not sure if i am wrong or she is too negative. she always angry for no reason everyday.
1) she doesn't like when I say same words again and again. so I tried not to say same words. Eg,
She: where is your $200 money? I cant find it at home.
Me: I took it and tried to give it to your mother and father but they refused to accept it.
She: why you bring it with you?
Me: Your father fetched me to place and I wanted to give money to him. He cannot take it.
She: Why you say same words again?
I only explained the reason.
2) she vented her frustration for no reason. eg
After we discussed about thing A.. few days later,
I sent picture to her.
She: Why tell me this? you made me frustrated. dont talk about this A.
I never talk about this A for 1-2 days.
She: Why never talk about this thing A? you made me very angry.
Me: You told me not to talk. I just respect whatever you say.
Next day
Me: we go buy thing A tomorrow
She: Why you talk about thing A? i told you not to talk about it before. you forgot?
I'm confused.
3) she is photography lover. she taught me how to take good photo of her. i took photo of her and she angry whenever she see photos she doesn't like. i had to re-take photo 3-8 times per scene.
4) i forgot sometimes like i need bring lipstick tomorrow, then forgot to bring it. actually, i really cant remember sometimes but she said i forgot purposely. her friends told her that it's common for men to forget. she still scold me for forgetting.
5) her brother invited me to her family group conversation. then she told me she is not comfortable with me being in her family group conversation and she told me i only can reply if they send me message.
Her brother: you reached singapore?
Me: yes
Her brother: ok. thumb up
few mins later
Her other brother: good thumb up
Me:
then she very angry and she sent me private message.
She: why you reply ? i told you not to reply.
Me: I only replied to your brother.
i still have other many things to say. these 5 will be enough to ask for advice.
i dont know why she keeps attacking me and complaining even if matter is not important.
1) she doesn't like when I say same words again and again. so I tried not to say same words. Eg,
She: where is your $200 money? I cant find it at home.
Me: I took it and tried to give it to your mother and father but they refused to accept it.
She: why you bring it with you?
Me: Your father fetched me to place and I wanted to give money to him. He cannot take it.
She: Why you say same words again?
I only explained the reason.
2) she vented her frustration for no reason. eg
After we discussed about thing A.. few days later,
I sent picture to her.
She: Why tell me this? you made me frustrated. dont talk about this A.
I never talk about this A for 1-2 days.
She: Why never talk about this thing A? you made me very angry.
Me: You told me not to talk. I just respect whatever you say.
Next day
Me: we go buy thing A tomorrow
She: Why you talk about thing A? i told you not to talk about it before. you forgot?
I'm confused.
3) she is photography lover. she taught me how to take good photo of her. i took photo of her and she angry whenever she see photos she doesn't like. i had to re-take photo 3-8 times per scene.
4) i forgot sometimes like i need bring lipstick tomorrow, then forgot to bring it. actually, i really cant remember sometimes but she said i forgot purposely. her friends told her that it's common for men to forget. she still scold me for forgetting.
5) her brother invited me to her family group conversation. then she told me she is not comfortable with me being in her family group conversation and she told me i only can reply if they send me message.
Her brother: you reached singapore?
Me: yes
Her brother: ok. thumb up
few mins later
Her other brother: good thumb up
Me:
then she very angry and she sent me private message.
She: why you reply ? i told you not to reply.
Me: I only replied to your brother.
i still have other many things to say. these 5 will be enough to ask for advice.
i dont know why she keeps attacking me and complaining even if matter is not important.
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