Mentioned in the past. Perhaps, mummies will share with you.Can anyone share what's the procedures to return thanks to zhu sheng niang niang?
问得很好。请看以下解答。老师,
如果是怀孕, 能参加婚宴吗?
可以。老师
我去立了我,先生和孩子的冤情债主牌位和消灾延寿牌位。请问是否妥当?
新加坡不像其他国家,可以放心。这样大型法会回响给冤情债主是否有问题?
惭愧。还没仔细看。我也想请问老师是否看完了我的案例?如果看完了,请问老师建议我读哪本经?
可以。暂时就这样。我还在念谱门品,抄的是心经。没有回响。谢谢老师帮忙。
很多人不知道,有些人是红白事避忌。要是有人忌红事,多半也会忌白事。有些人则不同,红白事不避忌。
白事
有不少人运势低,而不知道自己忌白事的话,吊丧完后的情况很有可能是生病、打骂孩子、夫妻吵架、外面殴斗、惹官非。
若运势偏高的人,不知自己忌白事,吊丧完后的情况没那么严重,不过还是有影响的。
白事有煞(详细不说),加上灵体特多,所以很多时候,人‘沾到’或者被‘煞到’都不知道。这就是为什么人去了丧事之后,流产、不舒服、车祸、不顺利、倒霉等等。不信鬼神的人都会说,睡不好啦、吃不好啦、心情不好啦、精神紧张啦、压力大啦...种种原因。很多人不pantang,那是他们的选择。但有神眼通/鬼眼德人,什么都看得到。即使看得见,也不太要说出来。
老师有一次去Sin Ming Drive吊唁。同桌上坐了个大胖子,狼吞虎咽拼命地吃Kali-Kuay(咖喱鸡)和Kong Ba Bao(寇肉包). 陪他吃的有死者的鬼魂和周围的孤魂野鬼。Kali-Kuay和Kong Ba Bao都是那些鬼的口水。老师连水都没喝,立刻换了位子坐。这还没完,两只鬼还陪他搭bus。当时老师猜想,应该是陪胖子回家了。
学佛人真正精进的话,倒不用怎么怕灵性纠缠。但是,“白事的煞”,是免不了的。
红事
红事(庆寿、弥月、嫁娶)是喜庆日子。
但不要认为,红事是好的。有些人(除了丧家之外)是需要避开红事的,但有些人需要‘冲喜’。有特别情况的人需要新朗新娘(比如:新婚喜宴)来‘冲’。这就为什么有些人与新婚人跟来宾握手之后,会中马票、股票赚钱、怀孕、遇上好对象、升职等等。
ROM、纳彩、嫁娶的日子需要大师/师父择日,这样新婚夫妇才会当旺而且鸿运当头!有不少人假厉害,翻日历选日子,这些都不行的。在日历看似好日子,很有可能是凶日。凶日宴客就不行了。凶日宴客加上荤卓,更有麻烦的。在喜庆日子大家都觉得的happy,实际上多少隐藏暗凶。
老师看过一场婚宴,来了位刚办完丧事的人。摸了棺材,脱了孝服,就来attend dinner. 新婚夫妇傻傻的(don't know anything) 还跟他shake hand. 刚办完丧事,凭什么给新婚人祝福。害了新婚人和来宾。这样真的很不应该。
孕妇可不可以去红事(婚宴)呢?有不少members曾经写来问同样的问题。不懂的人都会说ok。老师建议怀孕妇女留在家,这样保证安全。
提醒孕妇:
第一. 别人(孕妇)去参加红事后没事,这是她们的事,但你(自己)未必会没事。
第二. 孕妇或许只有这次的怀孕机会,要是掉了(流产),以后要怀孕就困难了。
第三. 宴客在晚上,要更加避免外出。
大肚婆若不想做的事,有永远给不完的excuses,而且这大家能接受。人不去没关系,红包总得要到。人不去又不给红包,准给人在背后骂。
Hi ek_hubby, not sure did I miss u at the temple earlier... I reach around 12+ and got the 2 eggs. Thk u for spreading bb dust to all & let us know....Hi all,
My baby boy turning 1 month old. I'm returning 100 eggs to 注生娘娘 @ TPY this Saturday (17 May). Will be returning the eggs during noon time around 12.30 pm.
Please feel free to go and take them.
Good Luck to all!
对不起哦...没时间看。老师,could u pls advise my unborn gender. What particulars do u need? Thanks
I think I mentioned in the past.老师。 我今天去了一趟 toa payoh 拜注生娘娘。 我发现庙里有两尊~一个在庙的左边, 一个在庙的正面。 我当时我两尊多拜了, 请问这是否正确? 还是我必须拜其中一尊就可以了?
要看看当时圣水里有什么东西。想请问一下,我的女儿(4岁)在泰国庙拜拜时看到了圣水里有佛像但是她不知道那是设么就说 ‘Eee,dirty water..' 那名和尚马上就给我女儿看看碗里的佛像并解释说那是 holy water and not dirty water。。 我连忙道歉但是和尚微笑的说 'she is still young and don't understand.' 但是我的心里还是很纳闷也很担心,虽说是童言无忌,但是我还是觉得我们是失礼了。What can we do to apologise or mitigate the words that my daughter had blurted out?
抄经行。不要回向。Mentioned in the past before.不好意思,我想念经或抄经来让自己得到多一点的修养,也想为家人即一点德/平静 etc, 想请问一下,我因该从何开始?每天抄/念吗?
每个人像你这样想就好。我最终的希望是能够今世事今世了,不要拖累孩子及家人也希望自己能够善终。
呵呵...不要拖累孩子及家人也希望自己能够善终。
能帮则帮。非常的谢谢您花时间来带领我走向我最终的道路以及让我有另一番的见解。
ok. 很好。有吃素,现在都在吃了。
不会。没事,是我没给您浓缩到最短,写着又变长了。我诚心请您有空回我因为这事恼人。
很好。先暂时这样。我有空也去观音庙请求菩萨让这事能尽快解决,也去充电。现在我就继续念普门品和抄心经。
对这菩萨面前讲。还有老师我读法会网站时有提到要请冤情债主一起进食,请他们一起来听经。这样做是否正确?若妥当,就念弟子 xxx 邀请 xxx 的冤情债主来听经等等,可以吗? 谢谢。这是我第一次参加所以要做好功课。
没错。完全正确!Remember to stay away from meat when you are reciting sutra. Good luck to all!
不用怕。不要乱讲话就ok。老师谢谢您的帮忙。有空请您教我念经组合。我在做三步一拜时也请求菩萨加持。冥冥中菩萨真的都在加持。感恩感恩!
老师虽然我看不到查巴郎的鬼,但我能感应它们请问它们会不会跟我回家?
It is alright.off topic awhile...
Point 1老师.. recent months been having moths flying into my house... any meaning to that? i am staying very high above level 30 i realise the moths started coming ever since my grandma in law passed away... got big one got baby ones
Last wed i went to the dentist nearby my house i saw this butterfly/moth in the picture ... Sat morning it flew to my house again... we managed to get it away from our balcony...
Point 2yesterday i fell aslp on the sofa and dreamt of my own grandma (i think so) funeral... my grandma passed away very long ago.. after i woke up i saw it flew past again today i saw it again now at the balcony.. it is about one hand size big
i went to pray to both of them during qing ming..
Point 3by the way.. i am trying to conceive but just received my blood test result not very good.. i went to si ma lu guan yin to pray and the lot says will have baby boy.. i am just hoping for the best.. just not sure if these incidents have any correlation?
It has been discussed before. I have also answered your queries. (click here).法会那天,我就静静好了。还有老师我的孩子很容易卡阴,我们七月都躲在家,但是今年的七月他得晚上去 enrichment. 我很怕中标。请问要如何处理?enrichment 时间是固定地,不能补课. 头大。请问一般小孩几岁后才不会卡阴?
I am not associated with them.老师 请问两天的法会我们自己按排时间还是法会的负责人会通知我们?当时报名时忘了问是怎么样按排的。感谢。
飞娥常出没,看是什么程度。在多过一段时间,看看吧。谢谢老师解答,家里没神台。
我先生把moth 赶走后又刚飞来另一只。。感觉很不对。
缦衣(类似袈裟)是配搭海青。意思是,可以穿海青,但无需缦衣。明白了老师。谢谢指点。请问您的 attached pdf 里有句'在家居士无论受戒与否,不塔缦衣',的意识是什么?我小时候就皈依了但妈妈没帮我把海清请回家,法会当天穿什么呢? 好多問題阿,真不好意识。
习惯就好。this is a very helpful thread but its so unfortunate im not very good in Chinese. only can read a few words i cant understand what 老师is explaining
i also go pray to ZSNN several times but not sure if ive done it right.
ok. Understood.老师, I have a problem. Have been thinking if I shld post here and seek your advice cos it's not related to zsnn.
明白。I suspect there is a spirit in my house. I can sense it. It has been there for weeks already. I can feel that it is harmless, but sometimes I feel uncomfortable.
Eg. a few days ago, I was sorting my clothes to be washed. Thereafter, I walked from the yard back to the wardrobe to confirm I have cleared all laundry, I saw my bra swinging. I usually hand wash my bras and this bra was hung on the hanger, waiting to be washed. It could not be caused by the wind, cos the walk-in wardrobe is quite enclosed and not near the windows. I was stunned and stood frozen, staring at the swinging bra. It stopped after another 2 swings. I just walked off, pretending nothing happened. 老师, what should I do?