Hi all,
After I had my second born, tbh, I feel like i literally lost my "Old" self. I miss putting makeup, dressing up, have my own me time like how I used to do.
I know kids are my PRIORITY. However, due to constant chaotic & mother duties that I have everyday, I don't even have much energy to do things like how i liked to do in past such as putting make, dressing up etc. I never hire maid & I'm FTWM.
I can say that I put my kids and family needs above my needs since now my kids are still very young. When I was sending both of my kids to child care, i envy those mother that still can put nice makeup and outfits which i believe she doesn't even hire helper since cooking, sending & picking up kids from school are done by her or her husband.
Everyday is just the same routine and exhausting for me; and I'm sharing in this forum to know if there're someones that also going thru the same phase as mine.
After I had my second born, tbh, I feel like i literally lost my "Old" self. I miss putting makeup, dressing up, have my own me time like how I used to do.
I know kids are my PRIORITY. However, due to constant chaotic & mother duties that I have everyday, I don't even have much energy to do things like how i liked to do in past such as putting make, dressing up etc. I never hire maid & I'm FTWM.
I can say that I put my kids and family needs above my needs since now my kids are still very young. When I was sending both of my kids to child care, i envy those mother that still can put nice makeup and outfits which i believe she doesn't even hire helper since cooking, sending & picking up kids from school are done by her or her husband.
Everyday is just the same routine and exhausting for me; and I'm sharing in this forum to know if there're someones that also going thru the same phase as mine.