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I am also still upset abt preggy/birth not normal/breastfeed like others. Nada bd coming soon so some bad feelings coming up coupld with the bad feelings abt my hse not settled which means I cant quit job yet. I keep help family yet dunno why I get all this bad stuff.I also believe strongly first few years esp impt to take care of e babes. keep being upset,depressed,angry abt all this.
Anywayz as my hubby remind me ( which I need constantly coz I still get upset) - we are lucky that we still have our kids, no matter how we had them. some do not have babies at all.
Dash is healthy now and growing strong. Take pride and comfort in that.
#2 ? I'm scared and upset abt it too. Just have to hope and let it happen naturally. In those areas where possible and try to be pro-active as we can, like what u did with seeing Dr Ann Tan.
It occurs to me that rite now - actually we need to let ourself heal emotionally too. heal the negative, angry etc.. Not gd to let it keep inside. Some pp say these angry feelings mite lead to more health issues. Someone suggest hynotherapy to me. dunno if it works.
Somehow kkf, we have to let of the upset and live with hope
I am also still upset abt preggy/birth not normal/breastfeed like others. Nada bd coming soon so some bad feelings coming up coupld with the bad feelings abt my hse not settled which means I cant quit job yet. I keep help family yet dunno why I get all this bad stuff.I also believe strongly first few years esp impt to take care of e babes. keep being upset,depressed,angry abt all this.
Anywayz as my hubby remind me ( which I need constantly coz I still get upset) - we are lucky that we still have our kids, no matter how we had them. some do not have babies at all.
Dash is healthy now and growing strong. Take pride and comfort in that.
#2 ? I'm scared and upset abt it too. Just have to hope and let it happen naturally. In those areas where possible and try to be pro-active as we can, like what u did with seeing Dr Ann Tan.
It occurs to me that rite now - actually we need to let ourself heal emotionally too. heal the negative, angry etc.. Not gd to let it keep inside. Some pp say these angry feelings mite lead to more health issues. Someone suggest hynotherapy to me. dunno if it works.
Somehow kkf, we have to let of the upset and live with hope