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tree_ice
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hi gals,
Its been some time since I last posted.. Craydon has been down with cough and flu lately and headache is he vomited almost every feed.. Since yest he sounded better.. Really very tiring when I hav to clean out the mess after each feed..
Little Craydon is coming to 8mth (non corrected age)in another 4days time and guess what, he has learn how to crawl.. actually not really crawl, he actually move fwd like a caterpilla..
But he still dun know how to sit without support yet.. Whenever we wana put him in sitting position, he will stretch both his legs out wanting to stand!! Very naughty.. keke..
Anyway he started solid too when he 1st turn 6mth++ (non corrected age), my mum always cook pork muscle porridge for him, once we cook pumpkin porridge for him for a few days and m auntie said pumpkin will make baby skin yellow hence we stop.. Is it true?
Its been some time since I last posted.. Craydon has been down with cough and flu lately and headache is he vomited almost every feed.. Since yest he sounded better.. Really very tiring when I hav to clean out the mess after each feed..
Little Craydon is coming to 8mth (non corrected age)in another 4days time and guess what, he has learn how to crawl.. actually not really crawl, he actually move fwd like a caterpilla..
But he still dun know how to sit without support yet.. Whenever we wana put him in sitting position, he will stretch both his legs out wanting to stand!! Very naughty.. keke..
Anyway he started solid too when he 1st turn 6mth++ (non corrected age), my mum always cook pork muscle porridge for him, once we cook pumpkin porridge for him for a few days and m auntie said pumpkin will make baby skin yellow hence we stop.. Is it true?
bloom
oh ok.. NAN HA 3 not out.
yeah troublesome, the Ergo cant face out. I sort shift the thingy so that she is at my hip. so one strap hanging free or loose not so used.hehhe I dunno how old this Ergo is, color faded liao but never mind ah - my main objective was to c how. then buy newer one later if alrite. I heartpain to fork out $182 for carrier, must try first.more ex than my stroller heheh.
powergirl
nice to hear from u. gd to hear he is better and learning to craw. An early happy birthday to Craydon!
oh ok.. NAN HA 3 not out.
yeah troublesome, the Ergo cant face out. I sort shift the thingy so that she is at my hip. so one strap hanging free or loose not so used.hehhe I dunno how old this Ergo is, color faded liao but never mind ah - my main objective was to c how. then buy newer one later if alrite. I heartpain to fork out $182 for carrier, must try first.more ex than my stroller heheh.
powergirl
nice to hear from u. gd to hear he is better and learning to craw. An early happy birthday to Craydon!
dm... cute ws' pics!
anchorpt pp so rude...
jane...ahaha.but at least he will tell u loh...my bb will still pee all over the floor if she is not wearing diaper, and she canot indicate that she wanted to pee... aaah.taht one is bodyless duck! how did siang manage to get it out?
costa, the arts fest got foc outdoor events mah..then can bring bb ther if she is too noisy just walk away... so less stress compared to those enclosed performance...
didi, costa, kkf, hehehe... was kapoing cos i know someone from there mah...so wondering if kkf is also working there...
kkf...wahhh..another holiday!!!! ehehee... just joking lah... next time just throw all this holiday plans to ur hb then u can relax ...
i tui na kate she also kena cough over the weekend... canot remember anything abt those pts..must go back and dig thru my pig sty table to look for the notes (scanned copy no color more difficult to see! haah)
daec..ahaha..me also no action yet bb starting to fall sick again and then hb ask again 'u still wan no 2?' ..sighhh... ehehe... last time when i wana buy i also saw a old old $50 on auctions (i think) wanted to buy but someone bidded for it... so had to buy a brand new one cos kate was climing out of the sarong using my hips as stepping stone.. was that person u? i find that hip carry is more tiring for my neck/shoulder cos only 1 strap to support...
fushigi, good to be active!
mimeole, welcome!
mimeole , strawberry, my bbsitter also started my bb on solids at 4 months actual (2.5 months corrected!)... but i had actually prefer to start her later.... but she said she was ready and greedyy..but her apetite didn't really catch up... every case differs though...
powergal, i tink u monitor the yellowness loh...
jane...ahaha.but at least he will tell u loh...my bb will still pee all over the floor if she is not wearing diaper, and she canot indicate that she wanted to pee... aaah.taht one is bodyless duck! how did siang manage to get it out?
costa, the arts fest got foc outdoor events mah..then can bring bb ther if she is too noisy just walk away... so less stress compared to those enclosed performance...
didi, costa, kkf, hehehe... was kapoing cos i know someone from there mah...so wondering if kkf is also working there...
kkf...wahhh..another holiday!!!! ehehee... just joking lah... next time just throw all this holiday plans to ur hb then u can relax ...
i tui na kate she also kena cough over the weekend... canot remember anything abt those pts..must go back and dig thru my pig sty table to look for the notes (scanned copy no color more difficult to see! haah) daec..ahaha..me also no action yet
bb starting to fall sick again and then hb ask again 'u still wan no 2?' ..sighhh... ehehe... last time when i wana buy i also saw a old old $50 on auctions (i think) wanted to buy but someone bidded for it... so had to buy a brand new one cos kate was climing out of the sarong using my hips as stepping stone.. was that person u? i find that hip carry is more tiring for my neck/shoulder cos only 1 strap to support... fushigi, good to be active!
mimeole, welcome!
mimeole , strawberry, my bbsitter also started my bb on solids at 4 months actual (2.5 months corrected!)... but i had actually prefer to start her later.... but she said she was ready and greedyy..but her apetite didn't really catch up... every case differs though...
powergal, i tink u monitor the yellowness loh...
disneymickey
New Member
daec,
like i've said, i dun use corrected age since my pd oso nev used tat. when i brought ws 4 her monthly jabs last time, he told me wait till 6mths then give, so i gave her in aug (she's born in feb)
like i've said, i dun use corrected age since my pd oso nev used tat. when i brought ws 4 her monthly jabs last time, he told me wait till 6mths then give, so i gave her in aug (she's born in feb)
disneymickey
New Member
powergal,
in fact, all orangy food may cause yellow. so i dun give pumpkin, carrot v often. it's always gd 2 mix. n frm my experience & many other mommies here, kids will reject veg after a certain age, so give while craydon doesn't know how to reject yet haha. now, my ger c green green stuff will say 菜 no. so i give cauliflower, brinjal, etc
in fact, all orangy food may cause yellow. so i dun give pumpkin, carrot v often. it's always gd 2 mix. n frm my experience & many other mommies here, kids will reject veg after a certain age, so give while craydon doesn't know how to reject yet haha. now, my ger c green green stuff will say 菜 no. so i give cauliflower, brinjal, etc
tree_ice
Member
Hi daec,
No wonder I thought how come my baby 8mth only & so early u wish him liao.. hahahaa..
Hi bloom and disneymickey,
Craydon never turn yellow.. In fact he turn fairer compared to his birth time.. anyway I really dun know what to add inside his porridge lorr.. only pork or potato..
Anyway just receive an sms from my fren, her 6mth old baby caught HFMD.. hopefully everything is alrite.. So scaary..
No wonder I thought how come my baby 8mth only & so early u wish him liao.. hahahaa..
Hi bloom and disneymickey,
Craydon never turn yellow.. In fact he turn fairer compared to his birth time.. anyway I really dun know what to add inside his porridge lorr.. only pork or potato..
Anyway just receive an sms from my fren, her 6mth old baby caught HFMD.. hopefully everything is alrite.. So scaary..
disneymickey
New Member
powergal,
u can add pumpkin, broccoli, peas (yucks, i hated tat haha), carrot, spinach, potato, sweet potato, corn, etc. but slowly. chkn can oso rt?
u can add pumpkin, broccoli, peas (yucks, i hated tat haha), carrot, spinach, potato, sweet potato, corn, etc. but slowly. chkn can oso rt?
kkf
Active Member
hi mimeole welcome to this thread.
arvin is cute!
daec, my hubby did not really scold me for the mistake, as he knew I didn't want it to be, my heart very pain also.
didi, went bintan before banyan tree. nice place.
jane, so good? the school organises tui na?
powergal hope craydon is better now. Dash when got cough, will vomit also. We always on standby at night. My mum mentioned eating too much carrots will make baby turn yellow. Dunno whether true. Anyway, dm is right, at one stage, children will start rejecting vegetables, like my boy now.
Btw, dash has flu now also.
Going for meetings starting today till next tuesday. Tomorrow going sungei buloh for raki cause going to bring kids there soon. sianz.
Bloom, kath is sick? Dash also. haha is it because of tui na?
arvin is cute!
daec, my hubby did not really scold me for the mistake, as he knew I didn't want it to be, my heart very pain also.
didi, went bintan before banyan tree. nice place.
jane, so good? the school organises tui na?
powergal hope craydon is better now. Dash when got cough, will vomit also. We always on standby at night. My mum mentioned eating too much carrots will make baby turn yellow. Dunno whether true. Anyway, dm is right, at one stage, children will start rejecting vegetables, like my boy now.
Btw, dash has flu now also.
Going for meetings starting today till next tuesday. Tomorrow going sungei buloh for raki cause going to bring kids there soon. sianz.
Bloom, kath is sick? Dash also. haha is it because of tui na?
bloom
actually I think if can delay somemore for #2 better. but ah age lah. next year 33 liao..see how. I may still delay. think with Nada I was too stressed. mite contribute to the pre-enclampsia.quarrelin with hubby parents over hse issue (which is still unresolved but now not so quarrel) really felt like very very alone, unsupported. dun want a repeat if the issue still not resolved.
ergo..I bought it thru b*ybsupplies forum. not an auction. but maybe the seller did try that. its faded cranberry color.I find the hip belt cannot be too lose or too tight. too tight, it on the waist.too lose drop lower than the hips. must hug the hips then ok. heheh maybe my big hips helps also. I either XL or bigger
actually I think if can delay somemore for #2 better. but ah age lah. next year 33 liao..see how. I may still delay. think with Nada I was too stressed. mite contribute to the pre-enclampsia.quarrelin with hubby parents over hse issue (which is still unresolved but now not so quarrel) really felt like very very alone, unsupported. dun want a repeat if the issue still not resolved.
ergo..I bought it thru b*ybsupplies forum. not an auction. but maybe the seller did try that. its faded cranberry color.I find the hip belt cannot be too lose or too tight. too tight, it on the waist.too lose drop lower than the hips. must hug the hips then ok. heheh maybe my big hips helps also. I either XL or bigger
didi,
yes, you just nd to bring them one time or else u can apply for them online and bring them to collect....
there is a booth there for you to take pictures....got a person there to help you...
if u take outside, make sure the requirements meet their standards..if you not happy wif d pic, can take away as all they nd is to delete nia...a few bucks only
my mum just made a couple of wks ago and some pple there complained tt those tt they took outside cant...
yes, you just nd to bring them one time or else u can apply for them online and bring them to collect....
there is a booth there for you to take pictures....got a person there to help you...
if u take outside, make sure the requirements meet their standards..if you not happy wif d pic, can take away as all they nd is to delete nia...a few bucks only
my mum just made a couple of wks ago and some pple there complained tt those tt they took outside cant...
powergal, slowly intro more veg to craydon loh.. u can intro green veg like brocoli, spinach too! or things like toufu, maize, etc
btw, i rem some of u mentioned long ago abt pearl peas or someting like that..those peas with reddish pod? how to cook and what is so good abt them?
kkf.ahahah....our 2 kids more weak after tui na,.. likethat time i went for tui na then it was raining heavily..in the end fell very sick for 4 days..(cannot even get up tat kind) but for kate, i find that after she turned 1 yo, she fell sick very often..like twice a month...
daec, i am 33 this yr so lagi worse... quarreling with hb does not help with my pre eclampsia either (he is very stingy, so stingy bb born already still dunwana buy bb mattress)... yeah... hip hugging is just nice..else if its too low canot walk too fast cos feels constricted.
btw, i rem some of u mentioned long ago abt pearl peas or someting like that..those peas with reddish pod? how to cook and what is so good abt them?
kkf.ahahah....our 2 kids more weak after tui na,.. likethat time i went for tui na then it was raining heavily..in the end fell very sick for 4 days..(cannot even get up tat kind)
but for kate, i find that after she turned 1 yo, she fell sick very often..like twice a month...
daec, i am 33 this yr so lagi worse...
quarreling with hb does not help with my pre eclampsia either (he is very stingy, so stingy bb born already still dunwana buy bb mattress)... yeah... hip hugging is just nice..else if its too low canot walk too fast cos feels constricted.bloom,
hehe we got lot things in common hubby also tight with $. seem that hav first kid more stress coz new to it. perhaps after have first kid, more accustomed to the extra finances ? I think must talk to them in advance abt all this : pre-preg talk heheh. I hope to have 3 babies before 35/36, that also why target next year. but must c how it goes..if 2nd one same story, I dunno lah..
hehe we got lot things in common
hubby also tight with $. seem that hav first kid more stress coz new to it. perhaps after have first kid, more accustomed to the extra finances ? I think must talk to them in advance abt all this : pre-preg talk heheh. I hope to have 3 babies before 35/36, that also why target next year. but must c how it goes..if 2nd one same story, I dunno lah..didi,
dun noe if now is it crowded as holidays hv started...if u noe the requirements for the pics, mayb u take and apply on line...if not u hv to bring two bbs down and jostle wif pple to make passport
when collecting, i read in the papers can make e-appointment..so if can, it saves u time esp u are bringing two bbs down..
in short....minimise time in crowded places wif two bbs...
minimum i guess face must be front facing, show the ears...and also heard tt for bbs, they are lenient..
dun noe if now is it crowded as holidays hv started...if u noe the requirements for the pics, mayb u take and apply on line...if not u hv to bring two bbs down and jostle wif pple to make passport
when collecting, i read in the papers can make e-appointment..so if can, it saves u time esp u are bringing two bbs down..
in short....minimise time in crowded places wif two bbs...
minimum i guess face must be front facing, show the ears...and also heard tt for bbs, they are lenient..
didi
here's the link to apply online
https://www.psi.gov.sg/NASApp/tmf/TMFServlet?app=MHA-SIR-APPLES&isNew=true&Reload=true
they put some eg, guidelines what is ok, wat is not. my hubby did for me - only follow white backgrd, pic picture clear, jpg format and dimensions/size of pic
here's the link to apply online
https://www.psi.gov.sg/NASApp/tmf/TMFServlet?app=MHA-SIR-APPLES&isNew=true&Reload=true
they put some eg, guidelines what is ok, wat is not. my hubby did for me - only follow white backgrd, pic picture clear, jpg format and dimensions/size of pic
disneymickey
New Member
didi,
think costa & daec hav ans your qns on passport pics. try taking at home. i did tat 4 ws. sorry har, 4got how big ur boys r. if the can stand,take in front of a white wall. if cannot stand yet, put a piece of mahjong paper on the bed/floor 4 them to lie down then got white background alrdy
but hor, as they change soo fast, now ws' passport photo doesn't look like her at all!! last yr when we went HK (when she's 18mths, passport pic is when she's 8mths) the customs officer commented on the diff look & ask us to go update her photo. but when we called up, they say cannot update photo, got to make a new passport! wapiang, 1 passport so expensive & only used 1 time, so i heck care. no prob when gg penang this mth
so i think i wait until buay tahan alrdy, then go make new 1 haha
think costa & daec hav ans your qns on passport pics. try taking at home. i did tat 4 ws. sorry har, 4got how big ur boys r. if the can stand,take in front of a white wall. if cannot stand yet, put a piece of mahjong paper on the bed/floor 4 them to lie down then got white background alrdy
but hor, as they change soo fast, now ws' passport photo doesn't look like her at all!! last yr when we went HK (when she's 18mths, passport pic is when she's 8mths) the customs officer commented on the diff look & ask us to go update her photo. but when we called up, they say cannot update photo, got to make a new passport! wapiang, 1 passport so expensive & only used 1 time, so i heck care. no prob when gg penang this mth
didi
Active Member
Costa, daec, dm,
Thanks for all the useful info
Costa,
yup, will bring them during July, don't want to join in the school holidays crowd, headache if the 2 boys cranky
daec,
you so good, got a 'photographer' at home
dm,
my boys are 15mths actual
think will let those photos lab take their pics, easier for me
Thanks for all the useful info
Costa,
yup, will bring them during July, don't want to join in the school holidays crowd, headache if the 2 boys cranky
daec,
you so good, got a 'photographer' at home
dm,
my boys are 15mths actual
tree_ice
Member
hi kkf and bloom,
Thanks, I will intro "green" to him soon.. Today cook pumpkin porridge, will try to cook diff flavor for him cos he very poor thing leh.. always eat pork porridge only..
Hi costa,
So far so good.. but sometimes I really got alot to complain about and I feel guilty about it.. My fren envy me for being a SAHM but she didn't know that taking care of a baby 24/7 is not easy.. although I can see the 1st moment on everything he does but can't help feeling tired and really lost touch to the outside world..
Inside me, I feel like going out taking a rest and shop like the early days but I know I can't.. Mil is not helping at all and my mum has to take care of my sis 2 kids.. No one can really help to take care of my baby if I work..
Thanks, I will intro "green" to him soon.. Today cook pumpkin porridge, will try to cook diff flavor for him cos he very poor thing leh.. always eat pork porridge only..
Hi costa,
So far so good.. but sometimes I really got alot to complain about and I feel guilty about it.. My fren envy me for being a SAHM but she didn't know that taking care of a baby 24/7 is not easy.. although I can see the 1st moment on everything he does but can't help feeling tired and really lost touch to the outside world..
Inside me, I feel like going out taking a rest and shop like the early days but I know I can't.. Mil is not helping at all and my mum has to take care of my sis 2 kids.. No one can really help to take care of my baby if I work..
powergal,
*hugz*its not easy to take care of a baby 24/7..i thk u are doing a good job....when the maid is off, i also vy tired..cant imagine if i do it 24/7...i think i cannot manage...
maybe when Craydon is bigger, u can tink of alternatives...like putting him in cc near yr mum place or smthg?
*hugz*its not easy to take care of a baby 24/7..i thk u are doing a good job....when the maid is off, i also vy tired..cant imagine if i do it 24/7...i think i cannot manage...
maybe when Craydon is bigger, u can tink of alternatives...like putting him in cc near yr mum place or smthg?
powergal,
it must be difficult being a SAHM. yes looking aft e bb is much diff nw than it was during e 1st 3 mths.. nw they nd more attention n stimulation than before. n u need ur own time too. try to pack in sm individual time when u can. get a fren or smone u trust to babysit e bb awhile. hang in thr babez..
i am a wrking mother. my mum looks aft e baby.. but juggling wrk n baby is quite hectic too. coz my mum's been not well n everytme its me hving to tk leave n look aft bb. at wrk they r quite understanding but still wrk performance will lag. hving a gd family environment is v v impt. it really helps tt my hubby does help whenever he can.
may need to be SAHM soon as my mum's due for an opp soon. hope i can handle it n not loose my mind.
it must be difficult being a SAHM. yes looking aft e bb is much diff nw than it was during e 1st 3 mths.. nw they nd more attention n stimulation than before. n u need ur own time too. try to pack in sm individual time when u can. get a fren or smone u trust to babysit e bb awhile. hang in thr babez..
i am a wrking mother. my mum looks aft e baby.. but juggling wrk n baby is quite hectic too. coz my mum's been not well n everytme its me hving to tk leave n look aft bb. at wrk they r quite understanding but still wrk performance will lag. hving a gd family environment is v v impt. it really helps tt my hubby does help whenever he can.
may need to be SAHM soon as my mum's due for an opp soon. hope i can handle it n not loose my mind.
didi
Active Member
powergal,
don't worry, you are doing well
I am also a sahm too
on days whereby you are really tired, how about going to your mother's place so your mom and you can take care of the baby so you can take a bit of rest, something similar to what Costa mentioned, when Craydon is older, you can get a maid and put at your mother' place
at least the maid can lessen your mom's load
don't worry, you are doing well
didi
heheh he spent lots on it his hobby but may turn pro or semi-pro if anything happen. backup job
powergal
all the best! yea not easy. first one esp hard as learning e ropes.
regarding feeling out of touch, wanna shop : I joined another group but those r malay group. SAHM mums seem to support and meet each once in a while on weekdays. the kids play together while mums chat or shop. can see if other forum groups, the mums have this sort thing.
I not clever manage my girl go out alone. but I think must learn how to do like some other mums. coz I so frustrated stuck alone at home at times.
radical suggestion. but personally if me - feel better if can have time away from home, talk to other mums, but baby still with me so no need worry get babysitter. ur baby 8mths. I notice my girl few months ago - clever to play by herself or other kids.
like playgroup like dat. but u also get time out to talk to other mums.
heheh he spent lots on it
his hobby but may turn pro or semi-pro if anything happen. backup job powergal
all the best! yea not easy. first one esp hard as learning e ropes.
regarding feeling out of touch, wanna shop : I joined another group but those r malay group. SAHM mums seem to support and meet each once in a while on weekdays. the kids play together while mums chat or shop. can see if other forum groups, the mums have this sort thing.
I not clever manage my girl go out alone. but I think must learn how to do like some other mums. coz I so frustrated stuck alone at home at times.
radical suggestion. but personally if me - feel better if can have time away from home, talk to other mums, but baby still with me so no need worry get babysitter. ur baby 8mths. I notice my girl few months ago - clever to play by herself or other kids.
like playgroup like dat. but u also get time out to talk to other mums.
kkf
Active Member
didi, my hubby helped my boy applied online, including photo, think my hubby scanned it or wat, or send over, then when the day for collection, we just went to collect.
Bloom, correct lor, tui na makes our babies weaker haha. Think have to be very consistent, once stop, baby will fall sick. Anyway, regarding getting weaker after 1 year old, same for dash leh! he fell sick almost every month. I brought him for flu injection because got so fed up, but still sick leh. Later going to bring him see doctor (yeah! excuse to skip going sungei buloh for raki) because he initially has flu, now got cough! Yesterday night was coughing. sigh... and the doctor did not give me any cough mixture.
daec and bloom, I spend a lot and a lot. My hubby made noise too, but then I always told him "my money leh, I never depend on you wat". bad wife.
Powergal, when you work you will want to SAH, when you SAH, you will want to work. I think thats life. haha. I am working now, and I wish everyday to stay at home. But I know I cannot lar, financially cannot, and also me very impatient one, dash will have hard time staying at home with mummy! hahaha.
If I got pregnant, will go no pay, then will have taste of wat is it like to be SAHM, haha. When will it be???
daec, I always have a dream to be very young mum too. I wish when I go for my children's meet the parents session, I will look very young, and not like grandmas (I saw my students' parents some look very young, some look very old)., but then not very possible. Now already 30. Next one, dunno when coming? haha
Later bringing dash sees doctor. Sianz...he is going to cough again, and whole cycle going on, cough, vomit, cranky...sianz...
Anyway, later in the afternoon will go back for meeting after bringing him see doctor.
Bloom, correct lor, tui na makes our babies weaker haha. Think have to be very consistent, once stop, baby will fall sick. Anyway, regarding getting weaker after 1 year old, same for dash leh! he fell sick almost every month. I brought him for flu injection because got so fed up, but still sick leh. Later going to bring him see doctor (yeah! excuse to skip going sungei buloh for raki) because he initially has flu, now got cough! Yesterday night was coughing. sigh... and the doctor did not give me any cough mixture.
daec and bloom, I spend a lot and a lot. My hubby made noise too, but then I always told him "my money leh, I never depend on you wat".
bad wife. Powergal, when you work you will want to SAH, when you SAH, you will want to work. I think thats life. haha. I am working now, and I wish everyday to stay at home. But I know I cannot lar, financially cannot, and also me very impatient one, dash will have hard time staying at home with mummy! hahaha.
If I got pregnant, will go no pay, then will have taste of wat is it like to be SAHM, haha. When will it be???
daec, I always have a dream to be very young mum too. I wish when I go for my children's meet the parents session, I will look very young, and not like grandmas (I saw my students' parents some look very young, some look very old).
, but then not very possible. Now already 30. Next one, dunno when coming? haha Later bringing dash sees doctor. Sianz...he is going to cough again, and whole cycle going on, cough, vomit, cranky...sianz...
Anyway, later in the afternoon will go back for meeting after bringing him see doctor.
kkf
heheh I wil also say 'my money what'. He not happy also, he wont complain too much and say 'ur money what'
*re: mum in 30s*
fated lah, what to do. we know we try our best already.
anyway share with u what hubby say:
i still feel bad abt prem baby and lesser BM. but my hubby say (I think it applies to mums here too) 'look at our kid now. ok what ? some fullterm baby got perm disability eg. cant walk, retarded which interfere with their life forever so he say Thank God our baby is ok. Dun worry abt the starting. What matters is she is healthy rite now and growing strong
(those cough flu etc seem normal process as they strengthen their immune system. not terribly bad eitherway its workable to improve)
I think it applies to u and mummies here too. may have a different and tough start. but our babies warriors, after some time - end up same if not better as full term
*SAHM or working mum* - for me best is part time working mum whether at home out or outside heheh. then must have maid,car also - dream ah
*tuina* - I find it weird leh if baby get more sick. wonder if like what u say, caught something from someone. or going thru purging episode, sometimes need to get worse( get all the bad stuff one like cleansing) before get better. if got their contact, try call them and ask how come le
heheh I wil also say 'my money what'. He not happy also, he wont complain too much and say 'ur money what'
*re: mum in 30s*
fated lah, what to do. we know we try our best already.
anyway share with u what hubby say:
i still feel bad abt prem baby and lesser BM. but my hubby say (I think it applies to mums here too) 'look at our kid now. ok what ? some fullterm baby got perm disability eg. cant walk, retarded which interfere with their life forever so he say Thank God our baby is ok. Dun worry abt the starting. What matters is she is healthy rite now and growing strong
(those cough flu etc seem normal process as they strengthen their immune system. not terribly bad eitherway its workable to improve)
I think it applies to u and mummies here too. may have a different and tough start. but our babies warriors, after some time - end up same if not better as full term
*SAHM or working mum* - for me best is part time working mum whether at home out or outside heheh. then must have maid,car also - dream ah
*tuina* - I find it weird leh if baby get more sick. wonder if like what u say, caught something from someone. or going thru purging episode, sometimes need to get worse( get all the bad stuff one like cleansing) before get better. if got their contact, try call them and ask how come le
disneymickey
New Member
morning mommies,
holiday mood? so few posts heehee.. juz confirmed a trip, gg bangkok in aug, but it's with colleagues haha. need a break myself. cos we r planning 2 bring ws somewhere end Oct, deepavali hol on 27oct mon & her sch is closed on 28oct. so might as well make use of these 4 days & go another short trip with her. maybe bintan??
holiday mood? so few posts heehee.. juz confirmed a trip, gg bangkok in aug, but it's with colleagues haha. need a break myself. cos we r planning 2 bring ws somewhere end Oct, deepavali hol on 27oct mon & her sch is closed on 28oct. so might as well make use of these 4 days & go another short trip with her. maybe bintan??
disneymickey
New Member
didi,
ya lor. hubby asked "so many days,u ok w/o ws"?? heehee.. won't know till i try rt? but i'll surely miss her. like last yr, when went HCM with hubby w/o her, i oso miss her a lot & told myself won't go holiday w/o her. but now, i think must hav some time 4 myself
ya, bangkok good 4 shopping..alrdy got my shopping list ready liao haha
ya lor. hubby asked "so many days,u ok w/o ws"?? heehee.. won't know till i try rt? but i'll surely miss her. like last yr, when went HCM with hubby w/o her, i oso miss her a lot & told myself won't go holiday w/o her. but now, i think must hav some time 4 myself
ya, bangkok good 4 shopping..alrdy got my shopping list ready liao haha
fairylander
New Member
jane,
good luck im sure siang wil do well
powergal,
jia you its not easy to be a sahm.
mimeole,
welcome,my girl was born in nov 2007 preterm 36 weeks.she was at scn for 15 days due to low birth weight.ur dd looks cute.
good luck im sure siang wil do well
powergal,
jia you its not easy to be a sahm.
mimeole,
welcome,my girl was born in nov 2007 preterm 36 weeks.she was at scn for 15 days due to low birth weight.ur dd looks cute.
kkf
Active Member
Jane, siang will surely do well in the iq test!
Daec, I like wat your hubby said.
You are right, look at me, I am a premature baby yet just the same as anybody.
But honestly, wat worries me is not that dash is premature, wat worries me is he has heart defect. Although the hole was patched up, but it was still a fact which could not ever be covered up. You know wat i mean?
I am at home now. Intend to go for meeting in the afternoon after bringing dash see doctor, but guess why I am still here? Because I brought him to see normal GP for his cough, the GP told me she heard heart mumur sound. She asked about his operation. That got me worried cause all along I thought after hole patched up, shouldn't have heart mumur anymore. So I brought dash to see a padetrician (wanted to go KKH but hubby said not possible as need appointment). Padetrician told us she had been hearing the mumur sound even after dash's operation and thought KKH dr knows about it. She told us she will help to call up KKH dr to double confirm that the dr knows, and it is of no concern.
Thats why in the end, I am at home, never goes for meeting cause I waited for quite long to see the padetrician in sengkang, quite famous.
Sianz...now starting to worry liao. I dunno, my heart just suddenly feels uneasy.
I dunno what I am uneasy about? Dash's health? My job (because I am missing in action again), my everything. sigh...
Pessismistic me right?
dm so good, travelling overseas again. Me a lazy person who doesn't like to travel, so I always opt to stay at hotels or resorts in singapore.
I just want to find a place to relax.
Daec, I like wat your hubby said.
You are right, look at me, I am a premature baby yet just the same as anybody.
But honestly, wat worries me is not that dash is premature, wat worries me is he has heart defect. Although the hole was patched up, but it was still a fact which could not ever be covered up. You know wat i mean?
I am at home now. Intend to go for meeting in the afternoon after bringing dash see doctor, but guess why I am still here? Because I brought him to see normal GP for his cough, the GP told me she heard heart mumur sound. She asked about his operation. That got me worried cause all along I thought after hole patched up, shouldn't have heart mumur anymore. So I brought dash to see a padetrician (wanted to go KKH but hubby said not possible as need appointment). Padetrician told us she had been hearing the mumur sound even after dash's operation and thought KKH dr knows about it. She told us she will help to call up KKH dr to double confirm that the dr knows, and it is of no concern.
Thats why in the end, I am at home, never goes for meeting cause I waited for quite long to see the padetrician in sengkang, quite famous.
Sianz...now starting to worry liao. I dunno, my heart just suddenly feels uneasy.
I dunno what I am uneasy about? Dash's health? My job (because I am missing in action again), my everything. sigh...
Pessismistic me right?
dm so good, travelling overseas again. Me a lazy person who doesn't like to travel, so I always opt to stay at hotels or resorts in singapore.
kkf
Active Member
Btw, tomorrow may be bringing dash to kindergolf at amk hub for trial lesson. golf, wants to train him to be future rich guy, playing golf...haha.
Trying to entertain myself, make myself feels better. sigh.
Really hope all our children will grow up to be forever strong and healthy!
Trying to entertain myself, make myself feels better. sigh.
Really hope all our children will grow up to be forever strong and healthy!
disneymickey
New Member
kkf,
dun worry 2 much la.. i'm sure dash will b fine. enjoy your hols & the many many programmes u hav planned 4 him. me bz planning hols while u bz planning programs 4 dash.. at least u more concerned abt dash's education while me only think abt playing & holidaying heehee
jane,
i'm sure siang will excel in the test. good luck
dun worry 2 much la.. i'm sure dash will b fine. enjoy your hols & the many many programmes u hav planned 4 him. me bz planning hols while u bz planning programs 4 dash.. at least u more concerned abt dash's education while me only think abt playing & holidaying heehee
jane,
i'm sure siang will excel in the test. good luck