Mtdt,
Mind is 28yo, she is phi and kids already 7, 5 and 4yo so cant call her kakak, I ask Elisha call her aunty…sometime Elisha try to be funny and call her name…I told her not to answer her too… must correct her…she is aunty cant call name…
Think I quite command for kids to call nanny mummy, my friend mum help babysit a boy, he call the aunty mummy they are like a family till now he already 20+ liao. Still visit them quite often. They are very close.
Elisha is bit confuse, her tr do feedback to me on the 2nd day of school…she call her mummy when she need help…so she wont understand if
maid keep answer her and she keep telling her ‘mummy will do’ like she is her mummy and promising her something…
I’m not just being upset, it more on the discipline side…I have to let her know she have only one mummy…when mummy discipline her she have to listen not go to maid for shelter…
Zenn,
So u intent to change? My agent call hb said new maid will have to wait longer…sian…
Mine lagi bagus lah, sometime I will doze off with the kids…I told her to wake me up when she come into the room to sleep…she never ever wake me…I ask why she never wake me…she said thot it late so never wake up…1st time told her I dot mind juz wake me up I need to do something…2nd time told her samething…3rd time also…now I don’t bother to ask liao…sian…never follow instruction…
I told maid off…sometime when Elisha cry…I told her not to go to her, let her cry…she will secretly go and talk to her…I try not to ‘scold’ her in front of my kids…I don’t want them to see and feel why mummy always scold aunty and she always kept quiet, so pitiful. Mummy is bad guy…everytime after I discipline Elisha I will walk to maid and tell her “don’t bother her, I will handle”…but then…sigh….
Eunice,
Aiya your’s difference mah, can’t blame Elvis lah, he spent time with her more then u
, he see her almost 24/7 lei.
Eh if Elvis don’t like your maid that means something is wrong.