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I see! Mine was after Xmas, if few days later will be Jan also. Haha.. did u have any symptoms during ur tww?
No symptoms except for one day - think 6/7 days after transfer? Had quite bad cramping and felt like AF was coming.. but just for that day. Really felt as if my uterus was prepping for af.. but after that no more symptoms.
 
Just failed my 3rd FET again, n felt so lost. First FET bfn with 2 day 5 blastocysts, 2nd FET ended up with very low hcg bfp on 1 day 5 blastocyst (hcg managed to rise double for about 1.5 weeks, but it is already expected to be a non viable pregnancy at the start as hcg is very low to begin with). This time is my 3rd FET, with 1 day 6 blastocyst but bfn. I m now left with 1 day 5 blastocyst and 3 day 6 blastocyst. I know i need to continue on to try out with the remaining, but is there anything I can work on? I understood that embryo transfer doesn't really matter btw docs, and definitely don't think there is much fault with the transfer technique. But feeling so depressed n lost to have failed 3 FET. Couldn't sleep for the whole night thinking over it. N asking myself if is normal to fail that much n why why why.
Since I managed to pass implantation stage for my 2nd FET with doubling hcg for 1.5 weeks, there should not b much issue with the womb. I m wondering if I should get myself prepared for the next fresh cycle with pgs. As much as possible, I hope not to move on with another fresh cycle, the side effects r rather significant on me, heavy water retention n weight gain of almost 8kg. Till now, I couldn't even shred off the weight gain after 1.5 years. Feeling so lost
 
Just failed my 3rd FET again, n felt so lost. First FET bfn with 2 day 5 blastocysts, 2nd FET ended up with very low hcg bfp on 1 day 5 blastocyst (hcg managed to rise double for about 1.5 weeks, but it is already expected to be a non viable pregnancy at the start as hcg is very low to begin with). This time is my 3rd FET, with 1 day 6 blastocyst but bfn. I m now left with 1 day 5 blastocyst and 3 day 6 blastocyst. I know i need to continue on to try out with the remaining, but is there anything I can work on? I understood that embryo transfer doesn't really matter btw docs, and definitely don't think there is much fault with the transfer technique. But feeling so depressed n lost to have failed 3 FET. Couldn't sleep for the whole night thinking over it. N asking myself if is normal to fail that much n why why why.
Since I managed to pass implantation stage for my 2nd FET with doubling hcg for 1.5 weeks, there should not b much issue with the womb. I m wondering if I should get myself prepared for the next fresh cycle with pgs. As much as possible, I hope not to move on with another fresh cycle, the side effects r rather significant on me, heavy water retention n weight gain of almost 8kg. Till now, I couldn't even shred off the weight gain after 1.5 years. Feeling so lost
Did you try endo scratching or intripid infusion ?
 
Did you try endo scratching or intripid infusion ?

Hi Kb92,
Yes I did have endo scratch for my 2nd n 3rd fet. At least it proves to work for my 2nd fet to succeed the implantation.
What is intripid infusion n how does it work ? I m doing mine in nuh n my doc usually will ask me to try n try with the same medicated fet method, n don't think there is much need to proceed with other investigations or option.
 
Intralipid is fats that’s supposed to reduce the NK cell activity. Usually it is done at the clinic for about 30 mins intravenously. Of cos there are some side effects like nausea, vomiting, diarrhoea etc but it is doable. May be you can try ask your dr about it.
 
Intralipid is fats that’s supposed to reduce the NK cell activity. Usually it is done at the clinic for about 30 mins intravenously. Of cos there are some side effects like nausea, vomiting, diarrhoea etc but it is doable. May be you can try ask your dr about it.
Thanks Kb92 for the sharing. Is it like a one session thing some days b4 the transfer ? I can try asking my doc again over my next review.
 
Nuh doesn't have this infusion. Only available in certain pte clinics
Hi Dreamscometrue, Kb92,
Just curious. Is it needed to go for blood test to check for NK cells level prior to deciding to proceed with Intralipid infusion ? I did bring up the idea of checking my immune level to my nuh doc, but she always told me no need to. Just try again, the embryos quality probably not good or no luck this time. But the fact is it is emotionally draining to repeat the cycle again n again with all the medicines n hl leave.

Which pte clinic r u all with ? If I want to have that, that means I need to move out all my remaining embryos to pte clinic ? At this point, I have used up all the funding for frozen cycles.
 
Hi Dreamscometrue, Kb92,
Just curious. Is it needed to go for blood test to check for NK cells level prior to deciding to proceed with Intralipid infusion ? I did bring up the idea of checking my immune level to my nuh doc, but she always told me no need to. Just try again, the embryos quality probably not good or no luck this time. But the fact is it is emotionally draining to repeat the cycle again n again with all the medicines n hl leave.

Which pte clinic r u all with ? If I want to have that, that means I need to move out all my remaining embryos to pte clinic ? At this point, I have used up all the funding for frozen cycles.

Your doctor might be right. It is likely to be egg quality. Maybe you can do PGS on the embryos first to at least eliminate the issue before going through the hassle of changing clinic? Once eliminated, then intralipid infusion may be useful for implantation issue.
 
Your doctor might be right. It is likely to be egg quality. Maybe you can do PGS on the embryos first to at least eliminate the issue before going through the hassle of changing clinic? Once eliminated, then intralipid infusion may be useful for implantation issue.
Hi eatpraylove,
If i want to do pgs, I need to start a fresh cycle as this is not allowed on existing frozen embryos. I still have 4 more, n definitely hope to give every of them a fair chance. N there r some criteria for pgs if I m not wrong. I will be 34 this year, but pgs only allows for 35 n above (if I m not wrong).
 
Hi eatpraylove,
If i want to do pgs, I need to start a fresh cycle as this is not allowed on existing frozen embryos. I still have 4 more, n definitely hope to give every of them a fair chance. N there r some criteria for pgs if I m not wrong. I will be 34 this year, but pgs only allows for 35 n above (if I m not wrong).

Thank you for the context! Does nuh provide bloodtest for NK cells? If they are reluctant to it, maybe can go private clinics to request for the blood test separately first?
 
Hi Dreamscometrue, Kb92,
Just curious. Is it needed to go for blood test to check for NK cells level prior to deciding to proceed with Intralipid infusion ? I did bring up the idea of checking my immune level to my nuh doc, but she always told me no need to. Just try again, the embryos quality probably not good or no luck this time. But the fact is it is emotionally draining to repeat the cycle again n again with all the medicines n hl leave.

Which pte clinic r u all with ? If I want to have that, that means I need to move out all my remaining embryos to pte clinic ? At this point, I have used up all the funding for frozen cycles.
The lipid infusion need to do 3 times. Before transfer and another 2 times when you are pregnant.
I’m with dr Kelly from mount E. Yes if you want to do at mount E, you have to transfer your embryos which is a bit expensive and troublesome cuz I did it from NUH to Mount E. Since you don’t have anymore embryos, I suggest you do either fresh or frozen at mount E. Which doctor from NUH are you with ?
Checking NK cell blood test is fairly expensive so I rather just do the lipid infusion. And yes you should do the workup which is a lot of blood tests. That’s what I did after 2nd FET failed
 
Thank you for the context! Does nuh provide bloodtest for NK cells? If they are reluctant to it, maybe can go private clinics to request for the blood test separately first?
I think will need them to recommend to another clinic in nuh. If I m not wrong, nuh chr itself don't do that. But usually chr won't really recommend.
 
The lipid infusion need to do 3 times. Before transfer and another 2 times when you are pregnant.
I’m with dr Kelly from mount E. Yes if you want to do at mount E, you have to transfer your embryos which is a bit expensive and troublesome cuz I did it from NUH to Mount E. Since you don’t have anymore embryos, I suggest you do either fresh or frozen at mount E. Which doctor from NUH are you with ?
Checking NK cell blood test is fairly expensive so I rather just do the lipid infusion. And yes you should do the workup which is a lot of blood tests. That’s what I did after 2nd FET failed
I still have 4 frozen embryos in nuh. How is d costs n procedure of transferring them out to pte ? Just curious, what made u decide to transfer out of nuh ? Ya I heard from my tcm that it involves a lot of blood test. I m the rare freak who need to spend many round just to get 1 tube of blood, almost chr nurses can remember me for this. My veins most collapse when the needle goes in, need to try over n over again
 
Hi Dreamscometrue, Kb92,
Just curious. Is it needed to go for blood test to check for NK cells level prior to deciding to proceed with Intralipid infusion ? I did bring up the idea of checking my immune level to my nuh doc, but she always told me no need to. Just try again, the embryos quality probably not good or no luck this time. But the fact is it is emotionally draining to repeat the cycle again n again with all the medicines n hl leave.

Which pte clinic r u all with ? If I want to have that, that means I need to move out all my remaining embryos to pte clinic ? At this point, I have used up all the funding for frozen cycles.
Well, after 4 failed transfer and 1 mc, I went to check a whole bunch of blood test under nuh recurrent preg loss clinic under Dr Mahesh (not sure if I spelt correctly). I went under subsidised if not it will cost a bomb!

By then I've already used up my embryos and govt grant in govt hosp. By then I also went to another pte clinic for fresh cycle. But in the end I did not have autoimmune issue. Nk cell was slightly elevated, fertility doc says no issue.

By the way, u can receive ur intralipds infusion at pte clinic without doing any cycle or transfer with them. So u dont have to transfer ur embryos to them
 
Well, after 4 failed transfer and 1 mc, I went to check a whole bunch of blood test under nuh recurrent preg loss clinic under Dr Mahesh (not sure if I spelt correctly). I went under subsidised if not it will cost a bomb!

By then I've already used up my embryos and govt grant in govt hosp. By then I also went to another pte clinic for fresh cycle. But in the end I did not have autoimmune issue. Nk cell was slightly elevated, fertility doc says no issue.

By the way, u can receive ur intralipds infusion at pte clinic without doing any cycle or transfer with them. So u dont have to transfer ur embryos to them
Thanks for all these info. May I know for ur case, do u find out further root cause for your past transfer fails (since nk cell is likely not the key reason)? When u move out to pte, is there any major difference in the ivf method that u think could have brought u to succeed ?
Currently, I m still comfortable with nuh chr in general. I m also grateful to my doc n the team who managed to succeed 8 blastocyst for us. But i just keep failing at the transfer stage. N seem like they just want me to try n try the same way again (just a matter of luck). If there r better options, i don't mind exploring further.
Is there any pte clinic u recommend for doing Intralipid infusion?
Thanks.
 
I still have 4 frozen embryos in nuh. How is d costs n procedure of transferring them out to pte ? Just curious, what made u decide to transfer out of nuh ? Ya I heard from my tcm that it involves a lot of blood test. I m the rare freak who need to spend many round just to get 1 tube of blood, almost chr nurses can remember me for this. My veins most collapse when the needle goes in, need to try over n over again
I also have easily collapsible veins, and I only have 1 that can draw blood from

The series of blood test requires 12 or 15 tubes of blood.. and will cost alot if u do under pte...
 
Thanks for all these info. May I know for ur case, do u find out further root cause for your past transfer fails (since nk cell is likely not the key reason)? When u move out to pte, is there any major difference in the ivf method that u think could have brought u to succeed ?
Currently, I m still comfortable with nuh chr in general. I m also grateful to my doc n the team who managed to succeed 8 blastocyst for us. But i just keep failing at the transfer stage. N seem like they just want me to try n try the same way again (just a matter of luck). If there r better options, i don't mind exploring further.
Is there any pte clinic u recommend for doing Intralipid infusion?
Thanks.
My issue is I have low ovarian reserve for my age.
After went pte clinic, we used low dosage stimulation to get better quality. So in the end only have 2. First FET failed. 2nd FET dr recommended lucrin jab to stop menses b4 start FET. That cycle worked

Intralipds didn't work for me. I did once at SF loh clinic and another 1 at another clinic at mt E novena, recommended by Dr Sheila
 
Just failed my 3rd FET again, n felt so lost. First FET bfn with 2 day 5 blastocysts, 2nd FET ended up with very low hcg bfp on 1 day 5 blastocyst (hcg managed to rise double for about 1.5 weeks, but it is already expected to be a non viable pregnancy at the start as hcg is very low to begin with). This time is my 3rd FET, with 1 day 6 blastocyst but bfn. I m now left with 1 day 5 blastocyst and 3 day 6 blastocyst. I know i need to continue on to try out with the remaining, but is there anything I can work on? I understood that embryo transfer doesn't really matter btw docs, and definitely don't think there is much fault with the transfer technique. But feeling so depressed n lost to have failed 3 FET. Couldn't sleep for the whole night thinking over it. N asking myself if is normal to fail that much n why why why.
Since I managed to pass implantation stage for my 2nd FET with doubling hcg for 1.5 weeks, there should not b much issue with the womb. I m wondering if I should get myself prepared for the next fresh cycle with pgs. As much as possible, I hope not to move on with another fresh cycle, the side effects r rather significant on me, heavy water retention n weight gain of almost 8kg. Till now, I couldn't even shred off the weight gain after 1.5 years. Feeling so lost

hugs. Sorry to hear your loss and feelings. Have you check for other stuff like thyroid and if you have natural killer cells? I remember these are some factors some docs have the mummies checked for. It’s good to hear you did manage to conceive once and it he’ll give you relief your womb had no issues. You still have 4embryos, be strong. I am also in tww for my 3rd fet. Single embryo trsf. Past 2 fets has failed too. I know how you feel. But be strong for the rest of the embryos. Rest and see what you can do next. You have embryos that are quite developed; have hope!!
 
I still have 4 frozen embryos in nuh. How is d costs n procedure of transferring them out to pte ? Just curious, what made u decide to transfer out of nuh ? Ya I heard from my tcm that it involves a lot of blood test. I m the rare freak who need to spend many round just to get 1 tube of blood, almost chr nurses can remember me for this. My veins most collapse when the needle goes in, need to try over n over again
I did it due to covid situation. It was around mid Feb NUH stopped all IVF and it cost me about 400+ I think may be it is easier to transfer them over since now it is not so strict.
haha yes a few tubes of blood. I think it is better to do the blood test and see if anything wrong
 
Hi eatpraylove,
If i want to do pgs, I need to start a fresh cycle as this is not allowed on existing frozen embryos. I still have 4 more, n definitely hope to give every of them a fair chance. N there r some criteria for pgs if I m not wrong. I will be 34 this year, but pgs only allows for 35 n above (if I m not wrong).
Nuh only allow PGS if you suspect a medical condition and it will involved elimination of one gender. The reason nuh still do non blastocyst traf is because there is no significance in success rate whether it’s a d3 or d5. It is the same with PGS study they had conducted too. If you suspect you have NK, you can request for test. Nuh does it and they have a specialised sector for people with recurrent losses (miscarriages) hence they do those IVIG/intralip infusion.
 
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My issue is I have low ovarian reserve for my age.
After went pte clinic, we used low dosage stimulation to get better quality. So in the end only have 2. First FET failed. 2nd FET dr recommended lucrin jab to stop menses b4 start FET. That cycle worked

Intralipds didn't work for me. I did once at SF loh clinic and another 1 at another clinic at mt E novena, recommended by Dr Sheila
Haha ya, same here. I also only have 1 deep vein that worked. Sometimes it may not even worked. I may end up spend 1 hour plus in d clinic just to draw 1 tube. Chr nurses recognised me for that
I see, thanks for the info. Why stopping menses b4 FET help?
For my case, I had severe endometriosis and had surgery to remove some years back. But v soon, it recurred n recommend to try ivf to race against the growth. N i also v reluctant to go for surgery to remove the new cyst again. my nuh dr is quite pro, managed to retrieve quite a good no of eggs even with the cyst there.
 
hugs. Sorry to hear your loss and feelings. Have you check for other stuff like thyroid and if you have natural killer cells? I remember these are some factors some docs have the mummies checked for. It’s good to hear you did manage to conceive once and it he’ll give you relief your womb had no issues. You still have 4embryos, be strong. I am also in tww for my 3rd fet. Single embryo trsf. Past 2 fets has failed too. I know how you feel. But be strong for the rest of the embryos. Rest and see what you can do next. You have embryos that are quite developed; have hope!!
Thanks for the concerns, all d best to you too
Ya. Visually, my embryos r considered quite good grade. My recent one is day 6 AA grade, but i understand that sometimes visual might not be accurate. I haven't done any tests b4. I m just narrowing down to embryos quality or immune issue, since i really can't find any other reason. Lining wise, I had 9mm with triple lining (considered not bad).
 
Thanks for the concerns, all d best to you too
Ya. Visually, my embryos r considered quite good grade. My recent one is day 6 AA grade, but i understand that sometimes visual might not be accurate. I haven't done any tests b4. I m just narrowing down to embryos quality or immune issue, since i really can't find any other reason. Lining wise, I had 9mm with triple lining (considered not bad).

Your embryos sounds good actually. All the best.
 
Thanks for the concerns, all d best to you too
Ya. Visually, my embryos r considered quite good grade. My recent one is day 6 AA grade, but i understand that sometimes visual might not be accurate. I haven't done any tests b4. I m just narrowing down to embryos quality or immune issue, since i really can't find any other reason. Lining wise, I had 9mm with triple lining (considered not bad).

Since pgs is out until you do fresh and qualify the requirements, another alternative way to get a glimpse of possible egg quality aside blastocyst grading is your follicle growth during stimulations. Based on TCM advice, usually good quality eggs respond better to stimulations - i.e. they reach around 10mm at day 5 and/or around 12mm on day 7.
 
Hi eatpraylove,
If i want to do pgs, I need to start a fresh cycle as this is not allowed on existing frozen embryos. I still have 4 more, n definitely hope to give every of them a fair chance. N there r some criteria for pgs if I m not wrong. I will be 34 this year, but pgs only allows for 35 n above (if I m not wrong).

Dear najnaj,

Please take note of the controversy surrounding PGS with regards to Mosaic embryos, which have a mixture of normal and abnormal cells. These are often tested to be genetically abnormal by PGS, but in fact can give rise to normal healthy births.

As seen in the attached diagram of a blastocyst stage embryo, the ICM gives rise to the embryo, while the TE gives rise to the placenta and yolk sac. Testing a few cells from the TE only gives you a probability about what's going on in the ICM. An embryo with abnormal (aneuploid) TE but normal ICM most likely will still make a healthy baby.

Hence, by discarding such mosaic embryos that are tested abnormal during PGS, one would lower the cumulative chances of IVF success:

Please see the following video podcasts. It describes the risk of PGS resulting in no embryos left for the patients to transfer:



In fact, the latest scientific news demonstrate that mosaic embryos can self-correct and give rise to normal births ! PGS / PGT-A may not even be necessary !

Here are some relevant articles:






 

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Haha ya, same here. I also only have 1 deep vein that worked. Sometimes it may not even worked. I may end up spend 1 hour plus in d clinic just to draw 1 tube. Chr nurses recognised me for that
I see, thanks for the info. Why stopping menses b4 FET help?
For my case, I had severe endometriosis and had surgery to remove some years back. But v soon, it recurred n recommend to try ivf to race against the growth. N i also v reluctant to go for surgery to remove the new cyst again. my nuh dr is quite pro, managed to retrieve quite a good no of eggs even with the cyst there.
I've no idea how it helps. The doc explained it to 'reset' the womb condition. I mean I've tried all means and no harm trying. Turned out to work for me.

I did lap to remove fibroids too but that didn't help as well.. alot of trial and error.

Maybe u can try endo scratch and transfer 2 embryos instead? And acupuncture?

I did BFP with twins b4 under Prof pc wong, but too bad ended with mc.

I don't think u need to transfer ur embryos out to pte clinic to do the FET, cos transfer technique is just like that lor, no big difference. Hope ur next cycle will be a success!
 
I've no idea how it helps. The doc explained it to 'reset' the womb condition. I mean I've tried all means and no harm trying. Turned out to work for me.

I did lap to remove fibroids too but that didn't help as well.. alot of trial and error.

Maybe u can try endo scratch and transfer 2 embryos instead? And acupuncture?

I did BFP with twins b4 under Prof pc wong, but too bad ended with mc.

I don't think u need to transfer ur embryos out to pte clinic to do the FET, cos transfer technique is just like that lor, no big difference. Hope ur next cycle will be a success!
Thanks for the hearty conversation. I was crying for the whole night as though the world collapsed again
Ya I did endo scratch since 2nd fet n it worked (at least implantation happened), so continued with endo scratch this round too. I also go tcm regularly, n taking tcm herb concurrently this round. The previous FET I stopped going acpuncture after the transfer, n did not coupled with tcm herb. This time round, I did go once after d transfer.
Haha, putting 2 embryos is kinda mentally stress based on my first FET experience. Maybe after all, it was my first trial n pin a lot of hopes on the best 2 embryos (don't even dare to sleep on d side at all for my FET). Ya, I m thinking to put 2 next time.
 
Thanks for the hearty conversation. I was crying for the whole night as though the world collapsed again
Ya I did endo scratch since 2nd fet n it worked (at least implantation happened), so continued with endo scratch this round too. I also go tcm regularly, n taking tcm herb concurrently this round. The previous FET I stopped going acpuncture after the transfer, n did not coupled with tcm herb. This time round, I did go once after d transfer.
Haha, putting 2 embryos is kinda mentally stress based on my first FET experience. Maybe after all, it was my first trial n pin a lot of hopes on the best 2 embryos (don't even dare to sleep on d side at all for my FET). Ya, I m thinking to put 2 next time.
I cried after each failed attempts, think its normal.. its all about luck I feel. All the best!
 
Dear najnaj,

Please take note of the controversy surrounding PGS with regards to Mosaic embryos, which have a mixture of normal and abnormal cells. These are often tested to be genetically abnormal by PGS, but in fact can give rise to normal healthy births.

As seen in the attached diagram of a blastocyst stage embryo, the ICM gives rise to the embryo, while the TE gives rise to the placenta and yolk sac. Testing a few cells from the TE only gives you a probability about what's going on in the ICM. An embryo with abnormal (aneuploid) TE but normal ICM most likely will still make a healthy baby.

Hence, by discarding such mosaic embryos that are tested abnormal during PGS, one would lower the cumulative chances of IVF success:

Please see the following video podcasts. It describes the risk of PGS resulting in no embryos left for the patients to transfer:



In fact, the latest scientific news demonstrate that mosaic embryos can self-correct and give rise to normal births ! PGS / PGT-A may not even be necessary !

Here are some relevant articles:






It’s good to hear these other stuff. I didn’t go into deeper research so thanks for the sharing! The living cells are so diverse and able to work itself out. Methods and standards are at best working to correct itself and often lives are sacrificed. An analogy would be trying to grade a kid too early and ostracised the kid which he/she eventually turn out to be just a late deverloper who is eventually successful. Your sharing is helpful to bring caution to PGS and the hype surrounding it. Thanks
 
Since pgs is out until you do fresh and qualify the requirements, another alternative way to get a glimpse of possible egg quality aside blastocyst grading is your follicle growth during stimulations. Based on TCM advice, usually good quality eggs respond better to stimulations - i.e. they reach around 10mm at day 5 and/or around 12mm on day 7.
I see. I already 4got the growth rate of my follicles, as my ER was done mid last year. Based on what I recalled, I think my follicles can meet optimum size at around day 14 (I did TOO n 2x iui b4 embark into ivf journey).
Do you all have any experience comparing btw medicated n natural FET ? My nuh doc strongly recommended medicated as I m working n will be much tougher to try natural FET. But I always took very long to pass the lining requirements (>28 days to proceed with the transfer). Not sure if that could be a factor.
 
Is anyone experience bad migraines from the blocker jabs? Today is my 5th day into the blocker jabs and have been having really bad migraines, is that normal?
 

I see. I already 4got the growth rate of my follicles, as my ER was done mid last year. Based on what I recalled, I think my follicles can meet optimum size at around day 14 (I did TOO n 2x iui b4 embark into ivf journey).
Do you all have any experience comparing btw medicated n natural FET ? My nuh doc strongly recommended medicated as I m working n will be much tougher to try natural FET. But I always took very long to pass the lining requirements (>28 days to proceed with the transfer). Not sure if that could be a factor.

I have yet to do my FET so can’t help on this. Maybe other sisters here can advise. Since you had BFP before (albeit chemical), I always believe it’s easier to conceive eventually. It’s a matter of time (and luck)! Hang in there!
 

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