Zenn-do u hv the habit to tell ur maid next day plans? I dun...
. So at times cc close, I also never inform... Just suddenly end up at home etc. So I can understand if my maid dun bother if I am home.
In fact I like it tat she will auto disappear when kids with me. Privacy given to us. But of cos if ur practice is diff from me, and by right she shd know wat to do... Then sigh... (or maybe she think last ponteng
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Ecmom- think if e is confuse then all the more shd talk to her. Or when reading books, point out to her diff pple hv diff roles. Can't be salesgal who helps u also call mummy mah.
Same as zenn... I will openly ask helper dun interfere. I also think nothing wrong with saying "mummy says cannot". In fact I tot her to say tat. Well I feels it will show who is in control.
When u walk away to pour another cup, then she ran to seek comfort-I think normal. And I also think if maid hug her back is ok. 1st maid din interfere mah... U walk away means 'end' and then since e auto run to her... If ur maid brush her aside, isn't it worst? My boy won't run to my maid after I scold him.... I only notice my maid will go pacify him like give him water etc. But if zav bu ling Qing, I will ask maid to leave him alone.
On the waking u part- think as a maid I also won't dare!! Haha.
Recently zayden suddenly v sticky to us. Just few wks ago, he v sticky to maid which although sad to me, but normal as maid is his day caregiver mah. Now with the change, of cos happy but can't help but wonder.
Should be becos he is older thus knows the diff already... He is not scare of her or anti her. If zay dun see me/hubby/my parents, he happily be with her. But once he spots us.... Sure cry to wants us to carry. Or if we r carrying him, maid carry away..also cry. When I stay home and work.. I can hear him laughing happily with her...( hv to hide to wk now)
Just being paranoid why so sudden...I scare! Haha