It's mostly caused by unreasonable bosses who give unreasonable deadlines, and my husband is a perfectionist, who also has too much pride. He's thinking of leaving but have to wait since he's still bonded.
Sometimes, I try to console him but end up getting rebuked. As I'm a sahm, I can't help feeling it is because my words don't carry much weight. Would it be different if I'm also working?
I think we have only gone out by ourselves without the kid less than 5 times since 2.5 years ago. I know it's unhealthy but it's really hard to do so. Even at night after the kid has gone to bed, he would rather play his game past 12 am until he's very tired, rather than spend some time with me. I told him it seems as if I'm begging him for attention, but he has already made his stand on who is more important as he keep telling me to wait. I told him he will probably be happier if he's not married, then he can do whatever he wants.