hi mich, jane & mummies.
Hi i am back, too busy this two day. long story .hai......
1st-my twins see doctor yesterday as too many phelgm, 2nd twins cough until vomit out the milk & porriage. Doctor say they sensitive wth the food i give them that why lung a lot of phelgm. Ai ya, i am so careless, give them tian ji. I cook wth porriage, pd say my sons dont take seafood at the moment, will cause phelgm. My untie say good, so i give them to eat, after ate like that. so sad, i am so hate myself why give them this type of food.
Now after medicine better liao, my 2nd twins still vomit the things after cough. So I need to give him a bit by bit. Hope they get well soon.
2nd- this more serious, need all the mummies advice.
Wednesday my sis bring my maid out for checkup to renew her permit. I take this short time to check her things.
I notice her hp which i keep for her was inside her travel bag........!!!!!!! and she keep two box of tissuer box too in the bag. Dont know why she keep the tissue box, last time i ask her where the tissue box, she told me no more, i dont know she keep it, so i go and buy again. but now i saw in her bag.she took this two things was consider stole right?
Now the more serious is the hp which i was keep inside my drawer, mean that she open and stole it and keep inside her room.that hp got prepaid card but cant use,dont know why she keep the hp, and this way was wrong right? she stole my things is it? after she back , in the everning, i say, just now i took out your passport, notice your hp lose, did you take? youknow what she ask me, she say , i never take, if i want to use i will ask you.oh, my godness, she answer me like that????she lies me, after that i give her a chance hope she can put back, i ask her to find for me tomorrow as i am so careless, dont know where i keep the hp? the next morning, i still cant find it....after that, when she bath, i saw the hp no more in the travel bag. I am so happy i talk she put back my room, but, didn't...she hide it again. So in the everning, i give chance again, ask her to find again, if not lose how? she still answer me, if really lose than never mind.what to do? oh, dear, how dare she was, mummies, what should i do? i am so scared, i talk she was a good maid, but she didn't, she talk my things without my permision....This morning, i think she scared i check her things, she put back the tissur box back to the store room.but the hp still cant find.
I ask my agent, what should i do? she say, ask me dont scold her if i still need her, ask me to tahan until one years. iif really taboleh tahan, than fire her,my hubby say give her one more week, see what she do first.
Now i was worry she will contact outside peole or what.and i dont know why she keep the phone as i told her if she want the hp back from agent, than must let me keep, she cannot keep it, she agree. but now turn this...
she took my two things before, one time was she keep the game boy, i think she play at night, after few day i saw in her drawer, i gei gei say where was my game boy? she say dont know, after next day, she took out say from my hubby brother room, she say him play, never bring out, she lies me,, but that one i never say i know she stole, i just quiet.
another time, she take my empty diary book without mny permision too, i saw it at her room again, after that i ask he she say dont know, after 10minit, i say i want o check her room, than she take out, after that i scold her say cant take my things. this way was stole. after that nothings again as i forgive her.
so mimmiues,
what should i do? please help me, fire her? keep quiet? or ask her to sit down and told her i know she take?
please help