Pandawife,
Your MIL very short cut leh.... I am starting to worry for you.. hehehehehe.
My mum is a pro-nanny.... She handles all her 3 grandchildren.. now age 4 - 15yrs old. I have full confidence in her.. except that she is turning 60yrs old this December, I feel very "xin tong" that I can't let her "xiang fu" at her age. That's also one of the reasons why I hire a maid 2 years old ago to help her with housework, though the kids she is babysitting are not mine.
But now, since I will be having my baby, my maid will move back to stay with me. And go my mum's place when we are not at home. If my mum were to bring my nieces over, my house will be really crowded and I wont have enough rest at home.
Somehow I have to work out something.... and gives everyone a role. LOL