About slightly less than 4 mths. From 1st consultation (Nov) to IVF counselling (late Dec) was slightly longer. I cld only sign the IVF constent in late Jan becos my hubby had an overseas trip. After signing consent can start once menses start.
IVF for Feb/Mar 2017
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About slightly less than 4 mths. From 1st consultation (Nov) to IVF counselling (late Dec) was slightly longer. I cld only sign the IVF constent in late Jan becos my hubby had an overseas trip. After signing consent can start once menses start.
I'm also with dr Yu for my first IVF, also gonna start once my menses report this week. Glad to have found a cycle buddy with the same doc
catinthesky
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catinthesky
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Hi ladies, need some advice.
Time is running out for me (turning 39 soon). Have failed 1st fresh in Dec 2016. Dr advise me to start next fresh as soon as Feb menses arrive.
However, I am quite overweight and Dr did tell me to try to lose weight. Should i actually take 2-3 months to try lose more weight before embarking on the next IVF? Or should i just start the next IVF asap (since time is ticking). It's quite hard for me to lose weight fast due to genetics so I figured at least 3 months to lose.
Time is running out for me (turning 39 soon). Have failed 1st fresh in Dec 2016. Dr advise me to start next fresh as soon as Feb menses arrive.
However, I am quite overweight and Dr did tell me to try to lose weight. Should i actually take 2-3 months to try lose more weight before embarking on the next IVF? Or should i just start the next IVF asap (since time is ticking). It's quite hard for me to lose weight fast due to genetics so I figured at least 3 months to lose.
I'm also turning 39 and started my first cycle .. what did the doc recommend ?? Did he recommend you lose weight first ? You can also get him to direct you to a dietitian .. that's would be easier
mimi_june
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Hi is there any other problem except from being overweight? If don't have then, follow doc instruction. Losing weight in 2-3 months can't be easy. I think u should start exercise if u haven't started and at same time can go for another fresh cycle. Losing weight is long term process. Important is u need to be healthy and active during process and there is no any other underlying problems.
catinthesky
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I think he has been asking me to lose weight since 2 years ago (when I did IUI with him). I did lose about 8kgs since but still not enough. He prescribed me metformin but it didn't help at all. So I guess he sort of gave up and just said to not gain more weight hahaha.
catinthesky
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Both hubby and I don't seem to have any problems except perhaps my weight (70+ kg). Another reason is my ovarian reserve is on the lower side due to age.
Yeah I need to improve on my exercising.. to be honest it's so hard to do it as work tires me out. It's an excuse I know...
lady081980
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If it is a hindrance for ivf, it is best to do exercise to try to lose weight before embark new fresh cycle. I use 4 month to go gym everyday to exercise to lose weight before starting my 1st fresh. Maybe you can try for 1 month and see how and at the same time queue for the next fresh .
catinthesky
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Wow everyday! You are so disciplined.
I shall try to wake up early to jog everyday before work...
susuhalia
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i know its quite expensive but if you can afford it try getting a personal trainer to go with you at least once a week. i'm like you i dont like to exercise but having a trainer really helped to force me to turn up at the gym. having someone watch you and plan the activities out for you really helped me to focus on my fitness goals (if not i would usually chicken out and take the easy way out). all the best ok!
KKH Queue is in Jun when i went for briefing in early jan.
Serendipitygal
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Heard getting into exercising before a fresh cycle really helps. I started with short runs twice a week. Feels good to sweat it out actually. Start with just 2km listening to some music? Then gradually increase by a bit. Endorphins released makes you happier too
My work is long and erratic hours - so capitalize on weekends and try at least once or twice during the week?
catinthesky
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That's a great idea. But I don't think I can afford a PT now... IVF and TCM are making me dry
I will just have to get my butt off the couch and go exercise. Dragging my chubby hubby along!
catinthesky
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Heard getting into exercising before a fresh cycle really helps. I started with short runs twice a week. Feels good to sweat it out actually. Start with just 2km listening to some music? Then gradually increase by a bit. Endorphins released makes you happier too
My work is long and erratic hours - so capitalize on weekends and try at least once or twice during the week?
Sounds great! I used to do short runs a few times a week (years ago) but gradually fell into the "I'm too busy (excuse) too tired" cycle. Really need to pick this up again!
lady081980
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That's a great idea. But I don't think I can afford a PT now... IVF and TCM are making me dry
I will just have to get my butt off the couch and go exercise. Dragging my chubby hubby along!
Go to public gym. Cheap and affordable. 1 month member $30 unlimited access. Can use your ActiveSG$ given by government ($100).
I am also very overweight and been hitting the gym for years but i never really lose much weight, just got fitter. Its my PCOS that is hindering the weight loss process. Anyway i am contemplating cancelling my gym membership so that i can save the money. but i know if i cancel, i might just end up not having any work out since i hate running. Dilemma
Ttcjourney1982
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Hi gal,
Just some words of encouragement for u: I was in a similar position, finding it hard to exercise due to work commitments..but after reading that having a fit and healthy body would improve my chances of success, I forced myself to go for either a quick jog or long walks at least 3 times a week. Hence, after failing my first fet, I had 3 months before commencing my next fresh cycle. During this period, I was more hard-core about eating well and exercising. Everytime I felt tired or reluctant to go for my exercise routine, I asked myself this question: do u want a baby or not???!
Obviously the answer is a yes, so I would drag my butt off the couch (very difficult task after 9-10 hours in the office!)
I'm now 16 weeks preg, so u can do it! Just need to remind yourself of your long term goal ie cute healthy baby
All the best!
Ttcjourney1982
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No lah, not saying that but if possible to have a healthier bmi, try aiming for it! Must think positive!
I think i might need more than 2 years to reach the healthy range BMI. tho i am not extremely obese but my weight on the scale is alarmingly high. i am not sure if it is the bones or the muscles or what. I worked out for years and all i got was lost a few kgs and i got leaner.
Thanks to this, i am also going to pay higher premiums due to the weight for my insurance plans =(
Thanks to this, i am also going to pay higher premiums due to the weight for my insurance plans =(
Serendipitygal
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very heartening to hear that Ttcjourney1982Hi gal,
Just some words of encouragement for u: I was in a similar position, finding it hard to exercise due to work commitments..but after reading that having a fit and healthy body would improve my chances of success, I forced myself to go for either a quick jog or long walks at least 3 times a week. Hence, after failing my first fet, I had 3 months before commencing my next fresh cycle. During this period, I was more hard-core about eating well and exercising. Everytime I felt tired or reluctant to go for my exercise routine, I asked myself this question: do u want a baby or not???!
Obviously the answer is a yes, so I would drag my butt off the couch (very difficult task after 9-10 hours in the office!)
I'm now 16 weeks preg, so u can do it! Just need to remind yourself of your long term goal ie cute healthy baby
All the best!
Although I don't have a success story (yet) but great to hear how these lifestyle tweaks can improve our chances. You certainly motivates me to eat healthy (not just go for convenient and sinful food) and to move my ass and get some exercise.
Wishing you a smooth pregnancy.
Oh, thanks. So the waiting time us about 6 months. How long will it take to let doctor confirm we are suitable for IVF?
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Kambateh
Wishingstar98
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Hi Cat!Hi there! Yay to cycle buddies! Hope that we can all BFP this round
Can i check if nuh do egg retrieval on sat? What dose of gonal F did u start for last cycle?
yuiyui
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may how much is your gym membership? i would like to lose weight too
Hi adlina, I'm starting my first FET too. Just started taking medicine on Tuesday and am due for scan next Saturday.
Hi I'm also hoping to have my FET soon .. just started Menses and trying for a natural FET first .hopefully lining would be ideal for implantation
pray and hope ..Though this is my first FET, I've had 3 fresh IVF. My first 2 IVF cycle were with KKH, the 2nd cycle unfortunately ended with miscarriage. Just did my 3rd IVF with Doc SF Loh in Dec/Jan which wasn't successful... thus the upcoming FET. You?
Hi I'm also hoping to have my FET soon .. just started Menses and trying for a natural FET first .hopefully lining would be ideal for implantation
Hello girl, yes we can only hope and pray
where are you doing your FET? I think we'll likely be on a similar cycle/timeline for FET. Here's hoping the best for us all
yuiyui
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Although my Hb has low count, i also feel my lining is not enough for implantation to take place as I notice my menses is not much. sometime last only 2.5 days. Is there any remedy to improve the lining before IVF? my tcm told me maybe my prostrate is not producing blood well
I'm with nuh ... haha hope for the best ya .. cos mine is natural and first time so doc say have to see how firstHello girl, yes we can only hope and pray
Many recommend taking red beans soup and red meat to improve lining.
Fitness first is about 160 per month
mimi_june
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Which day ur at?
mimi_june
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Last time my lining was 3 on 4th day. Urs should be normal. Lining increases with ur follicles growth. Near to ovulation, increase rate will more.
Thanks mini June!
