Plan for #3

[eagermum]

Anyone here plan to have #3 or already have 3 kids. Mind sharing your thoughts for having 3 kids?

I have been thinking of having #3 but my hub doesn't want.

 

[maryme]

Why doesn't he want? It depends whether you're financially capable to take care of baby #3. It's good if your babies are spaced/born years apart, too.

 

[eagermum]

He is 42 this year and afraid that he doesn't have the energy to start from scratch again

 

[angieoh]

I have a churchmate who got married at 40 and had two sons by the time he turned 45. I guess it's a personal decision and if the person really wants to have more kids. If you're financially able to support more kids, and if your hubs is 100% okay, then go for it.

There's a certain kind of happiness that comes with having many kids (I myself have 3 siblings and it's fun. I really love them.) You know you'll have someone to take care of you (and for them to take care of each other) in the future as well.