heartbrokenme
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Me and hubby got married in 2004. Had our 1st child in 2007 and 2nd one in 2010. But ever since 1st child born, less sex, maybe around 1-2 times in 1 month. But we still hold hands when going out alone. However, after 2nd child was born, our r/s gone downhill. DH seldom kiss me, not even a peck on the face. No holding hands, sex is like 1 time in a few months. He likes to go out in the middle of the night (every night)to sit at the coffee shop or otherwise, just sit outside the house, playing with his handphone. And will only come back to room at ard 3-4am. Even when at home, he is always on the phone, either playing games or doing online betting. Sometimes when we go out, and ask him to take photo together, he will just stand beside me, arms not around my shoulder or waist. Why?? When we go and fetch our son from enrichment class, he will ask me to go up myself while he sit in the car/coffeeshop to wait (that is like abt 30min b4 the class end). I ask him why he cannot go with me to just walk around first, he told me he didn't like to accompany me to walk walk. I am sad. Everytime I wanted to talk abt our relationship, he will either evade the topic or flare up. I am truly veri disheartened. Pls advise...