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yalor. i waited on behalf of wendy also got emotional breakdown ler... now lagi worst, i have wait until tomorrow wor...
 
Hahahaa..u all make me laugh le..so kan cheong for me..
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..the nurse say she cant do much coz they dispatch come n pick up in the afternoon nia..
 
Gum, it is v expensive for me coz my stimulation drugs dosage is quite high. The guidance range I was told is 12k to 16k. My spending exceeded beyond the max range.
 
Hi Sisters..Nurse SS just msg me..I have no bbdust to share with you..
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Result is negative..sorry to disappoint n keep everyone waiting..
 
Wendy...big hugs to u. I do feel u. Be strong ya. We wil b here stil accompanying u til u succeed. For now, rest well, prepare ur body for e next round but b4 dat enjoy e 'good' food dat u hav missed ol along
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Dont worry sisters..i am fine..I expected this to come..Anyway,really no luck lo..there are a few BT today,but i am the only unlucky 1..wa piangz..really jialek..haiz
 
wendy,

rest well n tiao ur body before next try.

Last nite, my x colleague just asked me how was my try, i told her i half give up liao...kana scold by her, nvr give up...
 
wendy, so sorry. now is my turn to give hugs to u. let's rest our body and yes like nurul said.. enjoy the 'good' food tt we have missed during this 2ww. jiayo!
 
Angel, just to confirm, you spend more than S$16k for your fresh? i will properly need to pay for the max too, as Dr Loh say he will gives me the highest dogose. may i ask how much you pay in total har?
 
E best Comfort i get from Dr loh is to wait for menses to come if menses dont come must retest again coz he still think i have symptom of pregnancy...haha
 
so wendy you will wait for your AF to report; ir not, possible BFP right? then what about the support? Dr loh got give you any?
 
Hope..If bt shows negative will be BFN liao so not possible BFP 1..

Angel..i never ask le..Since she say negative then i never ask lo
 
Wendy, I think you should ask, really.. I was told that if it's below 100 they consider not pregnant even though still got hcg in blood. Furthermore you totally no hcg jabs for 2ww support, so if there are traces of hcg in you then it's still possible..
 
Another bad new, my AF is here! U Sistas are brave, never give up! There are many struggles deep inside my heart. I guess most Sistas here understand what we are going thr here is very straining both physically n mentally. The pain deep inside my heart is beyond words can explain. There are so many questions go unanswered. I know there will be many support n encouragement coming in. Thank in advance! I need some quiet moment to accept the fact. Don't worry I will be strong as life is full of ups n downs. Just need a little time n space.

Wendy, I really don't know what to say to you....Stay strong!

Cockcock, wanna tell u pls dont take your health too lightly. U know how blessed to have a twin and this journey has been really really difficult, so pls take care of yourself n bb.
 
Hi sisters..Thanks for all the support n encouragement that I get from this forum..Dont worry for me as i am really fine..
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This time round,timing is not right..
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I knew it from the start..Everything happens for a reason too..and its god will too..

This time round,i think i can handle it much better coz this is not the 1st time i failed..heehee..From the 1st day,i had a Mc during my natural conception,i know things are not going to be right for me..

SInce i decided to embark on IVF,i know the route is not going to be smooth...From IVF cycle,i experience everything..you name it i get it..hehee..SEvere OHSS,tap water,water in the lung..and eventually delivered my poor little boy in ww 17..

Then i BFN for my FET..it was a pain for me..i cried coz i tot my son will be back to recarnate...but i am proven wrg..this fresh cycle,i am proven wrg again..
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but i never tear for i know that my son is not ready to recarnate this round..
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I will just wait for his time to come and get preggy in time to come..i will keep my faith going..so dont worry abt me..
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n thanks for all the support..

CockCock..I am off the roller coaster now..
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Oh no, Wendy, Bigbear,i m saddened to read.
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Wendy you are strong! I also feel you should at least know the hcg level. Anyway you have a right to.

Bigbear still must go for BT ya? Just to be sure.
 
babyjourney~
you hungry in middle of night eh? I remember during my 2ww on my bfp round i was hungry in the middle of night too towards the end of 2ww..maybe really good news for you leh
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Wendy,
I am so so so sorry to hear that it's BFN. My heart sank when I read your posting
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Hugs... Do give yourself some time to break away from this and try again when you are prepared.

Bigbear,
Sorry to know that your AF came. Hugs...

Wendy & Bigbear,
I can fully understand your feeling at this moment as I myself have been going thru many times of BFN also
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But I still think that if we really want to hv our own child, then we hv to stay strong and dun give up. I believe our efforts will be paid off one day
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Wendy, BIG HUGZ!!! I m so shocked to read ur update. U r so strong. I wish i m dreaming cos i just woke up. I really dont know wat to say.

Bigbear, sorry that your af came. Pls go for bt to confirm okie.
 
Wendy,
I can't help but tear when I saw ur post. No matter how brief ur son was with u, u will still love him 100% or even more. I'm sure he's waiting for u to be his mummy again too n this time will be for a long long long time.

Bigbear,
Enough said.... Take ur time to grieve n mope but remember to pick urself up *hugs*

Cockcock,
I've been wanting to say this to u. I know the way dr sadhana tells u is affecting how u view ur pregnancy. U just didn't want to disappoint anyone so the less ppl know the better but can u imagine how ur parents would feel if something really happen to u? Definitely being a gao ling can fu is not easy but u should be enjoying it too. I know how u feel cos when I manage to conceive I always think would this happiness last? Or would it be taken away from me unexpectedly? But I also realize this is the time the support from immediate family is most important n I'm sure they would want to be a part of it too. U may think I'm being presumptuous abt ur relationship with ur parents but trust me when u have children n some more u r having 2 at one go, family support is really really important.
 
hi sisters..Thanks for all the hugs..
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..I am enjoying my coke and going for a jog with hb soon...heehee..life is still the same for us just abit lonely nia..


Bbjourney,jiayou..you have to break the curse for our ride..
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Eskimobb,i am prepared to welcome my son back to me again..i know his soul is always with me but just that timing is not rite..
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Don't know why suddenly feel like crying. Slap myself. Headache headache. Tell myself must still zen for these 2 wks but still suddenly felt so sad.
 
Sistas, i just finished my 10raw EW just now. And i asking myself, why am i doing with all this stuff! All the herb and all the medicine? What if i am not getting there? I feel very emotion after wendy n bigbear outcomes.

And the terrible hot frashes i have everyday and night? Im just scared.... What if i am not getting there.....

I am very sad right now and very emotional.
 
So very sorry to hear about the news, bigbear and wendy.

Wendy, you are such a couragrous girl, continue, as ii believe the ONE up there will be touched by your patience and courage. I salute you!

Big bear, take time to heal and you will Be rewarded.

Ladies, pl do be too affected by the news today. Tomorrow is another day. And it will be better, i' m sure.
 
Sigh.. I also emo n crying... Like v bleak.. Feel so sorry for Wendy n bigbear... Don't know what to say but to ask them to stay strong n don't give up! Take the time to tiao yr body, do what u enjoy, n press on when u are ready! Jia you!

When I read what eskimobaby wrote, I oso cry.. U think I want to hide the news from my parents? My mum esp has been yielding for grandchildren n wld be so thrilled to know this.. I m sure they will be so happy for me n cook good stuff for me to eat.. But when I read of other sisters' mc, even at 17th week, I can't help worrying.. I don't want them to be happy, then disappt n heartbroken.. I know I hv to be positive n hv confidence, but I can't help worrying.., my dh hates it if he knows I think negatively... After much thot n reflecting on eskimobaby's words, I decide I will tell my parents after my scan this fri...

Hope the rest of this week we all hear good news...
 

cock cock, glad to know you've made your decision to tell your parents. I believe they will want to be there for you, through good times and bad. Let them take care of you.
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