alicechua58
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Hi, I am alice in my 60s so English no good hope u dont mind.
I have 2 sons... elder 31, other 28.
28 yo son is ok but 31 not ok.
my 31 yo son after serve army go university study... but study to 3 year he drop out becos he say he got bully and cannot take stress. he has mild autisum. since drop out he never go out always at home. that time me and hasband worry but think just leave he alone to take time be better. but he never...
he try take driving lesson but drop out cos cannot handle stress also like study. then he more sad and never leave house. sometime never bath also for 1 week. we try help but he always in room dont want leave.
friends tell me take him see doctor but that time i dont want because see doctor eat medicine like crazy person. so we dont want. we always pray hope he be ok but now this circuit breaker i think of it again and find out he already 31 year old this year and i worry more. people 31 year old got job, have kid, have family but my son no.
he every month take $300 from me and hasband... $200 from 28 yo other son. but now circuit breaker we no money becos no working so i dont want give him this month but he angry so we use own money give.
i every cry but he no improve. always in room. he now buy those cartoon pillow and play games and read comic.
3 week ago i come up with point system for him. if he clean room he earn 15 point , if he sweep floor 5 point... but he angry kick fridge and throw temper. since that day to today he never bath & always in room no want come out.
please help what i can do for my 31 yo son?
I have 2 sons... elder 31, other 28.
28 yo son is ok but 31 not ok.
my 31 yo son after serve army go university study... but study to 3 year he drop out becos he say he got bully and cannot take stress. he has mild autisum. since drop out he never go out always at home. that time me and hasband worry but think just leave he alone to take time be better. but he never...
he try take driving lesson but drop out cos cannot handle stress also like study. then he more sad and never leave house. sometime never bath also for 1 week. we try help but he always in room dont want leave.
friends tell me take him see doctor but that time i dont want because see doctor eat medicine like crazy person. so we dont want. we always pray hope he be ok but now this circuit breaker i think of it again and find out he already 31 year old this year and i worry more. people 31 year old got job, have kid, have family but my son no.
he every month take $300 from me and hasband... $200 from 28 yo other son. but now circuit breaker we no money becos no working so i dont want give him this month but he angry so we use own money give.
i every cry but he no improve. always in room. he now buy those cartoon pillow and play games and read comic.
3 week ago i come up with point system for him. if he clean room he earn 15 point , if he sweep floor 5 point... but he angry kick fridge and throw temper. since that day to today he never bath & always in room no want come out.
please help what i can do for my 31 yo son?
