Hi, I was with this Dr Tan SB for 1 year plus. My friend conceive naturally with her. However, she threatened to stop seeing me and started giving me very sarcastic remarks when she found out that I was doing IVF with Prof PC WONG. She really detest him.
To me, she lacks the compassion and empathy as a doctor. When I failed my first IVF, I went to see her. She was so sacarstic and crude in her words. She looked at her phone for good 3 min, ignoring me when I asked her questions. Then she told me, "you go ask Prof lah, since u wanto see Prof." Then she added, "here I help those who wants to conceive naturally, not through IVF". She refused to tell me anything about my condition. Just prescribe medication and asked me to go.
I did not crywhen i got my BFN news. But I cried for the first time as I stepped out of her room.
Anyway, she won't give you any tcm support once you start on IVF stimulation. You may want to consider tcm doctors that are willing to complement IVF treatment.
I changed my tcm doctor to Dr Tan Kian Sing from Clementi and he complemented the IVF treatment with daily acupuncture and medication during stimulation. He will also help you to try to conceive naturally while waiting for IVF queue. I'm now 28 weeks pregnant from my 2nd fresh.
I know there are other tcm doctors that will do likewise and complement the IVF treatment.
I don't really log in to write in forum these days. But I really do not want you to waste your time on the wrong doc. Time is so precious to us.