Hello, i am new to this forum. I was hoping to engage with single mums and fellow moms in Singapore.
I am officially a single mother, 26 yrs old, currently my son is 2 months old.
I am non-Singaporean and the father of my illegitimate child is a Singaporean.
Heres my story:
Met him January 2016. Since i am residing and working abroad (sorry this part is abit private; but its just within Asia) I often fly to Singapore to see him and spend time with him during my off days or holidays. Before we met for the first time in Singapore, we have been communicating via phone, whatsapp, etc. Basically we have been sharing things together like work family and so on. I thought we clicked. Until one day, on July 2016. I found out Im pregnant. Im shocked and somehow worried and not ready for this pregnancy. I decided to surprise him telling the news and hope to see what he thinks of this unborn baby...so I flew to Singapore. Fast forward abit my story --> I told him im pregnant. he went silent and He walked out on me. texted called him did not respond back to me. I left singapore without him saying goodbye or even at least see him. that was the last time i saw him. i came home i cried. i didnt know what to do. and didnt know how to tell my parents my coworkers my boss and my close friends!
August 2016 - i received a call from him after one month of disappearance!! i was really angry and disappointed after we talked. he told me hes not ready for this baby and he said hes gonna get married!!! WT**** all this time i thought hes single and CLAIMING hes single! we even dated and shared our personal lives! i just felt betrayed~
September 2016 - he got married to a woman apparently hes been in a relationship for 5 years!!
I no longer in contact with him and he blocked me everywhere. i assume he doesnt want to do anything for my child. and i also found out that now the wife is 4 months pregnant! i just dont understand it. i tried contacting him recently and he said the baby is never his! i demanded a DNA test but he refused!
all i want is to prove to him that hes the father. but for the best interest of my baby the father needs to have the obligation to support my child.
so i need your help, i will be flying to singapore soon to find some lawyer to help me go through this sh**. to do Paternity DNA test and child support. If anyone can recommend me some good child maintenance lawyer i really appreciate it!
Thanks!
From,
*betrayed single mom*
I am officially a single mother, 26 yrs old, currently my son is 2 months old.
I am non-Singaporean and the father of my illegitimate child is a Singaporean.
Heres my story:
Met him January 2016. Since i am residing and working abroad (sorry this part is abit private; but its just within Asia) I often fly to Singapore to see him and spend time with him during my off days or holidays. Before we met for the first time in Singapore, we have been communicating via phone, whatsapp, etc. Basically we have been sharing things together like work family and so on. I thought we clicked. Until one day, on July 2016. I found out Im pregnant. Im shocked and somehow worried and not ready for this pregnancy. I decided to surprise him telling the news and hope to see what he thinks of this unborn baby...so I flew to Singapore. Fast forward abit my story --> I told him im pregnant. he went silent and He walked out on me. texted called him did not respond back to me. I left singapore without him saying goodbye or even at least see him. that was the last time i saw him. i came home i cried. i didnt know what to do. and didnt know how to tell my parents my coworkers my boss and my close friends!
August 2016 - i received a call from him after one month of disappearance!! i was really angry and disappointed after we talked. he told me hes not ready for this baby and he said hes gonna get married!!! WT**** all this time i thought hes single and CLAIMING hes single! we even dated and shared our personal lives! i just felt betrayed~
September 2016 - he got married to a woman apparently hes been in a relationship for 5 years!!
I no longer in contact with him and he blocked me everywhere. i assume he doesnt want to do anything for my child. and i also found out that now the wife is 4 months pregnant! i just dont understand it. i tried contacting him recently and he said the baby is never his! i demanded a DNA test but he refused!
all i want is to prove to him that hes the father. but for the best interest of my baby the father needs to have the obligation to support my child.
so i need your help, i will be flying to singapore soon to find some lawyer to help me go through this sh**. to do Paternity DNA test and child support. If anyone can recommend me some good child maintenance lawyer i really appreciate it!
Thanks!
From,
*betrayed single mom*