retribution for my sins
giggler, i think we hv to be very firm n determine like pvl (no nonsense n stern) then we are able to discipline them. in our case, yes, to some extend personally feel that i'm spoilting him but i think that's they way i care/love him. after that "isolate" incident during my confinment, i dare not left him to cry out anymore, looking back, i'm really a bad mama to leave him crying helplessly.
did you planned all ur events to coincide on the same day?
shook, we started dating on 30 may, rom 30 may, but wedding was on 27 may. (u know lah, date no good/auspicious enough so got to choose another date). so jus to simplify things all celebrate on 30 may
i guess unless we are the main caretaker, really hard to discipline them at times. here we trying to coach, but behind our back, those g.parents is another story liao.
this yr only left 4 days. must "save emergency" and already blocked a date in jun for jerald's b'day.
that last sat of the mth, both of us happend to be off, so that's why i got the idea of goin bintan.
ruffy, ur mum so active!!! go back packing! dun think i can ever do it as i got too much to pack.
if ryan nvr spent such a long time with stranger, better dun play with that idea. he may get really upset.
deer, u gave birth by c-sec or natural?? if c-sec shd hv requested gynae to oblidge if ALL CONDITIONS FAVOURABLE TO BOTH MUMMY N BB.
