blur xuan,
yep, there is nothing wrong telling the whole world, but of course its up to individual comfortability level. we are not that comfortable to broadcast to the whole world, afterall its a personal matter between hb and myself. i only tell a few pple, ended up everyone asking me every few days, and you will feel very stressed. if u preg nevermind, u feel happy to share the joy. but what happens if u failed, u gota explain the same story to the whole world over and over again. Already very sad, still gota entertain so many questions, and that makes u feel very frustrated. the most irritating words you wana hear are 'why u fail? WHY WHY WHY'