Hi just need some advice from experience mummu...
my son is 1 yr old now... i breatfed him for 4 momths.. pple said breastfed baby closer to mummy.. but my son is never close to me since he born! I do everything for me.. breastfed, make milk, bath him, play with him, cook porridge, sing song with him.. but in the end, when daddy or my mum who take care of him in the day, are around, he just choose them over me.. even just simple thing like sit together to watch TV, he just choose his dad to sit with & lead on him.. even I just sitting next to him, he just ignore me... why is it he behave like that?? He'll play with me & we always play together happily.. but when come to seeking comfort he'll go his daddy.. the worst part is whenever he is scare or injuired himself and sleepy.. he'll look for his daddy for comfort... He only likes daddy to make him sleep!! I'm very very sad.. i do so much for him yet he just dun like me?? where my husband always raise voice on him or he dun really do so much cos he 's busy at his work... why?? I feel like giving up.. just carry on my life like last time when i dun have kid.. so carefree.. pls help & advice...
my son is 1 yr old now... i breatfed him for 4 momths.. pple said breastfed baby closer to mummy.. but my son is never close to me since he born! I do everything for me.. breastfed, make milk, bath him, play with him, cook porridge, sing song with him.. but in the end, when daddy or my mum who take care of him in the day, are around, he just choose them over me.. even just simple thing like sit together to watch TV, he just choose his dad to sit with & lead on him.. even I just sitting next to him, he just ignore me... why is it he behave like that?? He'll play with me & we always play together happily.. but when come to seeking comfort he'll go his daddy.. the worst part is whenever he is scare or injuired himself and sleepy.. he'll look for his daddy for comfort... He only likes daddy to make him sleep!! I'm very very sad.. i do so much for him yet he just dun like me?? where my husband always raise voice on him or he dun really do so much cos he 's busy at his work... why?? I feel like giving up.. just carry on my life like last time when i dun have kid.. so carefree.. pls help & advice...