Singapoh, my mum also turn her back on me and this time is earlier... She dump me and my elder girl when I'm 20 weeks. After taking her for holiday to hk and Macau, she come back change face already.. Haiz... Very difficult to understand those old people nowasday.. Isn't it better to take care of Own grandchild... They rather rot at hm or gossip in the market... When we need their help most, they turn their back on us.. When they needed help, they expect full service.. Where got so nice one.. It takes alot to build up relationship.. Don't expect your child to be nice just becos you bring them up.. Cos not only people with parents ard will grow up and grow old. So old people better start maintaining relationship or else they only have themselves to blame.
At least your mil is helping so just close one eye lor.. Better than no help. Btw, your boy should be able to take care of himself at home.. I just let my girl run ard or watch tv. Can't bear to put her in childcare.. Maybe the cc at my house here quite bad.. I heard alot of stories from neiighbours..
Now with 2 babies, really cannot afford to let virus into the family.. Alot of work when children are sick. Imagine 3 altogether... No need sleep. You might wanna feed your elder son multi vitamins. I think it helps a little.. But if he can stay at hm, it would be the best solution. When is your maid coming?
Workingwife, great to know you reduce your dosage! It's a good sign and means you will be heading home soon! Good luck..
Baby, cannot eat del Monte banana. Children also cannot eat that. For kids, they only can eat 'pang jiu' and 'ang bak jiu' both in hokkien.. Don't know their other names. I prefer pang jiu' cos it's very sweet... Must go fruit stall then they sell. Very cheap too. $1 can get quite a decent amount.. $2 can eat for 2 weeks! Heee... Ask your hubby go get for you, helps poo poo too.