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Otw back home from KKH now..baby is fine..heartbeat is seen..bleeding has lessen..now only staining..increased my dosage for duphaston..so relieved at the moment..and on hospitalisation leave..on bed rest for 3weeks..


Santhiya
Great to hear the news baby is fine. Take care of urself and rest well..
 


Thanks for the wishes everyone..am still having brownish discharges..hope it will stop soon..as long as baby is doing well,I can put my mind at ease..


Santhiya
 
Mesara, I hope u can start yr cycle soon. I'm very anxious abt my next cycle. Dr Loh says my condition really nt v good... Like u, my AMH dropped half.

Ginger, congrats!!!!! Grabbing yr bb dust!!!

Santhiya, good to hear that bb is doing well. Congrats again!!!
 
Santhiya glad to hear baby is doing fine. Pls bed rest and take good care.

Thanks for support sisters. Many sisters who bfp n miscarriage are still struggling in this thread for bfp. Its certainly not easy. I will check on my fibroids. It was shocking to see fibroids grow after bfp. Till stim complete er et nothing was said abt fibroids in womb. Only when I spot dr loh scanned m said there is a fierce fibroid beside baby. Anyway I will wait for system to be cleared before deciding wat to do next. Poas still show preggy. So hcg havent zero yet.

Tsf dont worry. I managed to bfp so still have hope. My adenomyosis condition made et a big challenge for dr tan. He placed the embryos deep inside. You just need one good embryo. Thus please go tcm. Since u r on long cycle ask for saizen which will help in egg quality. Quantity secondary. I was on long cycle but didnt take saizen so even when I retrieved 16 follies only 2 fertilized and the two embryos looked beautiful very well defined shape. 9 cells at day 3. Think thats why bfp. Never lose hope or doubt yourself gal. Have faith. What's ours will be ours. Its a matter of time.
 
Santhiya glad to hear baby is doing fine. Pls bed rest and take good care.

Thanks for support sisters. Many sisters who bfp n miscarriage are still struggling in this thread for bfp. Its certainly not easy. I will check on my fibroids. It was shocking to see fibroids grow after bfp. Till stim complete er et nothing was said abt fibroids in womb. Only when I spot dr loh scanned m said there is a fierce fibroid beside baby. Anyway I will wait for system to be cleared before deciding wat to do next. Poas still show preggy. So hcg havent zero yet.

Tsf dont worry. I managed to bfp so still have hope. My adenomyosis condition made et a big challenge for dr tan. He placed the embryos deep inside. You just need one good embryo. Thus please go tcm. Since u r on long cycle ask for saizen which will help in egg quality. Quantity secondary. I was on long cycle but didnt take saizen so even when I retrieved 16 follies only 2 fertilized and the two embryos looked beautiful very well defined shape. 9 cells at day 3. Think thats why bfp. Never lose hope or doubt yourself gal. Have faith. What's ours will be ours. Its a matter of time.
Thanks for the wishes mesara..
Have u checked ur HCG level again? So sorry for ur loss..u will make it thru successfully one day..rectify the problem first.. All the best to u..will pray for u.. :)


Santhiya
 
Mesara good to hear from you.

So should I say you haven't passed out the sac? Mine was quite quick though I can't remember the exact number. Hope nature helps you along soon.

I don't think it should be cheered for you to ttc soonest (Sorry that's my opinion). Your body and mind need to heal first. I'm glad to read that you're addressing the fibroid condition and do trust that your doc is going to help you.

No one should tell you when you should start ttc again. In fact don't tell yourself "I must get bfp by this by then". This is an unnecessary stress. Till your body is ready, then go at it again.

For me i should be starting on stim likely 3rd week of July.
 
Santhiya glad to hear baby is doing fine. Pls bed rest and take good care.

Thanks for support sisters. Many sisters who bfp n miscarriage are still struggling in this thread for bfp. Its certainly not easy. I will check on my fibroids. It was shocking to see fibroids grow after bfp. Till stim complete er et nothing was said abt fibroids in womb. Only when I spot dr loh scanned m said there is a fierce fibroid beside baby. Anyway I will wait for system to be cleared before deciding wat to do next. Poas still show preggy. So hcg havent zero yet.

Tsf dont worry. I managed to bfp so still have hope. My adenomyosis condition made et a big challenge for dr tan. He placed the embryos deep inside. You just need one good embryo. Thus please go tcm. Since u r on long cycle ask for saizen which will help in egg quality. Quantity secondary. I was on long cycle but didnt take saizen so even when I retrieved 16 follies only 2 fertilized and the two embryos looked beautiful very well defined shape. 9 cells at day 3. Think thats why bfp. Never lose hope or doubt yourself gal. Have faith. What's ours will be ours. Its a matter of time.
Hi mesara, after my lap, my AMH dropped to low reserve. Severe endo affects egg quality as well. 16 is a great number of eggs. I suspect because of the decreased quality tats y u only had 2 fertilized. For me, if I manage to get even 6 eggs, after subtraction of those mature and able to fertilize eggs, dunno how many will be left. Just getting myself mentally prepared. It's a tough journey for u and me plus many others out there. Let's pray and hope for a miracle....
 
Redvel I dont knw if sac out yet. Will it only show in thr scan?? I have no clue if anything can can done for fibroids in womb. Prior ivf I didnt have fibroids in womb. Docs r not keen to perform any surgery as they dont wanna damage the womb. Dr Tan mentioned if my July scan shows thatsa sac is out n lining n hcg normal can go for natural fet at nuh where i have a frozen embryo. He does not recommend anymore surgery.

I surfed thru the net madly for natural remedies against fibroids. Came across earth clinic website that many sisters took pure aloe juice and black strap molasses for fibroids n it shrank n went away. Some managed to conceive as well. Guess nobharm trying this for a month. Hope and pray all goes well.

Advance wishes for your next cycle gal. Lets jia you
 
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Hi mesara, after my lap, my AMH dropped to low reserve. Severe endo affects egg quality as well. 16 is a great number of eggs. I suspect because of the decreased quality tats y u only had 2 fertilized. For me, if I manage to get even 6 eggs, after subtraction of those mature and able to fertilize eggs, dunno how many will be left. Just getting myself mentally prepared. It's a tough journey for u and me plus many others out there. Let's pray and hope for a miracle....
Tsf worrying is not gonna help us in any way gal..I knw its easier said than done. U must start yr cycle with 100 percent confidence in yourself n embbies. Believe miracles do happen. Negativity even before cycle is not healthy gal. Be positive and try yr very best. There are many challenges and hurdles that awaits us in the ivf journey but we must overcome them with postivity. For now relax your body. Go tcm n tiao body. Take healthy food. Start feeling excited for the upcoming pregnancy as that's the goal of this ivf journey. Once u start then handle and tackle the worries. For now stay happy.
 
Mesara, I believe all miscarrying sacs can be seen when it's expelled naturally. For me it was a size of a ping pong ball...It was no doubt my sac. So if you haven't seen something like that, unlikely it's expelled yet. That's just what I know based on personal experience. I believe the scan should pick it up too if it's still not out by then. My gynae did a transvaginal scan and he said all cleared. So I believe the scan can pick it up if otherwise.

Did Dr loh strongly suggest to remove the fibroid? Dr Tan thinks otherwise? What's in your mind about these 2 different opinions?

The recipe for against fibroid sounds natural there. Try it out no harm indeed.

Thanks. We will stay positive surely.
 
Congrats Tinga and Ginger. Grabbing loads of babydust. Ginger I tested positive 8dp3dt which was 11dpo. Hcg cud be high thats why detected early. Mine was 306. Wish both of of you safe and smooth pregnancy ladies.

My status is I am waiting for natural miscarriage bleed and spotting to be over. I don't have any heavy bleed. Its been dark brown n maroon thick stains and clots. Wonder how long it will take for this episode to be over. Cant wait to start back again as age clock ticking away. Seeing dr in a months time. Hope and pray by then all back to normal.

Cant believe it is all over for me. Hcg detected early numbers climbed well n nil spot till week 6. Saw baby sac fetel pole and heartbeat just the day I lost it. Its just v v v painful. Dr loh mentioned I had fibroids in womb and they could have taken all nutrients meant for baby as they looked big. Also with the hormonal tablets n jab they just gain strength. Miscarriage cud be due to that n nothing to do with dear baby. Anyway its over and I have to move on.

Redvel when r u starting to cycle again? Is it long sor short protocol? I wonder when I can start cycling.

Hope all the best for your bt. Can I know which tcm r u going to pls.
Mesara, you take care of your body. Someday we will be parents. Let's jiayou!
 
Tsf worrying is not gonna help us in any way gal..I knw its easier said than done. U must start yr cycle with 100 percent confidence in yourself n embbies. Believe miracles do happen. Negativity even before cycle is not healthy gal. Be positive and try yr very best. There are many challenges and hurdles that awaits us in the ivf journey but we must overcome them with postivity. For now relax your body. Go tcm n tiao body. Take healthy food. Start feeling excited for the upcoming pregnancy as that's the goal of this ivf journey. Once u start then handle and tackle the worries. For now stay happy.
I like ur positive thinking, it is so difficult to think positively while failure keep coming in. Stay positive and ur Dream will come true one day.
I did my fibroid remove on dec 2012, and on march this year, I did another
Polyp removal as well. My doctor is suggesting to have a 'clean' environment before starting the ER. I'm glad that she clear off all hurdle for me before stating the ivf process.
 
Gd morning. ...
Tested on clearblue digi this morning which is 10dp3dt n its BFN... totally gutted. Can't help burst out crying when my hubby asked. Will go gp do a blood test to confirm n move on but still gotta wait till next wed for blood test in kkh....
 
Hi everyone, any one hav dr thh's email address? Wanna ask him abt af flow..it has been getting lesser, not sure if I need to do any scan or at least get his advice whether any issue with the reduced flow. Mmm or can I jus pop by to say I wanna c him cos im gg for the briefing this fri? Thought better to hav thorough chk b4 starting cycle again..
 
Gd morning. ...
Tested on clearblue digi this morning which is 10dp3dt n its BFN... totally gutted. Can't help burst out crying when my hubby asked. Will go gp do a blood test to confirm n move on but still gotta wait till next wed for blood test in kkh....
Hug hug eeznyl, probably tested again 2 days later, dun give up ur hope yet. My bt was 0.1 on the first test but it show up as 94.3 2 days later. It is still possible at this early stage.
 
Sisters.. I have tested after seeing ginger tested hers.. Do you all think that the test line is evaporation line? It's so light...
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Hug hug eeznyl, probably tested again 2 days later, dun give up ur hope yet. My bt was 0.1 on the first test but it show up as 94.3 2 days later. It is still possible at this early stage.

Thx Tinga, I remember ur situation! Really happy for u but can't imagine the shock n surprise u went thru that few days. I read that there were indeed stories of ladies getting bfp after bfn on 10dp3dt but I really doubt im one of the lucky ones. Just wanna be more prepared for the result.
 
Thx Tinga, I remember ur situation! Really happy for u but can't imagine the shock n surprise u went thru that few days. I read that there were indeed stories of ladies getting bfp after bfn on 10dp3dt but I really doubt im one of the lucky ones. Just wanna be more prepared for the result.
Do not give up till you get your blood test.. :)
 
Tinga.. Thanks for showing me... I thought it is evaporation line cause I wait for a minute or 2 to see it.. And wanted to try again tomorrow. 9dp2dt..
 
Thx Tinga, I remember ur situation! Really happy for u but can't imagine the shock n surprise u went thru that few days. I read that there were indeed stories of ladies getting bfp after bfn on 10dp3dt but I really doubt im one of the lucky ones. Just wanna be more prepared for the result.
Ya. It was a roller coaster ride for me on that. I was like u, trying to prepare myself for the bt outcome. I always think that I have a good chance this round but when first heard the result from my doc, I really dunno how to react. Luckily that at the next day it turn out to be positive on the hpt. There is still hope even like my case. BT result negative but hpt positive. :) wait for 2 more days and test again, Jia you
 
Urs is the Watson tester right? Get the cb digital to test again since urs now is positive, it Shd tell u how many wk u r pregnant now :)
 
I personally don't like to spend on CB digital. Overpriced :p

My last bfps I bought hpt from mustafa. I think 2.50 each thereabout. It's definitely much sensitive and clearer compared to Internet cheapies or even Watson or guardian in house brand. But of course troublesome to purposely go mustafa to pick them up. If happen to be there can buy and stock up.
 
I personally don't like to spend on CB digital. Overpriced :p

My last bfps I bought hpt from mustafa. I think 2.50 each thereabout. It's definitely much sensitive and clearer compared to Internet cheapies or even Watson or guardian in house brand. But of course troublesome to purposely go mustafa to pick them up. If happen to be there can buy and stock up.
Yeah redvel, cb digital really expensive !! But when u are unsure abt the line, no choice have to choose that to confirm the pregnancy :) Personally I found that Watson one is not sensitive enough and slow. It took more than 5 min for the line to appear for my case.
 
CB digital ones are definitely good for emergency cases. =)

I agree Watsons’ sucks on their hpt.

This is from Mustafa. I was 4wks ish.
 

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Tinga ya lor I believe it's because the mustafa hpt is good. I never had to look to hard at that hpt for line. It comes out quite clear one.
 
Thx Tinga, I remember ur situation! Really happy for u but can't imagine the shock n surprise u went thru that few days. I read that there were indeed stories of ladies getting bfp after bfn on 10dp3dt but I really doubt im one of the lucky ones. Just wanna be more prepared for the result.
Eeznyl,

Test 2 days later. Implantation can happen between 6 to 12 days after O. Not trying to raise yr hope but u will never know. Both tinga and i are good examples.
 
Ya. It was a roller coaster ride for me on that. I was like u, trying to prepare myself for the bt outcome. I always think that I have a good chance this round but when first heard the result from my doc, I really dunno how to react. Luckily that at the next day it turn out to be positive on the hpt. There is still hope even like my case. BT result negative but hpt positive. :) wait for 2 more days and test again, Jia you

Thx Tinga. Bt test done n will b waiting for the results shld b out in the evening. I really hope im as lucky as you! If bt is negative I dun think I haf the courage to test again. Will wait till AF comes.

All the best for ur 2nd BT!
 
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Eeznyl,


Test 2 days later. Implantation can happen between 6 to 12 days after O. Not trying to raise yr hope but u will never know. Both tinga and i are good examples.

Thx Portia! I really hope I can be lucky no. 3! Took urgent leave today cos im worried I might cry in ofc so might drop by mustafa get more test kits that redvel mentioned. Clear blue is so ex... I used to order first response early results fr amazon... fraction of cb price n very sensitive.
 
Thx Portia! I really hope I can be lucky no. 3! Took urgent leave today cos im worried I might cry in ofc so might drop by mustafa get more test kits that redvel mentioned. Clear blue is so ex... I used to order first response early results fr amazon... fraction of cb price n very sensitive.
Yah. I know. CB digital very ex. But i tell myself, if spending $20 can end my anxiety and stress from guessing if it is a double line, it is worth thr $$$
 
Yah. I know. CB digital very ex. But i tell myself, if spending $20 can end my anxiety and stress from guessing if it is a double line, it is worth thr $$$

That's wat I thot too. Actually I use normal clear blue tested ytd n there was a super faint positive whereby u need to see it under sunlight. But the line is very thin unlike the thick control line. That brings my hope up n I went to buy the digital to test.... nv expect that it dashed the hope I have completely.
 
Hi everyone, any one hav dr thh's email address? Wanna ask him abt af flow..it has been getting lesser, not sure if I need to do any scan or at least get his advice whether any issue with the reduced flow. Mmm or can I jus pop by to say I wanna c him cos im gg for the briefing this fri? Thought better to hav thorough chk b4 starting cycle again..
@lainelaine, I saw Dr THH last week and for me I had reduced af after lap & he suggested I do the SIS to make sure there are no abnormality in my womb. You might want to make an appt with him & let him him know your af issue.
 
That's wat I thot too. Actually I use normal clear blue tested ytd n there was a super faint positive whereby u need to see it under sunlight. But the line is very thin unlike the thick control line. That brings my hope up n I went to buy the digital to test.... nv expect that it dashed the hope I have completely.
I'm the same situation as urs. I done my hpt on my first bt morning and I saw a very faint line. But when I went for bt the result was 0.1 only! I think my situation is the worse than urs. Really hope that ur result can come back and be positive.
 
I'm the same situation as urs. I done my hpt on my first bt morning and I saw a very faint line. But when I went for bt the result was 0.1 only! I think my situation is the worse than urs. Really hope that ur result can come back and be positive.

Tinga, I feel ur case could be lab error? U had a faint positive so how can be 0.1 n next day immediately 90+. I now suspect my first CB test is an evap line as its very thin. I google it n read lotsa pple giving bad review on CB test as its blue dye n apparently the thin line is highly possible evap line.

Anyway, I hope I have grabbed enuf of ur baby dust n be as lucky as you!
 


My was also look like evap line, that's why I m so into the bt result, I thought that is my fate. Finger cross until ur bt result us out. Btw, do u wan to check w ur doc see what he/she said?
 

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