Sometimes it is outright abuse and you know it is not right.
Sometimes it’s at the edge where you don’t know whether it is abuse or not ( like where I am now)
I’ve struggled with an unhappy and tumultuous marriage for the past few years and don’t understand when or how my husband has changed from a loving bf to the scary person he is now. I have known him for nearly twenty years.
I’ve tried to find support in my most desperate times but I called FLC - they promised to contact but never did. I called PAVE, they promised they will follow up and support me with a counselor but they didn’t. I break down in tears when I have to talk honestly to these people, I don’t think I have the strength to reach out and ask for help again, help is so hard to get.
I searched in the forum and realised there are support groups for miscarriages, ivf, unfaithful spouses but none for abuse. So I would like to start one.
Please, in this thread, support, but don’t judge.
Sometimes it’s at the edge where you don’t know whether it is abuse or not ( like where I am now)
I’ve struggled with an unhappy and tumultuous marriage for the past few years and don’t understand when or how my husband has changed from a loving bf to the scary person he is now. I have known him for nearly twenty years.
I’ve tried to find support in my most desperate times but I called FLC - they promised to contact but never did. I called PAVE, they promised they will follow up and support me with a counselor but they didn’t. I break down in tears when I have to talk honestly to these people, I don’t think I have the strength to reach out and ask for help again, help is so hard to get.
I searched in the forum and realised there are support groups for miscarriages, ivf, unfaithful spouses but none for abuse. So I would like to start one.
Please, in this thread, support, but don’t judge.