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Sexless Marriage

Discussion in 'Matters Of The Heart' started by beebuzz, Aug 9, 2010.

  1. sacrifice

    sacrifice New Member

    Maybe someone can form a support group to get daily dose of strength, for people who feel victimized in sexless marriage, or tempted to stray due to neglect, but sensible enough to protect the family from breaking up. Love and sex may change at different stages of marriage, some odd people may have hidden LGBT inclination. Trust may have been betrayed or become suspicious. Challenges we need to face and hold the family together.
     


  2. Alyssa Deguzman

    Alyssa Deguzman New Member

    Very unusual. Communication is important and you need to make sure what is the real issue about this.
     
  3. pinky bunny

    pinky bunny Member

    hi! How r u now? Hope ur issues improvised already. Dun mind able to pm thank
     
  4. JL8118

    JL8118 Active Member

    It's not healthy to be in a sexless marriage.
    It tends to make one tempted to stray due to neglect..
    I will be keen if there's such support group as well...
     
  5. pinky bunny

    pinky bunny Member

    hi! How r u now? Hope ur issues improvised already. Dun mind able to pm thank
    sis , how r u now ? Hope things get bette
    Yes no choice when u encounter it n with age at 40 . N I love to hav baby
     
  6. pinky bunny

    pinky bunny Member

    I’m also in sexless marriage for 7 years n still goin to do ivf
     
  7. pinky bunny

    pinky bunny Member

    Provide u r young able to divorce and find other that appreciate u
     
  8. Stansy

    Stansy Member

    I guess it all depends on the man age & or medical problem?
     
  9. pinky bunny

    pinky bunny Member

    Tat part of it. Boiled him herbs n send him seeing Tcm man hormones improved even with Viagra also cannot happen then he said mental block . Dated 7 years 1-2 years it ok actives then he had ladies outside n we dun hav sex for 5 years during dating then after he said he’ll change n try to improve on sex then we got married. After marriage, almost 7 years no sex by the time I’m age 41 already
     
  10. JL8118

    JL8118 Active Member

    During dating when no sex, you should have left him when he said improve and you still dont have it. You should not even agree to marry with him.
     
  11. pinky bunny

    pinky bunny Member

    Silly enf to continue to stay on
     
  12. pinky bunny

    pinky bunny Member

    Dun mind me asking r u in sexless relationship too ?
     
  13. JL8118

    JL8118 Active Member

    Pmed u
     
  14. Stansy

    Stansy Member

    He had affair then and how did u manage to accept & married him still??!!
     
  15. sacrifice

    sacrifice New Member

    Counting down to the day when I will be liberated from this sexless and loveless marriage. Hope everyone found their solutions and achieve peace.
     
  16. grapes88

    grapes88 New Member

    13 years and counting...sometimes wonder if I am the only one experiencing such things, not sure what’s the point of getting married. Maybe just for companionship but he is not my soulmate and we have no children. Don’t believe in love anyway so don’t even know why I should stay or leave the marriage. I’m already past my prime and can’t compete with sweet young girls for anything so can only try to live for myself and accept my fate.
     
  17. JL8118

    JL8118 Active Member

    Well, if you have no kids, why not give up on this marriage and move on? Especially when you said he's not even your soulmate.
    Probably in your situation, is the "used to it" kind of feel. But if am in your situation, i would have leave the marriage and proceed on with my life. The past years have already wasted. I don't want to waste my other half anymore...
     
  18. grapes88

    grapes88 New Member

    Aside from that problem, he is actually not a bad person, so far he didn’t cheat on me (or I haven’t caught him cheating), and he failed in his business few years ago, and he couldn’t do it because of his slipped disc problem and didn’t go and seek medical help.

    guess I couldn’t bring myself to be so heartless as to leave him when he has to handle so many problems in his life.
     
  19. JL8118

    JL8118 Active Member

    Well. For your case, even after div, u can still be friend with him. And can still help him in his problem.as a friend.
     
  20. grapes88

    grapes88 New Member

    He is an extremely egoistic man and until now I think he still don't acknowledge that this problem exist in our marriage, I think he will hate me for giving up and that makes me the "bad" person.
     
  21. JL8118

    JL8118 Active Member

    But well, how long you want to continue this kind of marriage?
    It's better to leave and let go to find your own happiness, rather than to cling on
     

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